if she has a dick, then you refer to the preamble of the rules. "we the people, in order to not have gay sex, shall henceforth, avoid the penis, be it on girl or boy, in order to form a more perfect union, with a penis and a vagina, but never just two wangs."
I have questions too. For instance, if I have 3 instances of positive rep given me, and 2 negative, how does that put me at 0? Is there any way to block trolls from giving you rep? For instance, some asshat left "**** yourself" as part of his feedback. Most moderators would discourage that kind of thing, right?