Why are so many people obsessed with porn stars?

Hi all,

I don't visit this site as much as before, even though I was never really a frequent visitor in the first place. But one of the things that I have noticed and see regularly time and time again is this obsession...yes, OBSESSION with porn stars. Now read carefully what I am saying here, even though I wouldn't say that they are ALL ugly (though many are) most (yeah that's right, I said MOST) aren't particularly attractive. Y'all can give me examples but most won't be sufficient...for just about every example someone gives me I will find dozens of models or just general people more attractive. It just seems to me that you can grab any old hag (or should I say reasonably attractive woman) from the streets, get a camera and put a dick in her mouth and then all a sudden, many will think she's amazingly beautiful.

The hottest are never easily available...and porn stars (on average) are easily available. I mean anyone can fuck them, so long as you don't have any diseases...surely this is telling us something? I mean they receive facials (the wrong kind of facials) daily/weekly, a different man fucks them daily/weekly, some are spat on, some swallow semen from multiple men of all shapes and sizes (old, fat, ugly men), some of them are escorts (technically they ALL are)...in others words they're many men's fuck puppets (none really care about her, once they're done they move on to the next girl)...and yet so many idolize them. For what exactly? Has anybody got any standards? Or is it just me?

Most here will disagree with me, but I'm used to that...you see, I'm honest. That fact is so many members here...and visitors just browsing are biased, just because there is a dick or dicks in contact with a woman, which consequently helps them get off...this woman becomes elevated.

I'm not arrogant, nor am I a narcissist...but I can date, see, fuck just about any girl I want (in other words I've been with loads of women). In most "modern" countries (which I'm sure most of you are from) there are millions...literally millions of women available. Why the fuck would I or anybody for that matter outside the porn industry want to touch a porn star? They're like using a used condom...used by someone else!

So, give me your reasons please. I'd love to here them.

I'll comment more on this later.
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
Hi all,

I don't visit this site as much as before, even though I was never really a frequent visitor in the first place. But one of the things that I have noticed and see regularly time and time again is this obsession...yes, OBSESSION with porn stars. Now read carefully what I am saying here, even though I wouldn't say that they are ALL ugly (though many are) most (yeah that's right, I said MOST) aren't particularly attractive. Y'all can give me examples but most won't be sufficient...for just about every example someone gives me I will find dozens of models or just general people more attractive. It just seems to me that you can grab any old hag (or should I say reasonably attractive woman) from the streets, get a camera and put a dick in her mouth and then all a sudden, many will think she's amazingly beautiful.

The hottest are never easily available...and porn stars (on average) are easily available. I mean anyone can fuck them, so long as you don't have any diseases...surely this is telling us something? I mean they receive facials (the wrong kind of facials) daily/weekly, a different man fucks them daily/weekly, some are spat on, some swallow semen from multiple men of all shapes and sizes (old, fat, ugly men), some of them are escorts (technically they ALL are)...in others words they're many men's fuck puppets (none really care about her, once they're done they move on to the next girl)...and yet so many idolize them. For what exactly? Has anybody got any standards? Or is it just me?

Most here will disagree with me, but I'm used to that...you see, I'm honest. That fact is so many members here...and visitors just browsing are biased, just because there is a dick or dicks in contact with a woman, which consequently helps them get off...this woman becomes elevated.

I'm not arrogant, nor am I a narcissist...but I can date, see, fuck just about any girl I want (in other words I've been with loads of women). In most "modern" countries (which I'm sure most of you are from) there are millions...literally millions of women available. Why the fuck would I or anybody for that matter outside the porn industry want to touch a porn star? They're like using a used condom...used by someone else!

So, give me your reasons please. I'd love to here them.

I'll comment more on this later.

Either your gay or EXTREMELY picky about women. My vote goes toward gay.
 
Either your gay or EXTREMELY picky about women. My vote goes toward gay.

Oooooo...touchy, touchy. I'm extremely picky about women? Do you know the problem with many males in society today? Not enough men, too many BOYS. Boys who'd rather masturbate the women on a screen, than approach a REAL woman. I never said ALL porn stars are ugly or unattractive.

If me being choosy about my women (hey, not everyone deserves me) makes me gay...then so be it.

did you join a porn site just to say porn stars are ugly?

1. I've been a member of this site for a long time.

2. This is NOT a PORN site this is a BABE site.

3. I never said porn stars are UGLY...I said MOST are not very ATTRACTIVE.

I just want a lot (I won't say all and I'm certainly not saying most) of you guys to admit that if 80% of the porn stars were just nude models...most of y'all wouldn't give a damn about them. That must be because you agree with my POV and you only "idolize" them because they suck cock and take it in the ass.
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
OHHH so your full of yourself. Got it! And who may I ask idolizes pornstars?
 

Facetious

Moderated
Re: Why are so many people obsessed with porn stars?

24 Grams, you're 4 g's shy of a ounce!
Really, to each his or her own, we're all adults here, let it go.



I just want a lot (I won't say all and I'm certainly not saying most) of you guys to admit that if 80% of the porn stars were just nude models...most of y'all wouldn't give a damn about them.
To the contrary, I like solo models best!
That must be because you agree with my POV and you only "idolize" them because they suck cock and take it in the ass.
Nope, not here.
 
No I won't let it go!

We have girls like Tori Black (don't get me wrong she's not ugly...but you'd think she was the most beautiful girl in the world by some of the comments here...when she's slightly above average @ best). Why? Is it because she's nasty? Lisa Ann? I figure because these girls are American is it just Americans who think they're hot? I'll repeat again, neither woman is ugly...but if I hung out for 30 minutes at a popular night club...

And Silvia Saint? Seriously? I know many saw her when they "first" started watching porn and everything, but... BTW I wonder what is the average age of the members of this website.

Is there a shortage of women? Are all the "normal" women not getting any sex? What do you guys think of male porn stars? Do you think they're all studs with women chasing them left, right and centre? Consider why they do porn in the first place. All this "nasty girl" crap is nonsense, I don't buy it. ALL girls are nasty...MOST "normal" girls are willing to do things you never thought they would...but they actually have to be attracted to the man first. Most men maybe attracted to visual cues but most women aren't... most woman don't get turned on by the sight of someone's cock. Women are more like Kettles (as in they take time to boil), great sex for a woman is more on a emotional level. So the idea that a woman can just show up on a porn set and and be turned on is BS...that's why there's so much lotion (in case anyone's noticed), that there are many cuts (a scene may look continuous but it never is...I work in the film industry so I know) it's easy (and very visual :uohs:) when a man is turned, but not so for women. The same can be said for ejaculation too. So 8 times out of 10 (excluding unordinary women) they're faking it...they're called porn ACTRESSES after all.

And it's not just this website...it makes me wonder are there really so many frustrated men around? Then again why am I surprised. :dunno:
 

LukeEl

I am a failure to the Korean side of my family
Porn is more of a fantasy to me a temporary escape when I am not with a woman in my life. Or when I have a woman in my life, and I generally have found myself to be fortunate to date women who also enjoy porn which in truth makes it better I suppose. Anyway you make a valid point, to yourself that is. I really don't understand where your coming from, but hey man you voiced your opinion, great wonderful. I responded, I am not going to start World War 3 with you about it.
 

Facetious

Moderated
This is starting to sound like the confession of a former P* or perhaps the sermon of a rehabilitating pron addict about to become a born again evangelical. º-0

:dunno:

I enjoy the reading though, keep goin!

ps - I don't necessarily disagree with the things you're posting, but this is stuff that guys should figure out for themselves.
 

xfire

New Twitter/X @cxffreeman
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, OP, and trying to cram everyone's tastes into your own small definition of attractive is more juvenile than me sitting in front of my computer murdering my future knuckle children.
 
If me being choosy about my women (hey, not everyone deserves me) makes me gay...then so be it.

Au contraire, grammy, NO ONE deserves you! :1orglaugh
Well, no one but your ego, that is.
You wine and dine that bitch like no other.
Congrats.


...you only "idolize" them because they suck cock and take it in the ass.

And that's exactly what makes them attractive! Do you really not know how porn works?!?!

I've been with gorgeous women, models, but most of them were HORRIBLE in bed.
A real turn-off to say the least.
Guess they thought they could coast on their looks. Wrong.
 
Oooooo...touchy, touchy. I'm extremely picky about women? Do you know the problem with many males in society today? Not enough men, too many BOYS. Boys who'd rather masturbate the women on a screen, than approach a REAL woman. I never said ALL porn stars are ugly or unattractive.

I'm sorry, but this is probably the most stupid thing I have heard so far in 2012. You think we watch porn because we're scared? News flash: I am not scared to talk to women, and neither are the other guys on this forum. I talk to girls in real life all the time, and even if I land in bed with them it doesn't mean I all of a sudden have no need for porn. We're porn fans.

I can't help but lol @ you calling Tori Black "slightly above average." As if you've been with better.
 

Rey C.

Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
Hi all,

I don't visit this site as much as before, even though I was never really a frequent visitor in the first place. But one of the things that I have noticed and see regularly time and time again is this obsession...yes, OBSESSION with porn stars. Now read carefully what I am saying here, even though I wouldn't say that they are ALL ugly (though many are) most (yeah that's right, I said MOST) aren't particularly attractive. Y'all can give me examples but most won't be sufficient...for just about every example someone gives me I will find dozens of models or just general people more attractive. It just seems to me that you can grab any old hag (or should I say reasonably attractive woman) from the streets, get a camera and put a dick in her mouth and then all a sudden, many will think she's amazingly beautiful.

The hottest are never easily available...and porn stars (on average) are easily available. I mean anyone can fuck them, so long as you don't have any diseases...surely this is telling us something? I mean they receive facials (the wrong kind of facials) daily/weekly, a different man fucks them daily/weekly, some are spat on, some swallow semen from multiple men of all shapes and sizes (old, fat, ugly men), some of them are escorts (technically they ALL are)...in others words they're many men's fuck puppets (none really care about her, once they're done they move on to the next girl)...and yet so many idolize them. For what exactly? Has anybody got any standards? Or is it just me?

Most here will disagree with me, but I'm used to that...you see, I'm honest. That fact is so many members here...and visitors just browsing are biased, just because there is a dick or dicks in contact with a woman, which consequently helps them get off...this woman becomes elevated.

I'm not arrogant, nor am I a narcissist...but I can date, see, fuck just about any girl I want (in other words I've been with loads of women). In most "modern" countries (which I'm sure most of you are from) there are millions...literally millions of women available. Why the fuck would I or anybody for that matter outside the porn industry want to touch a porn star? They're like using a used condom...used by someone else!

So, give me your reasons please. I'd love to here them.

I'll comment more on this later.

I think the first porn I ever saw had been made in the 1970's (my buddy's brother showed us some hardcore mags and movies in the early 80's). I think the average guy, when comparing the girls then to the girls now, would say the girls (average girl) in porn now are MUCH more attractive than the girls who did porn back then. Society has changed quite a lot since then. The stigma of doing porn now isn't nearly as bad as then. So you see a lot more girls doing it, who I think most/many guys would agree are quite attractive. Especially in some of the New York porn from the 70's/early 80's, there were some really busted up looking girls doing movies. Marilyn Chambers, Ginger Lynn and Danielle Martin were some of the most popular girls way back when, because it was so unusual to see girls that pretty doing porn. Now they'd probably blend in. There are more girls doing porn and there are more pretty girls doing porn.

But with that said, my idea of attractive or pretty might be very different from someone else's. Some guy was on here a year or so ago saying that if you didn't find Lindsay Lohan attractive, you must be gay. IMO, enjoying a good stiff one in your mouth or up the ass would make a guy gay. Not finding this girl or that girl attractive hardly seals the deal. Trying to decide (especially at the margin) who is or isn't attractive is too subjective. We all have different tastes, right? My big criticism with modern porn (vs. vintage or Golden Age) is the excessive (IMO) amount of plastic surgery we see these days. Girls get a standard of beauty in their heads, then they go to a doctor and pay him to make them look the way they think they SHOULD look. :facepalm: Course, we're seeing this in society too. And what is "excessive"? Well, when it's obvious, IMO, it is excessive. Your mileage may vary.

As for the "obsession" with porn or porn girls... whether you want to call this a porn board or a babe board, it is based on the viewing of nude women, often those performing sexual acts. I'm on F1 boards and people talk about racing... day in & day out. One might call it an obsession (especially in my case). But if you go to any forum that focuses on a certain topic, I think you'll tend to see people discussing that topic over & over. Is it an obsession? :dunno:
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
So where'd this gram guy go? :dunno:

Not very often an over zealous,cocky motherfucker spouts off about shit he knows nothing about, gets called out on it and then never posts here again...oh wait...no never mind. That type of shit happens all the time around here!

He needs to post more, this could be a fun thread!
 
Porn is more of a fantasy to me a temporary escape when I am not with a woman in my life.

I think it's quite obvious why men watch porn...I don't care about that. What baffles me is why are they held @ such a high-esteem?

I really don't understand where your coming from, but hey man you voiced your opinion, great wonderful. I responded, I am not going to start World War 3 with you about it.

What I'm saying is...It doesn't take much to bang a porn star...after all it's their job. But it takes more to bang a woman who isn't. Porn stars in GENERAL aren't ugly...but they hardly beautiful either (yes there are exceptions...and everyone likes a certain "look"/"type" of woman, but I'd laugh all the way to 2013 if anyone tells me that MOST are attractive).

This is starting to sound like the confession of a former P* or perhaps the sermon of a rehabilitating pron addict about to become a born again evangelical. º-0

:dunno:

No. I'm not trying to "convert" anyone...if porn makes people happy, who am I to change them. I just want people here to be honest, that's all.

I enjoy the reading though, keep goin!

Thanks. But it would be more interesting if someone here could give me a good reason to rethink my statements. I'm not saying I'm right I just want someone to prove to me I'm wrong.

ps - I don't necessarily disagree with the things you're posting, but this is stuff that guys should figure out for themselves.

It's true. I should've thought about that before I started this thread.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, OP, and trying to cram everyone's tastes into your own small definition of attractive is more juvenile than me sitting in front of my computer murdering my future knuckle children.

If beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder, why is it that hardcore porn stars are held in higher esteem than soft-core or lez only porn stars? What I'm saying is doing hardcore increases people's perception of attractiveness.

Au contraire, grammy, NO ONE deserves you! :1orglaugh
Well, no one but your ego, that is.
You wine and dine that bitch like no other.
Congrats.

I'm not even egotist. And even though it is true that not everywoman deserves me...it is true that many women do not deserve many of you guys also. After all EVERYONE can bang a porn star. But if anyone of you guys have a wife or girlfriend NOBODY can bang them but YOU...has anyone thought of that?


I've been with gorgeous women, models, but most of them were HORRIBLE in bed.
A real turn-off to say the least.
Guess they thought they could coast on their looks. Wrong.

This is not true. ALL women are great in bed....it's biological. Women are like kettles.

I'm sorry, but this is probably the most stupid thing I have heard so far in 2012. You think we watch porn because we're scared? News flash: I am not scared to talk to women, and neither are the other guys on this forum. I talk to girls in real life all the time, and even if I land in bed with them it doesn't mean I all of a sudden have no need for porn. We're porn fans.

I never said anybody was scared of women...why are some people getting the impression I'm trying to bash them?

I can't help but lol @ you calling Tori Black "slightly above average." As if you've been with better.

And what do I have to do to get a chance to meet the great Ms Black? This woman will bang average strangers she's never met, nor one's that she finds attractive...it's under her contract. Here it is again...elevating porn stars.

Where do you live? If you live in a place with a decent population...went outside to a public place...where young sociable girls like to hang out I guarantee you see either someone the same or better looking. However, because we get to see her fucking and blah, blah, blah...

When you slammed Sylvia Saint, you lost any credibility you may have gained. I'm out.

Just my opinion. Hands up anybody who'd still be a fan if she didn't fuck dudes on camera?
 

Mayhem

Banned
Sylvia Saint has gotten old, as happens to everyone, so I'm not going to say I'd still be following her now. But my collection of her jpegs and sample vids is.....lemme check......31 MB and all modelling/soft core. Not huge, but not bad. My point is, she is a pornstar who I genuinely find/found gorgeous.

I also think you're going overboard when you describe us as "obsessed". This is a porn board. Just because we post enthusiastically here doesn't mean that we stand in check-out lines jerking of under our jackets.
 
i'm not sure what you're hung up on? you asked a question, you got answers, you seem to acknowledge and understand the answers but are looking for a different one and don't except those offered. you are asking an opinion question so there can never be a right or wrong answer. yes there are far more ugly women in porn than attractive (at least today the porn world has a little better percentage of hot than in the 70's & 80's). like others have said, porn is fantasy, men are more visually oriented, so women acting in ways most every day women act can offset how attractive they are. some men out there want to be with a wild, dirty chick just because it is different from what the average chick is like in bed. yes, most normal guys could pick up attractive women, but that's not the fantasy. i think most people watch porn knowing these chicks are dressing that way and acting that way because they are getting paid. they're not watching because they think it is reality. look at how guys rate porn stars; the dirtier, the better rated. yes, some are very hot and get good marks because of their looks, but many average, or even slightly ugly chicks are rated high because they are dirty. i think, especially in the last few years, women with average attributes have been sought after in porn because they represent the average looking women most guys can relate to, doing the craziest shit that the ex-girl friend with the thick thighs and maybe slightly large nose would never do. i don't think guys are obsessed with porn stars, if they are obsessed with anything it is the fantasy of a sex-crazed woman who has an insatiable appetite for their cock.
 
This is all I read.

Hey look at me! I'm 24 Grams! I have much higher standards than all of you scumbags!! I can get any woman I want, so I have no need to watch all these unattractive women on a website based primarily on pornstars. Hey!! Look at me!! I'm 24 Grams!! I work in the film industry!! I'm going to make assumptions about the regular porn user and say they are frustrated men who would rather jerk off in front of a screen than have sex with one of the many beautiful women like I've enjoyed in my life. Hey!! I'm 24 Grams!! I'm not saying I'm right, I just want to be proven wrong.

:facepalm:

What kind of question is this? You don't understand why other people have fantasies? No explanation will make you understand. Get over yourself.
 
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