I think we all have seen it: young, beautiful female with a cripple boyfriend barely able to move by her side. I once even saw such couple with kids!
Makes me wanna think what I as a physically fit handsome human being am doing wrong.
It’s not just that - I’m seeing all kinds of shitty males with partners and kids. The type of persons I would most probably make fun of.
Let me, as someone who qualifies for what you call a crpple, take a minute or two to tell you some things from my life experience.
First, everyone is different, and thus finds different things attractive. Maybe specifying what you consider, makes a "Cripple" would begin to help. Guys walkingn with a stick? Guys who have artificial limbs? Guys who are just completely unfit, like the schoolbook nerd? Wheelchair-bound people?
Next point:
You look at celebrities and their dates? Butt-ugly guys dating supermodels? Welcome to what fame and money can do!
Or writers, playwrights, etc. Being smart, and maybe having a good sense of huour, is a MAJOR turn-on
Can you laugh about yourself? That would be a start!
And the hardest thing to do:
Don't try too hard. In fact, don't even try at all, just be a great guy and be confident in yourself.
That may be the hardest part.
Maybe you should just get rich, that helps.