Woman only want sex?

[RealMenSwallow]

Okay...so, there are women who just want sex? Because I thought they were called porn stars... I'm not really into the 100% sexual relationship. And I am young. It just isn't very interesting to me. I don't want a bang and move on type of situation...that just isn't any fun. I like to get to know someone, and build something together, instead of just bang each others brains out and forget about it. Which is impossible. Is there a single guy in here who has forgotten a woman he has been with? Seriously? (All blackout drinking aside of course.)

 

[assholebythedoor]

Seriously, I don't even remember the last time I had sex. It's been over 4 years since I had sex I could say that for sure happened. Now on the other hand, I see what your talking about. Most men use date rape drugs to get woman to sleep with them. It literally shuts down your central nervous system if you are fed enough. But, I love woman too much to do that. I wouldn't talk behind there back, If I think your in the wrong I'll tell you in your face you ain't shit.

 

[bodie54]

Well, I'm no expert, but I think women tend to appreciate a man who can hold and express a coherent thought.

Most men use date rape drugs to get woman to sleep with them.

:wtf:

 

[assholebythedoor]

that is a complete bunch of bullshit, it happens all the time to where a woman ends up having sex, because that is its main purpose to throw your senses STRAIGHT OUT OF LINE. If it was to happen to a man, it takes longer for it to flush through there body. It takes up to 10 years for it to be completely out of there system depending on there work ethic, and sense of dignity. Or whatever they have to say for themselves. Some woman you just can't break your moment of silence for, and some woman you can talk for the time in 25 years too. I know there's a logic and I really don't care to talk to someone who wants me to express and have a coherent thought, If I have to try that hard to please a easy woman, seriously, it ain't hard to tell. You know, what I'm saying?

 

[titsrock]

Well, I'm no expert, but I think women tend to appreciate a man who can hold and express a coherent thought.

:1orglaugh Nicely put Bodie. I was going to write something not so subtle...

OP: You seem conflicted. I can't decipher whatever the hell you want. Sex and conversation are separate now? :dunno:

 

[anomaly]

So, How do you tell the difference between a woman who only wants sex and a woman that you could actually have a conversation with?

You need to get some game buddy. Don't fall for that BS that women don't like to fuck. A great conversation with the right seduction will get you all the sex you want.:yinyang:

 

[KittyKat]

OP: You seem conflicted. I can't decipher whatever the hell you want. Sex and conversation are separate now? :dunno:

I thought they were mutually exclusive:dunno: But then I like to talk and I like sex.

On the romance issue - there are plenty of women who still appreciate old fashioned romance. Don't believe all the crap you see on shows like Sex and the City.:2 cents:

 

[José_3]

Middlefingerluv, a word of advice from an oldie.
Ten years from now, you'll look back on this (if you remember it) and wonder what on earth you were talking about.

One other word of advice, think twice or three or more times before reproducing!

 

[GabberMan]

yeah I'll keep that in mind. I would be more then happy to give one of these lovely ladies a child. It just seems to be they are still down on there knees. Which sets me back. I'm just looking for love in the all wrong places. Seriously, They follow me around like magnets and stare into my pants. Woman are pervs, or married seems to be the case. Either way I don't want to deal with the facts woman have vagina's. Looking into my eyes for goodness sake. I apologize but there has to be some hope left for me. Because I know deep down inside there are some sane woman left in the world. Shew wee have I been talking to the right people looking in the wrong place. Need I say more?

I think women get more sexually adventurous after their first few partners but assume that you want to behave like their earlier boyfriends when you don't (at least not all the time).

I sympathise with you because if I was single I think it would be a problem and hinder the prospect of a really meaningful relationship.

 

[assholebythedoor]

I fully understand, maybe there is something missing our someone not involved but whatever it may be my offspring have nothing to do with me. the male only gets 1 percent of their senses, perhaps it could be more. since the woman reproduce they take most of the child's features.... although It rarely goes the opposite way.


As for woman are like a cold shower. first you have to get use to them. and a real good one will set you straight. but what woman do not do is explore there insecurities because they rather would leave them alone. and many of them are not bold as love. which means they can easily stop loving you for something heard or made believe or.. they wont take the time to understand who you are. somehow they live with it and that's okay but what about love? ha, it seems preposterous and unrelated in the thick of things yet it is still in the mist. no, there is no telling. and there is no sides to choose from. either you are or you aren't or you can or you can't I don't assume they will ever change. that ways things can happen for the best and I don't have to worry or over think about why they act the way they do. considering the fact years have been spent with the knowledge and reoccurring lonely time we've spent together is just the same now as it was then without a woman around. I have a vague sense of reelection towards woman and I listen to whats being talked about if they say something to me. other then that I mind my business. I'll let a woman walk by like its nobody's business , coming in and out of my life is a little different. love at first site doesn't start with a blink it happens with a nod of adjustment. words of advice from me would be, don't let them take you for granted, once they believe you are a certain way. either they love you or they don't.

 

[assholebythedoor]

yes they do

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

One word: SOCIETY

We all know that society changes every single day. Over short periods of time, society reinvents itself and people do their best to change their lives in accordance to what's "cool" at the time. Currently, society makes it seem like truly romantic gentlemen are complete and utter losers that women should want nothing to do with. For some reason, over the past few years, our society has made "gentlemen" look like clingy momma's boys with low self-esteem. Obviously, that is not true, but what society wants, society gets.

If a guy sends flowers to his girlfriend at her office...
Used to be: "Aww, he is so sweet. He's a keeper!"
Now: "He sent me flowers...at work? He's trying too hard."

If a guy writes his girlfriend a poem...
Used to be: "This is the most beautiful thing I've ever seen. I love him!"
Now: "What a fucking weirdo. Who writes poems?"

If a guy offers his jacket it to his shivering girlfriend...
Used to be: "Aww, you don't have to do that. Thank you honey."
Now: "I don't want it. I'm not a baby. I can take care of myself."

If a guy opens the car door for his girlfriend...
Used to be: "Thank you so much. You are really thoughtful."
Now: (NOTHING) Why? Because they don't even notice.

Not all women are like this, and it is completely unfair to ignore the fact that there are very, very amazing women out there who actually respect romance, but, for the most part, and to quote Dave Chappelle...

"Chivalry is dead...and women killed it."

True of MOST women. Women have fought for their rights, and now that they've almost got em, it seems they've killed chivalry in the process. At the same time though I find that there is alot more disrespect coming from men too. 50 years ago, women were courted. Women were treated with respect from their spouses and were doted on and romanced. Today, women don't get taken out for dinner, they split the bill. Flowers usually are only bought when guys fuck up. Forget guys opening the door for a lady because it never happens. I also think that with more people engaging in premarital sex compared to 50-70 years ago, chivalry seems to not be needed. Guys used to court ladies, woo them...treat them like gold. Then they'd get married. Guys back in the day had to work alot harder to get in a ladies pants because women back then were just THAT- ladies. (of course there are exceptions, I'm talking generally).

But in any case- the things you mentioned above...if I don't get those out of a man while we're dating...he won't be hearing from me again. I require being treated like a lady, and I know that I'm a rare breed, but I think all women should demand the kind of respect and give it back in return.

 

[Smallville417]

OK not all women are looking for emotional partner.................I for my self always looking for guys for sex and I am proud of it and never hide it and I make sure the guy understands I am meeting him purely for sex and not for love.

I appreciate honesty. I've been fooled by a couple of woman in the past that I thought were into me for more than sex.

 

[assholebythedoor]

I had a woman tell me she loved me and turned out It was she loved to fight me. She just had a problem studdering her f's and couldnt use them in a sentence.

 

[STDiva]

I had a woman tell me she loved me and turned out It was she loved to fight me.

:rofl:

 

[assholebythedoor]

Don't listen to the rumors.

 

[lurkingdirk]

Don't listen to the rumors.

Which rumours? Please explain in depth!

 

[STDiva]

My brain hurts.

 

[Jack Davenport]

Why would a man watch Sex in the city?

 

[assholebythedoor]

moral ethics