Would It Bother You If

You were "involved" with a chick and one of the reasons she was attracted to you (physically) was because you had a striking likeness to her ex-bf?
 
that would be a little insulting yes.
 
ST[B][URL="https://www.freeones.com/diva said:
Diva[/URL][/B], post: 5486608, member: 239508"]Nah. He must have been a good lookin guy. Can't fault her for that.

How could I possibly add to this? Listen to Diva. he is wise (even if he's racist).
 

biomech

Virtus Junxit Mors Non Separabit
Probably not.
 
Yes and no. It would be weird that that's the reason she was still attracted to me (does she still have residual feelings for him then?), but the fact that she sticks with me would prove to me that I have something (or things) going for me that are better than what he had to offer. So I'd basically be the ex 2.0. Now I'd just have to hope that there is no 3.0 or above, lol! :2 cents::dunno:
 
I can only see this being a problem if her ex was a woman. Then you should probably kill yourself.
 

SpexyAshleigh

Official Checked Star Member
Hell yes I'd be offended. I mean, ex's are ex's for a reason right? So if she liked you because you reminded her of her ex...it might mean that she's still harboring feelings for him. Otherwise she'd be repulsed by you because most ex's tend to leave a bad taste in your mouth, so to speak.

I'm thinking of the ex I'm closest to (actually, we're best friends still), but if I met a guy that looked like him...I'd be like wtf stay away from me.
 
I can only see this being a problem if her ex was a woman. Then you should probably kill yourself.

:yesyes::yesyes:

Hell yes I'd be offended. I mean, ex's are ex's for a reason right? So if she liked you because you reminded her of her ex...it might mean that she's still harboring feelings for him. Otherwise she'd be repulsed by you because most ex's tend to leave a bad taste in your mouth, so to speak.

I'm thinking of the ex I'm closest to (actually, we're best friends still), but if I met a guy that looked like him...I'd be like wtf stay away from me.

No offense meant/thanks for the input, but you're a girl. You don't exactly have the same perspective here as us guys do... :bowdown::dunno:
 
What's to be offended about? If you buy a banana and it's rotten inside, you don't stop eating bananas forever. If the ex says straight up, "The only reason I am with you is because you look like my ex" then I can see the problem. But if they're just attracted to you because you look similar, what's the problem? Good looking is good looking.
 
Hell yes I'd be offended. I mean, ex's are ex's for a reason right? So if she liked you because you reminded her of her ex...it might mean that she's still harboring feelings for him. Otherwise she'd be repulsed by you because most ex's tend to leave a bad taste in your mouth, so to speak.

I'm thinking of the ex I'm closest to (actually, we're best friends still), but if I met a guy that looked like him...I'd be like wtf stay away from me.

finally someone who see's what i see. i find it extremely insulting and aggravating.
 

SpexyAshleigh

Official Checked Star Member
:yesyes::yesyes:



No offense meant/thanks for the input, but you're a girl. You don't exactly have the same perspective here as us guys do... :bowdown::dunno:

Sure, but I'm a girl and I'm thinking with the mind of a girl...if I started dating a guy because he looked like my ex, it'd probably be because I'm still attracted to my ex, or had feelings for him. Now I'm not speaking for all girls, just myself here...but yeah. Most of my ex's, I'd be turned off if a guy I was dating looked like one of them but if I found myself attracted to a guy because he looked like an ex I was fond of...it'd probably be because I have feelings leftover for them. Again, just me. :)

And on the flipside, I'd be offended if a guy even mentioned his ex to me, let alone comparing me to her. But I guess guys think differently. *shrugs*
 
What's to be offended about? If you buy a banana and it's rotten inside, you don't stop eating bananas forever. If the ex says straight up, "The only reason I am with you is because you look like my ex" then I can see the problem. But if they're just attracted to you because you look similar, what's the problem? Good looking is good looking.

Right? :dunno::wtf:

Sure, but I'm a girl and I'm thinking with the mind of a girl...if I started dating a guy because he looked like my ex, it'd probably be because I'm still attracted to my ex, or had feelings for him. Now I'm not speaking for all girls, just myself here...but yeah. Most of my ex's, I'd be turned off if a guy I was dating looked like one of them but if I found myself attracted to a guy because he looked like an ex I was fond of...it'd probably be because I have feelings leftover for them. Again, just me. :)

And on the flipside, I'd be offended if a guy even mentioned his ex to me, let alone comparing me to her. But I guess guys think differently. *shrugs*

LOOK. I'm not debating the validity of your statements, I'm dating the necessity of them. You can't think like a guy. PERIOD. And a woman's opinion isn't what we need on this particular subject. This is a "hey dude" type question. Although (like I said before), your input is appreciated, there's no need to get on any sort of high (or fucking short, really... :dunno:) horse, because this isn't your fight. I mean if you were watching a pro sports game would you run out onto the field/whatnot and try to join the game? Because that (to me :2 cents:) seems like what you're doing here... :2 cents::dunno:
 
Does she have a nice rack?

If she calls out his name during sex, then "finish" (never waste a load) and end it with her. :dunno:

We go out with chicks because they remind us of our pornstar dreamgirls, right? Just sayin what's the diff here?
 
Spexy...Let's say you left your ex because he was a cheap, rude, lying asshole. You wouldn't give another good, polite, honest guy a chance because they have similar facial features? That is crazy to me.
 
Right? :dunno::wtf:



LOOK. I'm not debating the validity of your statements, I'm dating the necessity of them. You can't think like a guy. PERIOD. And a woman's opinion isn't what we need on this particular subject. This is a "hey dude" type question. Although (like I said before), your input is appreciated, there's no need to get on any sort of high (or fucking short, really... :dunno:) horse, because this isn't your fight. I mean if you were watching a pro sports game would you run out onto the field/whatnot and try to join the game? Because that (to me :2 cents:) seems like what you're doing here... :2 cents::dunno:

Jesus. Take it easy there B2J. This ain't Little Rascals. I don't see a no girls allowed sign. :1orglaugh
 
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