Would You Date or Marry A Porn Star?

[echo35]

Re: Would you marry a pornstar that still works

Yes, and it would have to be Anna Miller. It looks like she has lots of fun with her current husband and close friends. I think that says a lot about trust and the relationship they have.

 

[Maggie Green]

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No man could...except another pornstar. That is why the performers tend to marry in the biz.

Not true. I know quite a few porn stars who are married to men not at all involved in the biz.

 

[Maggie Green]

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Good work. You quoted yourself, then talked down to yourself. You continue to make this easy.

:wave:

He really does make it easy!

:douchebag::douchebag::douchebag:

 

[gatico]

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I just tripped over this thread and read all the various opinions with considerable interest. Both my girl friend and I do a bit of adult content for friend's websites and DVD sales. Neither of us feels that it brings any compromise to our relationship and even though we both have other full time jobs, we love having a little extra money and dimension in our lives. As well, we mostly do bareback because we feel that is what people enjoy seeing and we believe that with regular testing, adult sets and shoots are a lot less riskier than social sex and even most swinger groups. Furthermore, it's an incorrect stereotype that adult actors only date and marry others in the industry. Both of the two women that I dated prior to my current friend had other professions and were totally OK with my "part time" weekend and vacation work. I applaud the people that posted opinions that basically we are mostly all the same in our personal expectations and many of us very effectively disconnect what we do as work from our personal relationships. More simply stated "you are NOT what you do!!"

 

[AnnaMiller]

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Yes, and it would have to be Anna Miller. It looks like she has lots of fun with her current husband and close friends. I think that says a lot about trust and the relationship they have.

Awe, thank you!! Yes, my hubby and are are in a very trusting relationship, and we always do everything together, i.e. I'm not fucking another guy unless we are all together, usually while my hubby is doing that guy's wife

 

[LukeEl]

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I would marry one but I am not coughing up no dowery!

 

[vodkazvictim]

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We found out that you don't know the meaning of the word sarcasm (when you see me channeling Sam Fisher and Georges in a post at the same time, that's either sarcasm... or I've been struck on the head by a hammer)

I like you.

Years ago I would have said, "No way!" but I've grown to really love watching my girlfriend fuck other dudes. I was recently watching one of the few hardcore vids that Sophie Strauss did and I kept thinking, "Man, I wish I had a video like this, but with my girl in it."

The thing about porn is that it's not private and I don't want my friends and family knowing that my girl is fucking other people. Also, a big part of porn is humiliation, degradation and objectification. I couldn't deal with being with somebody who's blowing five dudes at once, doing ass to mouth or being smacked in the face and called a "pig." Maybe if it was X-Art type stuff or something, then I'd be more open to it, but that's rare in modern porn.

I'm still at the no way stage and I always will be.
I can see that you love her from the way you consider the par of you to comprise one whole; treating her humiliation as yours.

Au contraire, my dear. X-Art and sites with similar content are growing more and more popular, while porn with women being degraded, being called names, the men getting violent with them, etc. is becoming less popular.

And if a girl does porn, she chooses what she does. She isn't just whored out, thrown into scenes by some disrespecting asshole who forces her to have sex with a bunch of random dudes while being whipped with a cane. Girls choose what they want to do, who they want to shoot with, when they shoot, and they can turn down any shoot they so desire in the snap of a finger. It's not like a regular 9-5 job where if you tell your boss no, you get fired. Where you have little to no choice in matters, having to suck it up and get it done for the sake of keeping your job and being considered a good worker.
Porn is very different The girls set the standards. They make the decisions on whether or not something is going to go down. Anyone directing the girls who looks down on them, personally degrades them or yells at them or otherwise gives them a hard time about refusing a scene, is a total dirtbag and is going to have a hard time finding girls willing to work with him. There is a surplus of people shooting porn today, there's no reason to shoot something you aren't happy with.

EDIT: Oh, I need to correct myself. Girls don't necessarily outright choose who they want to work with (unless they're dong a solo site, like me, in which case I get to take part in scouting for girls, whether it's for my site or someone else's site), but they do and can have a say in who they will choose NOT to work with. If a guy walked in that was utterly disgusting and a girl would rather fuck a polar bear than that dude, there's no one to stop her from saying no.

I have a polar bear suit...

I'm not married, but I've been with my girlfriend for nearly a decade and I'm just as crazy about her as I have ever been. I've seen her fuck other dudes right in front of me. I’ve seen her suck and lick cocks that weren't mine. I've seen her with cum on her face and tits that wasn't mine. And, tomorrow morning when I wake up, her beautiful face will be the first thing I see and my day will be off to a good start because of it.

I understand why many would be put off by the idea. I understand why many ore most people reject it immediately. But there are people…lots of people who have no idea what they’re missing out on. There are people in relationships who’d end up loving the idea of watching their wives or girlfriends fuck other men or know that their wives and girlfriends fuck other men. And, like me, they wouldn’t look at their wives or girlfriends any differently.

There are people (probably way more people then you’d ever expect) who can look at sex as a purely physical and enjoyable thing. Many people can watch their significant other get off and have an awesome time without any jealousy or bad thoughts fogging up their minds. Sex is a temporary act, cum washes off in the shower. It only changes things if you let it.

People are reluctant to admit this to others out of fear of being judged. I’d bet everything I own on the fact that it’s a lot higher than 10%.

As a married man let me tell you that if you live with her and have been with her for a decade then you're as good as married.
Marriage can be just a certificate. Sham marriages exist. People can havbe a more genuine marriage without the certificate than with.

Now I really don't understand how you can be happy seeing your girl with other guys, but since it works for you, I'm happy for you and I'm glad you're happy together.
You make a valid point saying that everybody desires somebody else occasionally, but there's a difference between desiring and acting upon one's desires. I understand that she may desire. I would kill her if she ever acted on her desire.

I'd ideally like her to let a gal join us in bed, but I doubt it will ever happen.
I live with it; I chose one girl over many. I made my bed and I sleep in it. Happily.
Yeah she drives me nuts, but I love her. The alternative would be many women who bore me and who I frequently dispose of.
I can't have the relationship you have where we both enjoy the body of others, but I feel I should point out that your relationship is just as valid as a monogamous one because there is love, respect and honesty.

Well of course her husband would be ok with her being in the industry. How else would it work? They never would have gotten to the marriage stage if they both didn't agree on it.

You'd be surprised just how much a married couple can disagree on.

Are you seriously so completely oblivious about the fact that porn stars, male and female, are required to take STD tests on a regular basis and show documentation as proof that they are STD free prior to working? Seriously. No shit sex isn't a joke, and neither is porn. Porn sex is, when all things considered, safer than sex in your own personal life when it comes to sleeping with multiple people. How many people have you slept with who you first said, "I'm sorry, but I can't go any further with you until we go to Planned Parenthood before getting intimate so that I can see you don't have any STDs." How many? Seriously? For fuck's sake.

While this is a valid point, I should point out that compared to a relationship where both partners are monogamous, an open relationship (shall we say?) has an inherantly higher risk of STDs.

Exactly. Every man and every woman wants to be with somebody else at some point. That's just how we are. If one can accept that and appreciate and enjoy their significant other fucking somebody else, what's the harm? And why is that some bad thing?

I don't get the whole "cuckold" fetish. I don't understand why anybody would want to be humiliated and disrespected. But I still don't judge. I can appreciate fetishes that are foreign to m,e. Why others can't do the same is beyond me.

You're not alone; I can understand that others apreciate things that I do not.

grammar is not the definition for intelligence...neither is....... if you want something to make fun of look in the mirror . and keep in mind.. i am not the one that said i would marry a woman that has a vagina that looks like a 20 lb slab of baloney that has been hit with a ax. if anyone here between us two likes intelligence ....you do the math

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I remember very few vaginas in porn looking like that and sincerely doubt that any of the gals in this thread have a vagina that looks like that.

Awe, thank you!! Yes, my hubby and are are in a very trusting relationship, and we always do everything together, i.e. I'm not fucking another guy unless we are all together, usually while my hubby is doing that guy's wife

That sounds a little like vengeance, which kinda suggests that all is not right and there's a bit of a war going on.
Of course, you should correct me if I'm wrong.

I would marry one but I am not coughing up no dowery!

You mean a dowry?
Many years ago I was dating a Panjabi lass who told me that a dowry was what the bride's family paid to have the burden off their hands.
Unless I've remembered that wrong.

When I married my wife I was given a "Prikki".
A traditional gift from the wife's family to the groom.
Had I known exactly what I was in for I would have insisted on the Prikki including her father's mercedes and boat.
I'm sure he would agree, because he warned me before our wedding; "Hey, there is a reason my hair is grey."

 

[LaLiLuLeLohan]

Re: Would you marry a pornstar that still works

As a married man let me tell you that if you live with her and have been with her for a decade then you're as good as married.
Marriage can be just a certificate. Sham marriages exist. People can havbe a more genuine marriage without the certificate than with.

Now I really don't understand how you can be happy seeing your girl with other guys, but since it works for you, I'm happy for you and I'm glad you're happy together.
You make a valid point saying that everybody desires somebody else occasionally, but there's a difference between desiring and acting upon one's desires. I understand that she may desire. I would kill her if she ever acted on her desire.

I'd ideally like her to let a gal join us in bed, but I doubt it will ever happen.
I live with it; I chose one girl over many. I made my bed and I sleep in it. Happily.
Yeah she drives me nuts, but I love her. The alternative would be many women who bore me and who I frequently dispose of.
I can't have the relationship you have where we both enjoy the body of others, but I feel I should point out that your relationship is just as valid as a monogamous one because there is love, respect and honesty.

Hey, thanks a lot man. And I'm glad to hear that you have somebody you truly love, respect and want to be with exclusively.

As far as being, "as good as married" I agree. Neither of us ever felt the need to get married and make it "official" (although that may soon change) but I definitely look at her as the person I want to be with for the rest of my life and, as far as I know, she feels the same way.

 

[bigwarmload]

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if you could lay down beside one every night knowing she just got a gang banged a few hours ago and kiss her and say good night i love you . you a better man than me..i wouldnt want the skank in my bed

Pornstars are for fucking and good girls are for marrying.

not have some chick that nailed half the guys this side of the Mississippi.

I would as long as she is careful about not getting an STD

These two guys found a way around your dilemmas. It can be done, don't be a hater.

:jk: :dunno:

 

[bigwarmload]

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^^^ Assumedly the worst part is just sitting around waiting for her to come home from her shoot.

:dunno:

 

[echo35]

Re: Would you marry a pornstar that still works

Awe, thank you!! Yes, my hubby and are are in a very trusting relationship, and we always do everything together, i.e. I'm not fucking another guy unless we are all together, usually while my hubby is doing that guy's wife

any time, love your work

 

[smoknn]

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Depends Is she gonna be too sore after a sex scene with Thor the Vagina Slayer that I can't have sex with her? In that case no but if she's good to go for a round with my angry inch than yes.

i rest my case...i have no more questions for the court. http://img196.imagevenue.com/img.php?image=425363522_download5_123_457lo.jpg

 

[The~Lone~Ranger]

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Just imagine the "what did you do at work today, dear" conversation at the dinner table.:wtf::surprise:

 

[grower_boy]

Re: Would you marry a pornstar that still works

Just imagine the "what did you do at work today, dear" conversation at the dinner table.:wtf::surprise:

You gotta love it, man. At least I would.

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

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I might insert my penis inside of a porn star but I like relationships to be monogamous.

 

[bigwarmload]

Re: Would you marry a pornstar that still works

Just imagine the "what did you do at work today, dear" conversation at the dinner table. :wtf::surprise:

[Q.] "What did you do at work today, dear?"

[A.] "Oh it was pretty boring actually sweetie, I was supposed to do a simple girl on girl scene, but someone booked the shoot wrong. Yada, yada yada, a whole bus load of guys. I am pretty tried, if you don't mind I am going to bed after we eat. (... moments later ...) Honestly I am not that hungry after this belly full of cum. I am just going to bed, sorry honey, I know you understand".

[Result:] Back to the couch fella!

 

[brodkill]

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I would only marry a pornstar that works if she abided by these rules:

1. never shoot for bangbros
2. never have sex with ron jeremy, james dean, scott nails, keiren lee, mr. pete, and all the other male pornstars i dislike
3. never shoot another anal scene
4. dont get any or anymore really ugly tattoos
5. have to beable to have sex with me on the whim
6. only shoot for the porn sights that i choose
7. only do lesbian scenes with girls id fuck
8. start an ameture pov porn site with me
9. allow me to fuck any female pornstar that i choose
10. never become an ocsm of freeones

 

[bigwarmload]

Re: Would you marry a pornstar that still works

I would only marry a pornstar that works if she abided by these rules:

1. never shoot for bangbros
2. never have sex with ron jeremy, james dean, scott nails, keiren lee, mr. pete, and all the other male pornstars i dislike
3. never shoot another anal scene
4. dont get any or anymore really ugly tattoos
5. have to beable to have sex with me on the whim
6. only shoot for the porn sights that i choose
7. only do lesbian scenes with girls id fuck
8. start an ameture pov porn site with me
9. allow me to fuck any female pornstar that i choose
10. never become an ocsm of freeones

So pretty much given your list, you could have summed up those 10 things and just said "1.) I would not marry a porn star". Or marry her, then tell her that list and wait for the divorce. :dunno:

 

[Mr Dragon]

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i might if i realy loved her and she loved me and would quite for me

 

[Harley Spencer]

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I can't believe this thread is still going on. Well, I can believe it, but I'm surprised. I went off the forum for a few days since I'm in the middle of moving out of state, so this is my first time back here since... probably since last Friday.

Anyway....

Everyone needs to stop being so judgmental and discriminating against people and lifestyles that are not similar to your own. Just because someone else is different doesn't mean it's wrong, doesn't work, isn't manageable, doesn't happen, or will end badly.

End of story.