Why hate sexually active women?

[spicytongue]

The following video is an example of the subject matter which I’m talking about.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JwHJnpGw9qg&feature=youtu.be

I happen to know that one of the girls in the video faced a huge backlash from both men and women just because she is open and confident about her sexual life style. Whether it be about hooking up with guys casually, or being polyamorous, why do so many people feel the need to degrade women who are open about such things? This rarely ever happens towards the many men who brag about being a stud. It feels to me like an extreme double standard. What’s especially odd about this is that most of this hostility is coming from western countries.

Perhaps someone here could share their thoughts on why they think this is happening?

 

[Torre82]

Blame many things. Downfall of respect for menfolk. Marriage rates fall, divorce goes up, women are lying more and men are actually trying to find a woman to trust... and as where you previously heard a woman complain about women simply looking for loyalty and 'COMMITMENT', now you have males feeling that pain. The roles reversed.

Blame the feminist movement. Blame the companies for shifting workforces onto both genders and keeping pay low so that noone has time to make a family. Blame the females who never had a father, blame the males who grew up on porn... blame human nature.

If you take it back to a societal role, you have differing roles for these genders that are supposed to provide for the other, or make babies..
And now you have a society that promotes mandatory 'swinger' lifestyles, always have a backup plan even for your backup plan. Maintain contact with ex's. Swipe on that hookup app. Leave the kids at home and go get sexytime on.

I dunno, man.. the logic gave way to anti-logic. The freedom gave way to fascism. The sexual liberation gave rise to sex crimes. At what point does society step back and realize that more freedoms arent a good thing, and that people seek guidance and consistency?

It feels like everyone is stuck in their teenage years where they are trying to figure themselves out... and 20 years later we're all 30-40 somethings who are grown-assed kids who cant decide, cant commit, cant trust, wont buy, wont pay, wont consider their fellow man because they dont know them outside of texts/gaming/bar night...

And I gotta say, at least personally.. I believe the sin here is 'gluttony'. A woman of any worth will have 100 callers at any time. A man of any worth will not. The sexual equality they sought to make has made it more of a... 10 women are fucking chad, but chad's bro Tyler, and Tyler's bro Stephan... they barely get any plan. The ratio is off.
Think of it as a prison/nature setting where the alpha gets 10 bites and the rest get scraps.

Also, put it in a similar context: What do you think about overqualified individuals who job-hop? They dont stay with one for more than a week or a month. They can just keep getting jobs and relying on handouts. No consistency, no work ethic.
That is why they are put into a 'hated' category, because civilization. It requires you to actually contribute to it.

If everyone just goes around drinking up, doing drugs, fucking around... trying to feel pleasure.. what is the point? They arent committing to anyone.
Or, if we continue the trend of hating on men... do you really trust the NEXT guy to be disease-free? To treat her with respect? To not spoil her with his cash, and then you come along with your middle-income and she feels like she just 'settles' for you, cuz whatever? Or should we treat our bodies, men and women alike.. with some old version of respect? We only have so much to give. So I'm not gonna dick everyone, you arent gonna ride everyone.. and we should take our sexual enjoyment from the one we chose, or teach them.. should they not fuck like that one dude... the guy that got out of prison? He really dicked me down. HORRIBLE GUY, no doubt.. but man could he fuck. But no, not marriage material. Ugh. But... mmm.

And because I'm already sounding preachy and long winded: TL;DR:
http://i.imgur.com/247XSDb.jpg

 

[Pornfan99]

"At what point does society step back and realize that more freedoms arent a good thing, and that people seek guidance and consistency?" - you need to see "The Unbearable Lightness of Being!"

"The sexual equality they sought to make has made it more of a... 10 women are fucking chad, but chad's bro Tyler, and Tyler's bro Stephan... they barely get any plan. The ratio is off."
^
This!!! If you're a dude: over 6'; makes $350K a year; or has an 8" penis - you're tripping over women. The rest of us poor slobs have to work (and work .. and work) for it..

 

[xfire]

People take it too seriously. Either up your game or sit on the sidelines, but don't bitch and moan, no one likes a whiner. If a woman doesn't want to be called a slut she can either be more discreet about who she's fucking and how often, or she keep her knees together. There's nothing worse than penis envy and cock blocking, be who you are and either own it or hide it, how hard is that?

 

[Rey C.]

The following video is an example of the subject matter which I’m talking about.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JwHJnpGw9qg&feature=youtu.be

I happen to know that one of the girls in the video faced a huge backlash from both men and women just because she is open and confident about her sexual life style. Whether it be about hooking up with guys casually, or being polyamorous, why do so many people feel the need to degrade women who are open about such things? This rarely ever happens towards the many men who brag about being a stud. It feels to me like an extreme double standard. What’s especially odd about this is that most of this hostility is coming from western countries.

Perhaps someone here could share their thoughts on why they think this is happening?

This ain't the swingin' 60s and Wilt Chamberlain is dead. I don't think there are "many men who brag about being a stud." Where are they? Who are they? Names. We need names. Any guy who brags about playing the field with women these days is going to be vilified by the media (if he's a public figure) or on social media (if he's just a regular Joe).

Additionally, if you're a guy and you cheat on your wife, you're a piece of shit (and I wouldn't necessarily disagree with that). But if you're a woman and you cheat on your husband, you can play the victim card and get people to believe that it's his fault and he made you cheat on him.

No offense, but I just don't buy into your premise.

 

[spicytongue]

"At what point does society step back and realize that more freedoms arent a good thing, and that people seek guidance and consistency?" - you need to see "The Unbearable Lightness of Being!"

"The sexual equality they sought to make has made it more of a... 10 women are fucking chad, but chad's bro Tyler, and Tyler's bro Stephan... they barely get any plan. The ratio is off."
^
This!!! If you're a dude: over 6'; makes $350K a year; or has an 8" penis - you're tripping over women. The rest of us poor slobs have to work (and work .. and work) for it..

If a woman can get something better, why should she settle for less. Most guys don't want to settle for less than what they want. Many do but if they had the option, why would they? Why should undesirable guys be entitled to desirable women?

 

[spicytongue]

Blame many things. Downfall of respect for menfolk. Marriage rates fall, divorce goes up, women are lying more and men are actually trying to find a woman to trust... and as where you previously heard a woman complain about women simply looking for loyalty and 'COMMITMENT', now you have males feeling that pain. The roles reversed.

Blame the feminist movement. Blame the companies for shifting workforces onto both genders and keeping pay low so that noone has time to make a family. Blame the females who never had a father, blame the males who grew up on porn... blame human nature.

If you take it back to a societal role, you have differing roles for these genders that are supposed to provide for the other, or make babies..
And now you have a society that promotes mandatory 'swinger' lifestyles, always have a backup plan even for your backup plan. Maintain contact with ex's. Swipe on that hookup app. Leave the kids at home and go get sexytime on.

I dunno, man.. the logic gave way to anti-logic. The freedom gave way to fascism. The sexual liberation gave rise to sex crimes. At what point does society step back and realize that more freedoms arent a good thing, and that people seek guidance and consistency?

It feels like everyone is stuck in their teenage years where they are trying to figure themselves out... and 20 years later we're all 30-40 somethings who are grown-assed kids who cant decide, cant commit, cant trust, wont buy, wont pay, wont consider their fellow man because they dont know them outside of texts/gaming/bar night...

And I gotta say, at least personally.. I believe the sin here is 'gluttony'. A woman of any worth will have 100 callers at any time. A man of any worth will not. The sexual equality they sought to make has made it more of a... 10 women are fucking chad, but chad's bro Tyler, and Tyler's bro Stephan... they barely get any plan. The ratio is off.
Think of it as a prison/nature setting where the alpha gets 10 bites and the rest get scraps.

Also, put it in a similar context: What do you think about overqualified individuals who job-hop? They dont stay with one for more than a week or a month. They can just keep getting jobs and relying on handouts. No consistency, no work ethic.
That is why they are put into a 'hated' category, because civilization. It requires you to actually contribute to it.

If everyone just goes around drinking up, doing drugs, fucking around... trying to feel pleasure.. what is the point? They arent committing to anyone.
Or, if we continue the trend of hating on men... do you really trust the NEXT guy to be disease-free? To treat her with respect? To not spoil her with his cash, and then you come along with your middle-income and she feels like she just 'settles' for you, cuz whatever? Or should we treat our bodies, men and women alike.. with some old version of respect? We only have so much to give. So I'm not gonna dick everyone, you arent gonna ride everyone.. and we should take our sexual enjoyment from the one we chose, or teach them.. should they not fuck like that one dude... the guy that got out of prison? He really dicked me down. HORRIBLE GUY, no doubt.. but man could he fuck. But no, not marriage material. Ugh. But... mmm.

And because I'm already sounding preachy and long winded: TL;DR:
http://i.imgur.com/247XSDb.jpg

How many guys cheat on their wives, or just up and leave them because they preferred another girl in bed. There is only so much one can teach their partner. I don't support cheating but you make it sound like it's a largely one sided thing. Some people just are, and will forever be better in the sack and more desirable than others. Of course these people will have more options.

 

[spicytongue]

https://tierneylab.blogs.nytimes.com/2007/09/05/the-missing-men-in-your-family-tree/

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/sep/24/women-men-dna-human-gene-pool

These are truly fascinating articles; the conclusion of both seems to be that "high value" males have more descendants and therefore males produce less unique genetic progenitors. I think this may speak to the fact that women either were "locked down" or they deliberately chose high value males, in which case the hate you mention comes from those for whom there is, apparently, no genetic future.

 

[Pornfan99]

spicy: *I* want a woman with who has at least 34 C tits, a bubble butt, and melts-mens-hearts when she wears painted-on jeans, or a skirt / dress (on account of her long, shapely legs). Oh, and that is educated with a job paying > $52K a year.

IF I POSTED THAT ON A DATING SITE, IN A PROFILE, I'D BE VILLIFIED. I've seen EACH of the three items in my original post in women's dating profiles..

 

[Ruddiger]

She'll always get a few people who disapprove of her sexual promiscuity but so what? We live in the 21st century and there's a lot more people who approve of her behavior than they disapprove. A few thumbs down on her Youtube video isn't going to persuade me that a majority of Americans disapprove of this lady flouting her sexuality.

 

[The Penis Mightier]

The following video is an example of the subject matter which I’m talking about.

I happen to know that one of the girls in the video faced a huge backlash from both men and women just because she is open and confident about her sexual life style. Whether it be about hooking up with guys casually, or being polyamorous, why do so many people feel the need to degrade women who are open about such things? This rarely ever happens towards the many men who brag about being a stud. It feels to me like an extreme double standard. What’s especially odd about this is that most of this hostility is coming from western countries.

Perhaps someone here could share their thoughts on why they think this is happening?

The gals in the video were OK. I'd probably let the dark one give me a blowy. The white one reminds me of too many annoying Hillarynistas I've met before. Face plain like a homemade pie too. Not impressed. I made it through two minutes and forty seven seconds of the video. Still women and their opinions I never asked for.

 

[Pornfan99]

Dino: I agree with the Hillary-esque comparison for the caucasian girl. From the video - "Hillary" seems to be poly, but her GF does NOT. Seems like the GF puts up with it, to be with her..

 

[The Penis Mightier]

Dino: I agree with the Hillary-esque comparison for the caucasian girl. From the video - "Hillary" seems to be poly, but her GF does NOT. Seems like the GF puts up with it, to be with her..

I got Match.com flashbacks. Like I was getting hooked up with DNC/SJW/NOW/PC Feminazis. I stopped with them before having a coffee date with Debbie Wassermann-Schultz. Still remember this one gal with this fake tan, fake fingernails, and fake eyeglasses. She seemed to take delight using air quotes while making a clicking noise with her fingernails. Just barrier after barrier on top of more barriers never revealing an actual human being. I called for the check before I stuck my fork in her head.

 

[The Penis Mightier]

Do people other than women really hate sluts? Sluts are fun and easy to do sex with and are many times too dumb to ask for money afterward. Sluts are also fun to demean, degrade, and offer up to your friends and acquaintances. Imagine a World without sluts...