Why do pornstars "retire"?
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Haha, me too, I was so relieved when things returned to normal... it's been back in action ever since!
larss
I'm watching some specialist videos
I think it comes across on camera as well. It is much better for most of us punters if the performers actually seem to be enjoying what they are doing.
I was talking to a former porn star recently and she told me that she quit because the industry does not treat the girls in a good way. they sometimes treat them like objects. Its sad but I think it may be true.
Will E Worm
Conspiracy...
Just like every job.
Harley Spencer
Verified Performer
It is true. Not everyone in the adult industry treats their girls like nothing but pieces of ass, but too many do and that's also one of the reasons some girls quit. They get sick of being viewed and treated as if they're nothing but sex objects, as if they have no feelings or brains, as if it's ok to just give them a slap on the ass and send them off to their gig for the day. It's not fun. Sure, being in porn means it's a given that people are going to view you in a sexual manner, but that doesn't mean it's right to view the girls as nothing but that. That's the customer's job, not the people we work with. Audiences view porn for simply that, to get their jollies off, and that's fine. That's what we're here for. We like to know that guys are drooling over our bodies and jerking off to us. But the environment we work in shouldn't be any less professional than any other work environment.
But like I said, there are plenty of people in this industry that are very great to work with, and I'm happy to say that I've worked with some really nice people, including who I'm currently working with. It's just sad that it just so happens that most girls end up working with scum bags when they're first starting out, since they're likely starting out with amateurs and smaller companies, who can tend to be some of the worst people to work with. Amateurs don't always like to consider themselves amateur, and they talk a big talk, have huge egos, and act like they know everything there is to know about the adult industry. A lot of girls who are just starting are naive enough to believe them, so whatever they experience with them gives them the wrong impression that everyone in the adult industry is like that, which just isn't true.
Harley Spencer
Verified Performer
Wait... I have been doing this all wrong?
Haven't you been jerking off to my pictures?
Well... yes. :o Sure, I've got that down.
But, this whole thing...
... I think I've been fucking that up. :dunno:
Harley Spencer
Verified Performer
Well... yes. :o Sure, I've got that down.
But, this whole thing...
... I think I've been fucking that up. :dunno:
That's ok, as long you're touching yourself while looking at me, you're good to go. Being awesome is a big plus though, so you've got both bits down.
:thumbsup: Definitely got the first one down pat! I'll take your word for it on the second one.
(and thanks!)For anyone who's paying attention though, I imagine you're a tough one to write off as just a sex object, you've got far too much going on for that.
vanlee1
IMAGINE
Very interesting dialog going on here and you are lucky to get the awesome vote from Harley because she is an awesome person herself:thumbsup: Definitely got the first one down pat! I'll take your word for it on the second one.
For anyone who's paying attention though, I imagine you're a tough one to write off as just a sex object, you've got far too much going on for that.
Very interesting dialog going on here and you are lucky to get the awesome vote from Harley because she is an awesome person herself
I am, and she is.
Her incredible hotness is only part of the reason I like her as much as I do.
Harley Spencer
Verified Performer
:thumbsup: Definitely got the first one down pat! I'll take your word for it on the second one.
For anyone who's paying attention though, I imagine you're a tough one to write off as just a sex object, you've got far too much going on for that.
You are. You just go ahead and take my word for it
I certainly hope that most people don't view me as just a sex object, but I'm sure there are plenty who do, and based on some of the interactions I've had on this board alone (this isn't counting email, facebook, twitter, and abibids) with some people, there's definitely people who don't think very highly of me. You can't win em all.
Very interesting dialog going on here and you are lucky to get the awesome vote from Harley because she is an awesome person herself
Oh, he's gotten more than just an awesome vote from me
You'd be surprised of some of the things I've said to him, and things I wish to say to him but am a wee bit too shy to do so.You are. You just go ahead and take my word for it
Well, you do know I respect your opinion.
I think a lot of that can be chalked up to them not paying attention and getting to know you. It's pretty hard not to notice that you're smart, and kind, and just all-in-all a pretty cool person.
Oh, he's gotten more than just an awesome vote from me
See... now I am very curious about that last part!
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