Would You Date or Marry A Porn Star?
Re: Would you marry a pornstar that still works
Probably not, but if Diamond Foxxx wants to go out with me and see if we are compatible, I am up for it.
Probably not, but if Diamond Foxxx wants to go out with me and see if we are compatible, I am up for it.
GibbsGrad2002
Mr. Nice gallery
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Only if she don only girl-girl scene or if it is Phoenix Marie
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Hey, they each have their merits and I'm not denigrating one over the other (I like porn). I'd venture to guess that the majority of active pornstars would probably say the same thing - settling down and/or raising a family isn't high on their priority list at the moment. But to each their own.
Hey, they each have their merits and I'm not denigrating one over the other (I like porn). I'd venture to guess that the majority of active pornstars would probably say the same thing - settling down and/or raising a family isn't high on their priority list at the moment. But to each their own.
Little Red Wagon Repairman
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I'd rather see if they charge by the hour. Many do that too.
I'd rather see if they charge by the hour. Many do that too.
Harley Spencer
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You're wrong. Girls in the porn industry are just like any other girl outside of work. We have the same dreams, ambitions, we all like to chill out in front of the tv and go see movies, we do dishes, we do laundry, we have bills to pay, we eat dinner, we read, listen to music, go shopping, drink coffee, play video games. When I did boy/girl porn, any person on the street never would have known unless I told them. You can't tell the difference between girls in porn and girls who aren't in porn in real life. There's more than sex on our minds, FYI.
And PS. Porn actresses don't fuck on film 5 days a week. It's not a regular job like that. We might interact with fans every day of the week and deal with networking on a daily basis, but fucking 5 days a week every week doesn't happen. It's more like 1-2 days per week every other week or a few days per month, if that, all depending on who you're working for. For some girls it's a few times a year, for others it's a few times a month.
You're wrong. Girls in the porn industry are just like any other girl outside of work. We have the same dreams, ambitions, we all like to chill out in front of the tv and go see movies, we do dishes, we do laundry, we have bills to pay, we eat dinner, we read, listen to music, go shopping, drink coffee, play video games. When I did boy/girl porn, any person on the street never would have known unless I told them. You can't tell the difference between girls in porn and girls who aren't in porn in real life. There's more than sex on our minds, FYI.
And PS. Porn actresses don't fuck on film 5 days a week. It's not a regular job like that. We might interact with fans every day of the week and deal with networking on a daily basis, but fucking 5 days a week every week doesn't happen. It's more like 1-2 days per week every other week or a few days per month, if that, all depending on who you're working for. For some girls it's a few times a year, for others it's a few times a month.
Deepcover
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Nope couldn't do it. Plus she fucked men and women for how many hours long on set? When she comes home I just want to throw her sorry ass right in the fucking garbage...I can't marry someone who lacks self-respect or carries a hostle/frigid attitude into the household. If you can well then hats off to you but for me, NO WAY!
Nope couldn't do it. Plus she fucked men and women for how many hours long on set? When she comes home I just want to throw her sorry ass right in the fucking garbage...I can't marry someone who lacks self-respect or carries a hostle/frigid attitude into the household. If you can well then hats off to you but for me, NO WAY!
Harley Spencer
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Lacks self respect? I think it's the other way around, you and other people are the ones lacking respect for them. There is absolutely nothing wrong with doing porn and talking shit on girls who do it is messed up. The ones carrying a bad attitude are the ones who think and speak so negatively of girls in the porn industry. Sorry, but that's the truth.
Lacks self respect? I think it's the other way around, you and other people are the ones lacking respect for them. There is absolutely nothing wrong with doing porn and talking shit on girls who do it is messed up. The ones carrying a bad attitude are the ones who think and speak so negatively of girls in the porn industry. Sorry, but that's the truth.
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I agree. You'd think that people who were big enough porn fans to sign up for this board wouldn't have such a negative view of people in the industry. If I had a girlfriend who wanted to enter porn, I'd support her decision and not look at her as someone who "lacks self-respect."
Hopefully deepcover was just joking. That post isn't what I would expect to see here.
I agree. You'd think that people who were big enough porn fans to sign up for this board wouldn't have such a negative view of people in the industry. If I had a girlfriend who wanted to enter porn, I'd support her decision and not look at her as someone who "lacks self-respect."
Hopefully deepcover was just joking. That post isn't what I would expect to see here.
Deepcover
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It is a lack of self-respect. If she were a true wife she wouldn't be continuing her career in the porn industry she would understand that she is at a new stage in her life and one of the big choices she would have to choose and understand is having a bit of self-respect. I don't see how a marriage could last if the wife who worked in the industry, who loves her career lifestyle, working with multiple partners would ever improve as her naively husband (who doesn't work in the industry) pretends it's simply okay...Now if the husband is totally fine with his wife continuing her career in the industry that's different but I don't believe it is healthy. Think about it. Could that type of thinking really enhance marriage in the long run? The husband would be at breaking peak at some point in his married life would he not? Let me ask you something, if you were married and your husband was a pimp making a large profit, wouldn't that tell you he clearly has no self-respect? Of course you would be upset who wouldn't be? I sure would. And I'd be dumb enough to marry a porn star who would consistantly laugh with her associates behind my back without ever me knowing. Now you can play that confidence trick all you want but you know where I stand on this issue.
It is a lack of self-respect. If she were a true wife she wouldn't be continuing her career in the porn industry she would understand that she is at a new stage in her life and one of the big choices she would have to choose and understand is having a bit of self-respect. I don't see how a marriage could last if the wife who worked in the industry, who loves her career lifestyle, working with multiple partners would ever improve as her naively husband (who doesn't work in the industry) pretends it's simply okay...Now if the husband is totally fine with his wife continuing her career in the industry that's different but I don't believe it is healthy. Think about it. Could that type of thinking really enhance marriage in the long run? The husband would be at breaking peak at some point in his married life would he not? Let me ask you something, if you were married and your husband was a pimp making a large profit, wouldn't that tell you he clearly has no self-respect? Of course you would be upset who wouldn't be? I sure would. And I'd be dumb enough to marry a porn star who would consistantly laugh with her associates behind my back without ever me knowing. Now you can play that confidence trick all you want but you know where I stand on this issue.
Deepcover
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I would honestly like to see if you could keep that sort of faith up for the next ten years with your girlfriend if she was really considering entering the industry...If you can last that long in the relationship with your girl, well then hats off to you. All i'm saying is I couldn't do it. No way in hell.
I would honestly like to see if you could keep that sort of faith up for the next ten years with your girlfriend if she was really considering entering the industry...If you can last that long in the relationship with your girl, well then hats off to you. All i'm saying is I couldn't do it. No way in hell.
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So, if I'm reading this right, the husband gets to decide if his wife continues in her career in porn? That's not cool. Accept it, or don't jump into the relationship.
That said, I don't know if I could do it. While I have the utmost respect for women, and that certainly includes women who do porn for a living, I would have to work really hard to get my head around my wife having sex with other people. I know it is a job, I know these women are just normal women who, outside of their job have completely normal lives. I just don't know if I'm a big enough man to get past their job. That's much more a reflection on me than it is on the women doing porn, of course.
So, if I'm reading this right, the husband gets to decide if his wife continues in her career in porn? That's not cool. Accept it, or don't jump into the relationship.
That said, I don't know if I could do it. While I have the utmost respect for women, and that certainly includes women who do porn for a living, I would have to work really hard to get my head around my wife having sex with other people. I know it is a job, I know these women are just normal women who, outside of their job have completely normal lives. I just don't know if I'm a big enough man to get past their job. That's much more a reflection on me than it is on the women doing porn, of course.
Harley Spencer
Official Checked Star Member
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It's not a lack of self respect. It's no different from being sexually promiscuous in your personal life, aside from the fact that it's on film. Some people have sex with a lot of people, some don't. It doesn't make much of a difference whether it's being taped or not. There's nothing wrong with being in porn, and anyone who says otherwise is nothing but an insecure, judgmental jerk. There's also nothing wrong with not wanting to date someone in the adult industry. I couldn't, I know for damn sure that I couldn't, I'd definitely be way too jealous. I never said I wouldn't be. But I would also never look down on someone who is an adult performer, that's their choice, that's their lifestyle. I've been there, done that. I still am there, except now I'm only doing solo work and occasional g/g. To say that girls who fuck on film have no self respect and to talk about them as if they're worthless, dirty pieces of trash is just completely, disgustingly wrong.
Some girls are proud of their bodies and carefree about it, not giving a shit what other people think about them. Kudos to those girls, and in a way, I am that girl, except I do care what people think about me, to an extent. I care but I still do whatever the fuck I want.
Wouldn't you also say that it's fucked up and hypocritical of someone to watch porn, fantasize about the girls, masturbating to them, yet they go on trash talking the very girls they're dreaming about? Don't make excuses for yourself, don't try to make it look like you're not being hypocritical, because you are. It has always bothered me when I've heard men talking about how breathtakingly gorgeous girls in the adult industry are, going to strip clubs, jacking off to Playboy and Hustler magazines, watching porn, yet when faced with a girl who IS a stripper, they tell that girl, "That's disgusting," and tell their sons not to hang out with those girls. It's perfectly fine for you to want to fuck them, but god forbid you should show them any respect.
And actually no, I wouldn't give a shit if my guy were a pimp. Being a pimp doesn't necessarily require or involve any sexual relations between yourself and other people. Being a pimp is nothing more than having contacts with girls who have sex with other guys for money, taking a percentage of their pay from clients as the pimp is the one organizing the appointments and often times, providing the transportation and locations for the sex to occur.
Being in porn, being a stripper, or being an escort (or whore, hooker, prostitute, whatever term you prefer) is nothing more than a different lifestyle. It has nothing to do with lack of self respect. Just because you don't personally practice or agree with that lifestyle doesn't mean you have to think and talk so negatively about it.
It's not a lack of self respect. It's no different from being sexually promiscuous in your personal life, aside from the fact that it's on film. Some people have sex with a lot of people, some don't. It doesn't make much of a difference whether it's being taped or not. There's nothing wrong with being in porn, and anyone who says otherwise is nothing but an insecure, judgmental jerk. There's also nothing wrong with not wanting to date someone in the adult industry. I couldn't, I know for damn sure that I couldn't, I'd definitely be way too jealous. I never said I wouldn't be. But I would also never look down on someone who is an adult performer, that's their choice, that's their lifestyle. I've been there, done that. I still am there, except now I'm only doing solo work and occasional g/g. To say that girls who fuck on film have no self respect and to talk about them as if they're worthless, dirty pieces of trash is just completely, disgustingly wrong.
Some girls are proud of their bodies and carefree about it, not giving a shit what other people think about them. Kudos to those girls, and in a way, I am that girl, except I do care what people think about me, to an extent. I care but I still do whatever the fuck I want.
Wouldn't you also say that it's fucked up and hypocritical of someone to watch porn, fantasize about the girls, masturbating to them, yet they go on trash talking the very girls they're dreaming about? Don't make excuses for yourself, don't try to make it look like you're not being hypocritical, because you are. It has always bothered me when I've heard men talking about how breathtakingly gorgeous girls in the adult industry are, going to strip clubs, jacking off to Playboy and Hustler magazines, watching porn, yet when faced with a girl who IS a stripper, they tell that girl, "That's disgusting," and tell their sons not to hang out with those girls. It's perfectly fine for you to want to fuck them, but god forbid you should show them any respect.
And actually no, I wouldn't give a shit if my guy were a pimp. Being a pimp doesn't necessarily require or involve any sexual relations between yourself and other people. Being a pimp is nothing more than having contacts with girls who have sex with other guys for money, taking a percentage of their pay from clients as the pimp is the one organizing the appointments and often times, providing the transportation and locations for the sex to occur.
Being in porn, being a stripper, or being an escort (or whore, hooker, prostitute, whatever term you prefer) is nothing more than a different lifestyle. It has nothing to do with lack of self respect. Just because you don't personally practice or agree with that lifestyle doesn't mean you have to think and talk so negatively about it.
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