Why do girls post nude selfies on social networks

[raven_azrael]

Many girls on twitter share nude selfies. Mostly they receive positive feedback about their bodies. Other girls attack them and call them whores. I do think they do it because they are Attention Whores. I met online a cute girl (20)who was posting selfies and started to talk to her about becoming a porn girl. She was curious, but told me that she didn’t want to, but was curious about the feeling of webcaming, We started chatting some time for days and it was fun. I really got to like her. She kept on posting a selfies seldomly. I told her that I like her body and I would like to see more, but I got to know her more and I thought she was better than that. She is in university and has goals. I told her that what is on the internet stays forever. She told me that she did it because she wanted to know what guys think about her body. I have been telling her she is great and I really got to enjoy talking to her, so I, stupidly and inmaturely, emotionally invested in her well being. We are far, but not too far. She is great and I would like to meet her some day. She told me that hey were just nude pics and were not a big deal. She told me that I was complaining but I am the one who posts in my blog nude busty girls. I told her it is not the same. I just blog, I don’t expose myself.and the girls that do it are either pros, or girls who actyally do it for the money. They didn’t were not told to become pornstars in their job counsellorship. Many girls on the industry came from broken homes or abused boyfriends so they need the attention. So this girl. She deleted the pics and so far, not nudes, well, lets wait for later. She told me that there was nothing wrong with posting and I told him if she wanted her younger sisters to do it, and she said,no. So that is her answer, I said.

1. A part of me wants her to pose, but obviously, there is more beyond that. Am I wrong? DO you think girls posting naked selfies are right? I mean we would like it, but what if the girl was your family member or real friend or someone you care about. Am I giving a bad advice.
2. I told her to do what makes her happy, not what makes all the guys who ask for more pics happy. I think selfies do not fill the void many of these girls have. They just pretend
3. I think I am immature here and just care too much for a virtual stranger that I just have known for over a week.
4. Is it a lost cause

 

[288gto]

devil: do it!
angel: no, it's a sin, she's a nice girl!
devil: make her do it, she's hot!
angel: she's to college!
devil do it, come on!

so you know which way to go bro!

 

[raven_azrael]

devil: do it!
angel: no, it's a sin, she's a nice girl!
devil: make her do it, she's hot!
angel: she's to college!
devil do it, come on!

so you know which way to go bro!

haha i know, but we all know it will have repercussions. So if this was a person you deem good. What would u do?
D you think that girls who do it are right or wrong? do not think wit your cock, because we know the answer wouldbe obvious. think with brain

 

[288gto]

why don't you arrange a meeting and give this nice lady, a lovely evening with some wine, chocolate and strawberries, and a really good treat?

 

[raven_azrael]

why don't you arrange a meeting and give this nice lady, a lovely evening with some wine, chocolate and strawberries, and a really good treat?

I am in another city... but anyway... as Kurt Cobain say, thanks for your priceless advice

 

[288gto]

I am in another city... but anyway... as Kurt Cobain say, thanks for your priceless advice

well, that's another problem then however give it a try, you never know, just hope it ain't that far away.

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

3. I think I am immature here and just care too much for a virtual stranger that I just have known for over a week.

I think that's actually fairly mature to care about the potential future psychological well-being of a human being you've actually gotten to know something about, however briefly, than just thinking "I want the hot girl to pose naked because she is an object of sexual desire for me."

In terms of "is it right or wrong" there is no answer, only is it right or wrong for her. If she thinks she can cope with the idea of someone important to her spotting her naked on the 'net, or worse, somebody that knows her in real life but she doesn't want attention from sending her a message going "I saw your tits on the internet" and not being able to dismiss it as "she does look like me, but that's not me" then she might do it. Warn her of those possibilities, but it's up to her.

Also make sure you don't try and dissuade her just because sub-consciously you don't like the idea of strangers seeing her naked because you're into her, and want that privilege for you and you alone someday soon.

 

[raven_azrael]

I think that's actually fairly mature to care about the potential future psychological well-being of a human being you've actually gotten to know something about, however briefly, than just thinking "I want the hot girl to pose naked because she is an object of sexual desire for me."

In terms of "is it right or wrong" there is no answer, only is it right or wrong for her. If she thinks she can cope with the idea of someone important to her spotting her naked on the 'net, or worse, somebody that knows her in real life but she doesn't want attention from sending her a message going "I saw your tits on the internet" and not being able to dismiss it as "she does look like me, but that's not me" then she might do it. Warn her of those possibilities, but it's up to her.

Also make sure you don't try and dissuade her just because sub-consciously you don't like the idea of strangers seeing her naked because you're into her, and want that privilege for you and you alone someday soon.

Thanks for such a coherent reply.
Well she hides her face but she can be ID anyway, she has shown face, but can deny it. But I do not think that people should do things just because they can get away with it.
I like her, but I know that thousands literally have seen her. I also know that it is improbable insecurity to my benefit. So now, barely text and probably wont text again. So, yeah I was jealous, a bit, that is silly, but I would not want her or any other girl close to me to do it.

 

[JaanaRuutu]

I don't see the big deal. if being naked in front of a camera makes her feel powerful and strong, or if she's just proud of her body, let her do it. There are way, way more dudes posting dick pictures. Where's your concern for the penises?

 

[raven_azrael]

I don't see the big deal. if being naked in front of a camera makes her feel powerful and strong, or if she's just proud of her body, let her do it. There are way, way more dudes posting dick pictures. Where's your concern for the penises?

Guys who do it, do it because they think they are going to convince girls to fuck them... Kind of smart, right?
and if she is so proud why wouldnt she show her face? actually she is not, that is why many girls do it. she looks great, but wants to be told that.
If you do something do it openly and embrace it, if she decides to be pornstar then, let it be. but the reason behind her posting is what makes it wrong. apparently she wants to be loved, and that is not the right way.

 

[HehehehehehehehehehahaHyena]

Because daddy had boundary issues.

 

[RASQ]

Many girls on twitter share nude selfies. Mostly they receive positive feedback about their bodies. Other girls attack them and call them whores. I do think they do it because they are Attention Whores. I met online a cute girl (20)who was posting selfies and started to talk to her about becoming a porn girl. She was curious, but told me that she didn’t want to, but was curious about the feeling of webcaming, We started chatting some time for days and it was fun. I really got to like her. She kept on posting a selfies seldomly. I told her that I like her body and I would like to see more, but I got to know her more and I thought she was better than that. She is in university and has goals. I told her that what is on the internet stays forever. She told me that she did it because she wanted to know what guys think about her body. I have been telling her she is great and I really got to enjoy talking to her, so I, stupidly and inmaturely, emotionally invested in her well being. We are far, but not too far. She is great and I would like to meet her some day. She told me that hey were just nude pics and were not a big deal. She told me that I was complaining but I am the one who posts in my blog nude busty girls. I told her it is not the same. I just blog, I don’t expose myself.and the girls that do it are either pros, or girls who actyally do it for the money. They didn’t were not told to become pornstars in their job counsellorship. Many girls on the industry came from broken homes or abused boyfriends so they need the attention. So this girl. She deleted the pics and so far, not nudes, well, lets wait for later. She told me that there was nothing wrong with posting and I told him if she wanted her younger sisters to do it, and she said,no. So that is her answer, I said.

1. A part of me wants her to pose, but obviously, there is more beyond that. Am I wrong? DO you think girls posting naked selfies are right? I mean we would like it, but what if the girl was your family member or real friend or someone you care about. Am I giving a bad advice.
2. I told her to do what makes her happy, not what makes all the guys who ask for more pics happy. I think selfies do not fill the void many of these girls have. They just pretend
3. I think I am immature here and just care too much for a virtual stranger that I just have known for over a week.
4. Is it a lost cause

You don't get a lot of pussy in your life. I can tell.

This is what you do, fuck about 50 chicks, then come back and tell us how you feel about her.

Other than that, it's her life.

A great whore once said, "I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I'm out of control, and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe

 

[raven_azrael]

You don't get a lot of pussy in your life. I can tell.

This is what you do, fuck about 50 chicks, then come back and tell us how you feel about her.

Other than that, it's her life.

A great whore once said, "I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I'm out of control, and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe

so according to you all young girls who think it is right, are ok? so if you have a daughter who does it, why would it be ok then? I would like to see her nude all over the net. i say it is ok if she really wants to, but not just to feel accepted... what then? it wont be enough, o she will need more to feel better...downward spiral

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

so according to you all young girls who think it is right, are ok?

... I thought she was better than that. [...] She told me that I was complaining but I am the one who posts in my blog nude busty girls. I told her it is not the same. I just blog, I don’t expose myself.

If you find women posing nude offensive you need to delete your blog, leave this site forever, get rid of all your porn and never go looking for any more. If you believe it's wrong you shouldn't take part in it. The industry wouldn't exist, and women wouldn't post pics online, if there was no call for it. If you think it's "wrong" then you need to stop. Period. You (and people like you) are the reason the "problem" exists. If you take part in it, and criticize those who do it while doing so, then you're a hypocrite. It's really that simple.

If you want to pretend this is a matter of principle then you need to have some. You need to own those principles and not just apply them to other people, then ignore them and look the other way when it's inconvenient for you.

Is it okay for her to pose nude? Yes.

Is it okay for you not to be okay with that? Sure. You can think and feel what you want, and jealousy is natural for many people.

Is it okay for you to judge her while not just being a consumer of the porn industry, but having a blog that helps to proliferate the type of thing you look down on? No.

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

You don't get a lot of pussy in your life. I can tell.

This is what you do, fuck about 50 chicks, then come back and tell us how you feel about her.

I didn't want to say anything for sounding cruel, but there does seem to be a pretty powerful [NOBABE]Madonna[/NOBABE]-Whore Complex going on.

 

[raven_azrael]

I am not saying that posing is wrong. I think that girls to do it to find attention or love should not do it, because they are not fixing their problems just hidding them

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

I am not saying that posing is wrong. I think that girls to do it to find attention or love should not do it, because they are not fixing their problems just hidding them

Then you need to rethink your message and phrasing (which is possibly due to the fact that it seems that English is not your first language).

[...] I do think they do it because they are Attention Whores. [...] I got to know her more and I thought she was better than that. She is in university and has goals. [...]She told me that hey were just nude pics and were not a big deal. She told me that I was complaining but I am the one who posts in my blog nude busty girls. I told her it is not the same. I just blog, I don’t expose myself. [...] They didn’t were not told to become pornstars in their job counsellorship. Many girls on the industry came from broken homes or abused boyfriends so they need the attention. [...] She told me that there was nothing wrong with posting...

[...]DO you think girls posting naked selfies are right? [...]
[...]I told her to do what makes her happy, not what makes all the guys who ask for more pics happy.[...]
[...]Is it a lost cause

So if this was a person you deem good. What would u do?
D you think that girls who do it are right or wrong? [...]

so according to you all young girls who think it is right, are ok?

You say you're not suggesting it's wrong, but you're clearly framing this as a question of right and wrong, and you're definitely not saying it's right. You're portraying women who get into the industry as being damaged, you're saying they don't have goals. That when someone you like does it you thought they were better than that. You say you want her to do what makes her happy, but she's clearly told you that "there was nothing wrong" with what she was doing, and she pointed out your blog, and you replied that what you're doing (which if you believe what you're posting would be considered exploiting women) was different (and thus not wrong) because you weren't exposing yourself.

You're being judgmental and hypocritical. If you aren't than something has gone very, very wrong with your message, as it's implications seem pretty clear.

 

[Elwood70]

A great whore once said, "I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I'm out of control, and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe

 

[humperbink]

I think the way you're thinking about this girl is really awesome and commendable. You obviously have deep feelings for her and, the result of this is, you'd prefer that she didn't post naked pictures of herself because you feel she has more to offer besides showing her naked body parts to lots of men. I have these same exact feelings for women and hopefully there's lots of good-hearted men who do as well. I often worry most men are perverted and care about women strictly for sex and no other reason so the way you're appreciating this girl is really cool in my book.

Others will probably disagree with me, but I think the only time a girl should be posting naked pictures of herself is when she seriously intends to make modeling or pornography a career, or maybe to show off to her boyfriend for a little spicy entertainment. I can't think of any other situation that a girl should be doing that. I personally don't believe in calling a girl a whore or slut for showing off her naked body *especially* if she's young (18-25)- a LOT of bad things can happen the moment the name calling occurs. You could really damage a girls self-esteem when a bunch of people gang up on her in an attempt to humiliate her. That's not fair. You don't want a girl to be ruined just because she posted a naked picture of herself. You already know this I bet.

Of course the flipside is that she could totally have her crap together, and she's posting naked pictures for fun or that she's proud of her body. I have mixed feelings with this to be honest. Maybe I'm old-fashioned. I guess II worry more about the sick men out there who might take advantage of a woman willing to post naked pictures of herself. A sick bastard finds out where this boob-flashing girl lives and waits for the perfect opportunity to rape or murder her (yeah I know, worst case scenario- but hey, it's possible). It's a personal decision to take your clothes off in front of others though- whether you agree with the decision or not you still have to respect women. Again, I don't have to tell you this. You sound a lot like me.

I say, since she has goals and attends university, she's probably not interested in entering the porn business and it would be better if she did not naked post pictures of herself because it might come back to haunt her later (depending how successful she becomes or the career she's in). Oh well- if I contradicted myself here in any way, so be it. Women can do that to ya!

 

[humperbink]

Oh Jesus- freeones won't allow me to edit after 10 minutes. I just wanted to add that I knew a girl on a message board who got into trouble with her boss for something she either did or said online. Her boss did some google searching and found it. She almost got fired but got let off with a warning. She was keeping it personal so I didn't want to pry into what she actually said or did. I'm bringing this up because I really don't want to see any girl getting into trouble because she flashed her naked body online which might prevent her from getting a job somewhere when it's discovered what she did.