Why All The Anal Stuff???

dont u like double penetration
 
96 - Rather than attacking you it seems to me like a lot of folks, for their own individual reasons, have agreed with you that the mass proliferation of anal is at least somewhat disquieting :dunno:

As a side note: imo the negative rep option exists mostly to be abused. I'd like to see FO simply do away with it.
 
It would be interesting to hear you elaborate your support for this claim. I don't think consenting anal sex between adults has any more to do with child predators/rapists/molesters than any other sex act. Alot of molesters use their fingers because their dicks won't fit, should we stop fingering too?.

I never correlated consenting adult assex (thanks for that term BTW Facetious) with anything to do with child pervert/predator/rapists etc. and what they do to little harmless kids. I said that IT's a MAJOR part of what they do to harmless little kids.


So you're saying anal sex was forced upon us by the porn industry, without our consent, and "the strategy payed [sic] off"? How exactly does putting more anal sex into heterosexual porn make us buy more? If we didn't want anal sex, wouldn't we buy more porn if there was no anal sex in it? But no, people want anal sex in porn, not just because it is there, but because they are interested in it. The only way anal sex sells in porn is because there is a demand for it.

And if you say that demand for anal was created by the porn industry, then why? Why would they do that? According to you, people didn't want it. So why would they produce something people don't want? Just answer that question. The bottom line is that people do want to see anal sex and they do want to perform anal sex and they have for many many years.

It is my opinion that the industry is stagnant, and because it is stagnant that would prove my point: that the industry has decided what they want to put out. But I believe I may be wrong. The internet obviously has changed everything. The internet is the most unbelievable creation - I believe - in god knows how long. Can you imagine living without the internet? However, If I am wrong, and guys are all going out to see women get asshole fucked (many times painfully, against their will like other posters have alluded to - or because they do it because of the demand) because they like it, then I don't know what to really think of my fellow man; the guy that is staring at my g/f's ass when I am shopping with her at the mall; the one who was staring through my sisters window at night when I was in high school. If that's what my fellow man fancy's/dreams of/does, in modern civilization, I have lost a lot of faith in my fellow man. Do I look at attractive women when I go out into public? It's kind of hard not to. But I vow to be a little more respectable in that aspect of my life. I don't want women to think that all men are pervs, ya' know? I mean, my girlfriend can't even walk to her car at night without talking on a cell the whole time because college campuses are so shoddy nowadays. She got groped and stalked at school by some fucking creep who's lucky I wasn't with her at the time, because he would have felt my wrath had I been.

Nevertheless, what does this all have to do with assex? Like Facetious said, It's this ultimate, extreme, do anything and everything to a woman that you can, take every last inch of her that you can possibly muster. Do the most dirty and taboo acts of sex on them that you possibly can. All this has most likely lowered their standing in society. Where are you liberals? I know liberal women don't want any part of that argument.

dont u like double penetration

You should know how I feel about that.

96 - Rather than attacking you it seems to me like a lot of folks, for their own individual reasons, have agreed with you that the mass proliferation of anal is at least somewhat disquieting :dunno:
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No argument here. Some people seem to get upset about it though. It's obvious it's a touchy issue. It's taboo and I believe it always will be. Who the fuck knows? I get so tired of things like this that it gets to the point I don't even care. In the end, I must live my life and that is the best I can do. :dunno: Eventually I will probably stop looking at porn altogether, if I feel it is something that is just a drag, I will. I thought I might get a little more possitive feedback - despite the few that did agree it's harmful as a whole.


PS: Go back and read Facetious' posts. They were brilliant. :hatsoff:
 
"Why All The Anal Stuff???"

that was a question, but you really didn't want any answers, huh? the only verdict here is that your an ass who will simply refuse to see anyone else's point because your too busy thinking your right. Debating is not for you
 
"Why All The Anal Stuff???"

that was a question, but you really didn't want any answers, huh? the only verdict here is that your an ass who will simply refuse to see anyone else's point because your too busy thinking your right. Debating is not for you

Flame...:flame::crash:

Goddamnit, when did you even "debate" me? More people agreed with me that there is too much of that stuff going on. Did that not answer my original question? :wtf:
 

squallumz

knows petras secret: she farted.
again, as others have tried to state. the short answer to the question, "why all the anal stuff" is because the majority wants to see it.

if everyone stopped buying series like "backdoor sluts" and "grand theft anal" and all the other pro-anal movies, anal would cease to be. but thats never, EVER gonna happen.
 
People are curious. People want to experiment. Probably men are more typically interested in trying heterosexual anal sex, but some women are too. If it's consensual, done among adults, then I fail to see the problem.

You (threadstarter) apparently think it's gross. It certainly has the potential to be messier and dirtier than vaginal intercourse, true. But some people can overlook that if it gives them good sensations and physical pleasure...

Some people think eating pussy is gross and unnatural, too. Oh well....
 
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sputnikgirl

Guest
Damn men who want their girls to suck their dicks, but won't go down on them. Greedy bastards.

For real. :thumbsup:

Anyway, I agree with squallumz. If people weren't buying it, the trend would fade out. It's all about what's going to make the industry the most money.
 
well it is a choice, if you want to give/receive anal then that is up to you, just like other sexual positions etc.
 
People are curious. People want to experiment. Probably men are more typically interested in trying heterosexual anal sex, but some women are too. If it's consensual, done among adults, then I fail to see the problem.

You (threadstarter) apparently think it's gross. It certainly has the potential to be messier and dirtier than vaginal intercourse, true.

Hypathetical for you then:

Go out on a date. A blind date, a first date...any kinda date, with a nice female. Then, after the date, don't say "I wanna kiss," say " I wanna fuck you in the ass."

See the point from my OP? Isn't it kind of...WEIRD? :dunno: It's deviant behaivor, that's why. Whether you like it or not. It deviates from what the majority of women in real life want. If I can't convince you on that then I don't know what to say.

Anyway, I'm tired man. I gotta go to bed. Maybe we chat tomorrow. Peace.
 
Hypathetical for you then:

Go out on a date. A blind date, a first date...any kinda date, with a nice female. Then, after the date, don't say "I wanna kiss," say " I wanna fuck you in the ass."

See the point from my OP? Isn't it kind of...WEIRD? :dunno: It's deviant behaivor, that's why. Whether you like it or not. It deviates from what the majority of women in real life want. If I can't convince you on that then I don't know what to say.

Anyway, I'm tired man. I gotta go to bed. Maybe we chat tomorrow. Peace.

If you asked this, you would probably get the same reaction as if you said "I wanna fuck you." You can't just say "I wanna kiss" either, or you shouldn't at least. That's just not how things happen. You don't say you want to do them before you do them. You start to kiss, it gets heavy and into petting and you know the rest. I've had anal on a first date. Just like anything else about sex it just happens. Either the girl asks for it, or you initiate. It's a regular part of sex for A LOT of people. It's not the standard way of having sex, but neither is oral sex. And the definition of "deviant" is non-standard. So in that sense, anal sex and oral sex are deviant.
 

Facetious

Moderated
I found out - sex is like posting -

Fewer tend to be more thoughtful / fruitful / interesting -

Too many / much - anticlimactic, tedious, meaningless -

IMO - (yours is also respected, BTW)

Ever been involved in drugs ? I have (in the past)

Do you know what it means to "plateau" (on a drugs or drugs ?)

It means that you've pinnacled. You've developed resistance . . . You've become a member of the high priests / priestess of "heavy weights".

You're empty, lonely (although not alone)
You seek avenues on how to bump it up, reach for higher highs . . . painful stuff . . . 'cause you can't ! The thrill is gone ! End of the roadski !

My question is what's the next step ? Aszex will eventually get old ! Then what ? !!
I ran across a double A pic the other day . . . Didn't appear as wellness to me ! The parties involved might as well blow their brains out while they're at it ! No fun !!

The last thing I want to do is become a chore . . . a burden to my lady. Why would I impose upon her to have me when she's not in the mix - i.e. - knows she won't climax. The unlearned take offense to this . . . ( you f'in bitch . . .) ) they don't understand women.

This is cool ! I'll reiterate again - (this is for the guys who have a lady, and one lady, married or otherwise)
Say, for example things are "OK" - not great - could be better-
just the suggestion that you'd yield the idea -
Tell your woman that you two will have at it when she feels so. What happened was - deep within her psyche . . . deep within her being she often initiated . . . together we had begun to have (still do) some of the most devine, euphoric conventional sex . . . just try it.
I see so many asshole attitudes, some of my friends, in fact . . .they treat their ladies like shit !! and somehow that has become en vogue. :confused:

The "hit -n- run" / "hook up" culture is all f'ed up ! Everybody appears angry, confrontational, evasive toward anything conventional, and just totally lost in their embrace of chaos and societal bondage. Who cares "whats hot" ? Can you be yourself for a day ?

FWIW - by the board averages, I guess I'm slightly aged, compared to the mean average age. But hey !! I still get carded from time to time !! :1orglaugh. The point ? Some experience, FWIW

"Sh_t ! Where's my f'en hoe beeatch ? !" >:sleep:

• "Um gonna fuk u hoE "
> Bullshit ! She will remain sleepin.

Live and Learn I guess.

Be well all ~
 
Hypathetical for you then:

Go out on a date. A blind date, a first date...any kinda date, with a nice female. Then, after the date, don't say "I wanna kiss," say " I wanna fuck you in the ass."

See the point from my OP? Isn't it kind of...WEIRD? :dunno: It's deviant behaivor, that's why. Whether you like it or not. It deviates from what the majority of women in real life want. If I can't convince you on that then I don't know what to say.

Anyway, I'm tired man. I gotta go to bed. Maybe we chat tomorrow. Peace.

So, you're just relegating anal sex to something that "nice" girls avoid. So, what, I guess only "bad" girls do it?
 
If you asked this, you would probably get the same reaction as if you said "I wanna fuck you." You can't just say "I wanna kiss" either, or you shouldn't at least. That's just not how things happen. You don't say you want to do them before you do them. You start to kiss, it gets heavy and into petting and you know the rest. I've had anal on a first date. Just like anything else about sex it just happens. Either the girl asks for it, or you initiate. It's a regular part of sex for A LOT of people. It's not the standard way of having sex, but neither is oral sex. And the definition of "deviant" is non-standard. So in that sense, anal sex and oral sex are deviant.

How bout a committed relationship that over time, eventually led to that moment where the 'bone'n' was about to begin, and you said I don't wanna stick in your cutchie, I wanna stick it in the "other hole." I'm thinking MOST women - CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG, please - would see that as weird.

So, you're just relegating anal sex to something that "nice" girls avoid. So, what, I guess only "bad" girls do it?

I should have replaced "nice" with average in that sentence.

I found out - sex is like posting -

Fewer tend to be more thoughtful / fruitful / interesting -

Too many / much - anticlimactic, tedious, meaningless -

IMO - (yours is also respected, BTW)

Ever been involved in drugs ? I have (in the past)

Do you know what it means to "plateau" (on a drugs or drugs ?)

It means that you've pinnacled. You've developed resistance . . . You've become a member of the high priests / priestess of "heavy weights".

You're empty, lonely (although not alone)
You seek avenues on how to bump it up, reach for higher highs . . . painful stuff . . . 'cause you can't ! The thrill is gone ! End of the roadski !

My question is what's the next step ? Aszex will eventually get old ! Then what ? !!
I ran across a double A pic the other day . . . Didn't appear as wellness to me ! The parties involved might as well blow their brains out while they're at it ! No fun !!

The last thing I want to do is become a chore . . . a burden to my lady. Why would I impose upon her to have me when she's not in the mix - i.e. - knows she won't climax. The unlearned take offense to this . . . ( you f'in bitch . . .) ) they don't understand women.

This is cool ! I'll reiterate again - (this is for the guys who have a lady, and one lady, married or otherwise)
Say, for example things are "OK" - not great - could be better-
just the suggestion that you'd yield the idea -
Tell your woman that you two will have at it when she feels so. What happened was - deep within her psyche . . . deep within her being she often initiated . . . together we had begun to have (still do) some of the most devine, euphoric conventional sex . . . just try it.
I see so many asshole attitudes, some of my friends, in fact . . .they treat their ladies like shit !! and somehow that has become en vogue.

The "hit -n- run" / "hook up" culture is all f'ed up ! Everybody appears angry, confrontational, evasive toward anything conventional, and just totally lost in their embrace of chaos and societal bondage. Who cares "whats hot" ? Can you be yourself for a day ?

FWIW - by the board averages, I guess I'm slightly aged, compared to the mean average age. But hey !! I still get carded from time to time !! The point ? Some experience, FWIW

"Sh_t ! Where's my f'en hoe beeatch ? !" >:sleep:

• "Um gonna fuk u hoE "
> Bullshit ! She will remain sleepin.

Live and Learn I guess.

Be well all ~

I understand where you're coming from... totally. This is by no means an issue to get ugly about, and at times, I believe that I have, in this thread. I guess it's something I feel adamant about. I would like to say to everyone here that my OP (and maybe some other comments) at certain points, was misguided and that sometimes I get carried away. My intention was not to offend anyone, and if I did that, I apologize. The last thing I want to do is allienate you because, as a member of several other forums on the Web, I can tell you that although we have our differences, Freeones members by far seem to be the most down to earth and inviting, cool bunch; that's why I always find myself back here chatting with all of you: because this is one of the best internet communities...sorta like a good neighborhood bar. :dunno:


BTW; I have all of Gilmour's albums and just about all of PF's. Did you get his new one (On an Island)? It's a tough listen at first, but the album def. grows on you. :banger:
 
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