When is Spexy Ashleigh finally going OCSM ?

Re: When is Spexy Ashleigh finally going OSCM ?

I pay to watch her clean my hardwood :)
 

SpexyAshleigh

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Re: When is Spexy Ashleigh finally going OSCM ?

You're not a OSCM yet?

Nerrrp.


I think this comes down to deciding how cynical you want to live your life. Do we only want to go through life believing that strippers/cam girls/porn stars only view us as walking ATMs?

I don't want to go through life with that thought. I prefer to believe that some erotic entertainers actually love what they do.

I think that its healthy for erotic entertainers to have a realistic approach to the men who spend money on them, but also to appreciate those who pretty much put you where you're at. My job as a camgirl is that- a job. Realistically, it pays my bills, and I don't like to pretend that it doesn't. But at the end of the day, I realize that those bills wouldn't be paid, and I wouldn't even have what I do if it weren't for the support and appreciation I get from my boys. I'm not the typical "camgirl", who has big tits, tanned skin, and I'm not the most sexy person while on cam (anyone who's seen some of the shit I've put on the web would agree with that lol) but what makes me happy is knowing that despite all that, I still have guys who not only still think I'm sexy, but appreciate what I'm about and what I have to offer. I blogged recently on life as a camgirl, and explained my approach to this job...its not always the easiest life to live but I appreciate the guys who make me smile...whether its by their emails, them spending their time and money with me on cam, or whether they buy me something to make me smile on my birthday etc. I'm sure alot of adult performers take that stuff for granted after awhile...being worshipped can get to anyones head, whether they're an adult performer, any other kind of celebrity or anyone of a certain status...but I think there are plenty of girls who keep their life as stupid and real as possible. Did that make sense? I tend to ramble lol.
 

SpexyAshleigh

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Re: When is Spexy Ashleigh finally going OSCM ?

Ashleigh, I've only just begun to read about your adventures and I will say, you're one hell of a character who can certainly hold her own ! Let me ask , are you a natural in the craft of good communication skills or do you have a fairly extensive background in theatre arts and drama ?

Have you ever worked as a sales person in any capacity ? If not you should (big $$$$$ !! :D)

Your movie review video was a riot, you didn't even use notes either huh ?

A mandolin, eh?


:lovecoupl

Umm...I took a couple drama classes in highschool but thats about it lol. And no, I've never worked as a salesperson...my work background includes cooking in a restaurant, daycare worker, and working in both a quality control lab and recall centre for two major automobile manufacturers. Now I split my time up being a photographer by day and camgirl by nite, so to speak.

I don't try to be a "character"...honestly, when I get bored, I do stupid stuff. And working from home with both of my jobs, I tend to get bored ALOT. Like I said in my above post, I take a very casual approach to how I do things, and I'm not here to oooh and ahhh and touch myself all day long.I like to think that camgirls can have a personality along with their sex appeal and if I couldn't turn on my cam everyday and just be myself, then I would get very bored of it, very fast. I'm not here to be an actress...I'd probably make alot more money if I played the role of sex kitten, but no...not my style. I feel the risk of losing myself in this industry is just as high as an individual losing himself working a 9-5 office job that isn't him...if that makes sense.
 
Re: When is Spexy Ashleigh finally going OSCM ?

How about a date with me, SpexyAshleigh and i'll make sure you're
spoiled til the cows come home. :D:1orglaugh:lovecoupl

No way, I want Ashleigh :D

You two DO know that she requires you to shower?

I'm sorry, but I just wouldn't be capable of being held accountable for such high standards.
 

PlasmaTwa2

The Second-Hottest Man in my Mother's Basement
What does spexy mean, anyway? Is it a neat mixture of words that lets people know you are sexy and have awesome pecs, or do you simply not give a fuck?
 

SpexyAshleigh

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What does spexy mean, anyway? Is it a neat mixture of words that lets people know you are sexy and have awesome pecs, or do you simply not give a fuck?

Spexy means sexy. I dunno, I've always used the word spexy. Kinda like smexy. Only spexy. Its just sexy, but for some reason I added the 'p'.

Seriously that has got to be the most asked question I get lol
 

PlasmaTwa2

The Second-Hottest Man in my Mother's Basement
Spexy means sexy. I dunno, I've always used the word spexy. Kinda like smexy. Only spexy. Its just sexy, but for some reason I added the 'p'.

Seriously that has got to be the most asked question I get lol

And here I thought I was being original. :(
 
Re: When is Spexy Ashleigh finally going OSCM ?

You two DO know that she requires you to shower?

I'm sorry, but I just wouldn't be capable of being held accountable for such high standards.

I shower everyday, I take hygiene very serious, I'm very OCD when it comes to showering plus I always make sure I smell good whether it's with a fragrance like deodorant body sprays or cologne :thumbsup:
 

SpexyAshleigh

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Re: When is Spexy Ashleigh finally going OSCM ?

I shower everyday, I take hygiene very serious, I'm very OCD when it comes to showering plus I always make sure I smell good whether it's with a fragrance like deodorant body sprays or cologne :thumbsup:

hey bb....how YOU doin? ;)
 
Re: When is Spexy Ashleigh finally going OSCM ?

Just warning you - I'm not a cheap date. I eat ALOT. :D

So, i see we are on the same pages here. I eat alot myself.

I shower everyday, I take hygiene very serious, I'm very OCD when it comes to showering plus I always make sure I smell good whether it's with a fragrance like deodorant body sprays or cologne :thumbsup:

You sound like me, but I could never be OCD. I could go a week without taking a shower for all i care. ;)
 
So, your sort of single now? Did your previous significant other suffer some blow to the head or become suddenly mentally handicap? ;) It's hard to imagine a reason to leave you or disappoint you to ruin the relationship. If I had a woman of your caliber I wouldn't want to screw it up.
 

SpexyAshleigh

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So, your sort of single now? Did your previous significant other suffer some blow to the head or become suddenly mentally handicap? ;) It's hard to imagine a reason to leave you or disappoint you to ruin the relationship. If I had a woman of your caliber I wouldn't want to screw it up.

"a woman of your caliber"?

ROFL. Sorry but seriously lol. Lemme put it this way: My father literally tells guys I date to just end it now before getting in too deep because they're going to wake up one day and wonder what the hell they're doing with me. I'm not relationship material, not even in the slightest. I shouldn't be with anyone because I'm not mentally fit to be in successful relationships. Just like how most people aren't fit to be parents...I'm not fit to be a spouse/partner.
 
"a woman of your caliber"?

ROFL. Sorry but seriously lol. Lemme put it this way: My father literally tells guys I date to just end it now before getting in too deep because they're going to wake up one day and wonder what the hell they're doing with me. I'm not relationship material, not even in the slightest. I shouldn't be with anyone because I'm not mentally fit to be in successful relationships. Just like how most people aren't fit to be parents...I'm not fit to be a spouse/partner.

Why are you telling yourself that woman. You can't tell the future.
 
"a woman of your caliber"?

ROFL. Sorry but seriously lol. Lemme put it this way: My father literally tells guys I date to just end it now before getting in too deep because they're going to wake up one day and wonder what the hell they're doing with me. I'm not relationship material, not even in the slightest. I shouldn't be with anyone because I'm not mentally fit to be in successful relationships. Just like how most people aren't fit to be parents...I'm not fit to be a spouse/partner.

I was trying to be flattering. I've heard women like that. :tongue:

Besides like dogbone said you shouldn't be so hard on yourself.
 

SpexyAshleigh

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Why are you telling yourself that woman. You can't tell the future.


I was trying to be flattering. I've heard women like that. :tongue:

Besides like dogbone said you shouldn't be so hard on yourself.

no, no, I'm not being hard on myself. I'm being realistic. It took me a few years to kind of find out who I am...after spending about five years wondering why my relationships didn't last, I did some soul searching and figured out that my personality is very very...special. lol. Not saying I'll never have a fullfilling relationship, but now I realize that it'll take a really special guy to be compatible with my flaws...and more importantly be accepting of them. I'm fine with that...I used to think that it was always the guys problem but now I'm realizing that I'm a bit harder to be with than the average woman, and I'm ok with that because its just who I am...just means the guy I end up with will have to be really incredible to be able to deal with my flaws :)
 
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