what would you do if your son was GAY?

Continue raising him as my son... Seriously, a child's sexual preference shouldn't change the fact that they are still your child.
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
I think so. Kinda. Sorta. It's a different analogy you are using. For example, if a person is gay (whether they are born that way or not, which again, is another discussion), and they don't fuck other guys in the ass, then they are alright with the church, because they are'nt practicing homosexuality. That's as simple a definition I can give. :dunno:

Eh, no. With that mentality, then a heterosexual person who isn't having sex with members of the opposite sex wouldn't be "practicing" heterosexuality, therefore, making them gay.

I'm a heterosexual, but I haven't had sex in a number of years. Does that mean I'm not a heterosexual, just because I'm not "practicing" it?
 
Eh, no. With that mentality, then a heterosexual person who isn't having sex with members of the opposite sex wouldn't be "practicing" heterosexuality, therefore, making them gay.

I'm a heterosexual, but I haven't had sex in a number of years. Does that mean I'm not a heterosexual, just because I'm not "practicing" it?

That's the point. They believe it (the act) of homosexuality is the sin, not the person. I am not the one making this stuff up.
 
I know you're not making it up, but I think you're just misinterpreting what you've heard or read somewhere.

Not really. Even though I usually disagree with BsS on this subject, he's technically correct about the idiocy that many churches are preaching.

It has to do with a few simple rules...

1. Go forth & multiply
2. Don't spill your seed
3. No sex outside of your marriage

Gay men & women are always wrong somewhere along the line, but spilling your seed weighs heavier than for instance not multiplying.

You see, if they want to have sex, they should be married, but if they do marry with someone of the same gender, they're essentially spilling seed (men of course).

Since that can obviously not be allowed (don't ask me why, this world is already overpopulated, but for some reference, read this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Onan (yes, masturbation is also wrong and so are condoms & other forms of anticonception)) there's no reason for them to marry in the first place, according to a religion that, IMHO opinion, is heavily outdated...

Since they cannot marry, they should not have any sexual intercourse with eachother either & thus they cannot spill their seed. Of course they cannot multiply either, but that doesn't weigh as heavy as spilling their seed.

Of course many gay people want to have a sexual relationship, which they can only have outside of marriage in many countries, so they spill their seed and have sex outside of marriage, which makes them evil. They have obviously given in to the will of the devil (don't ask me why he would bother, as I really don't know... If I were him I'd prepare my armies for the apocalypse/armageddon, but maybe that's why people can already tell in advance that he'll lose that battle)...

Maybe, if god had been smart, he wouldn't have created the devil in the 1st place, but I've been doubting God's IQ (& his existence) for quite a while now...
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
Not really. Even though I usually disagree with BsS on this subject, he's technically correct about the idiocy that many churches are preaching.

It has to do with a few simple rules...

1. Go forth & multiply
2. Don't spill your seed
3. No sex outside of your marriage

Gay men & women are always wrong somewhere along the line, but spilling your seed weighs heavier than for instance not multiplying.

You see, if they want to have sex, they should be married, but if they do marry with someone of the same gender, they're essentially spilling seed (men of course).

Since that can obviously not be allowed (don't ask me why, this world is already overpopulated, but for some reference, read this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Onan (yes, masturbation is also wrong and so are condoms & other forms of anticonception)) there's no reason for them to marry in the first place, according to a religion that, IMHO opinion, is heavily outdated...

Since they cannot marry, they should not have any sexual intercourse with eachother either & thus they cannot spill their seed. Of course they cannot multiply either, but that doesn't weigh as heavy as spilling their seed.

Of course many gay people want to have a sexual relationship, which they can only have outside of marriage in many countries, so they spill their seed and have sex outside of marriage, which makes them evil. They have obviously given in to the will of the devil (don't ask me why he would bother, as I really don't know... If I were him I'd prepare my armies for the apocalypse/armageddon, but maybe that's why people can already tell in advance that he'll lose that battle)...

Maybe, if god had been smart, he wouldn't have created the devil in the 1st place, but I've been doubting God's IQ (& his existence) for quite a while now...

God, I hate using Wikipedia as a reference, but...

In traditional Christianity, most Christians have regarded homosexuality as immoral. Denominations that hold this position include the Roman Catholic Church[1], conservative synods of the Lutheran Church,[dubious – discuss] the Orthodox Churches[citation needed], most Evangelical Protestant churches, the Southern Baptist Convention, and the Christian & Missionary Alliance.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_and_Christianity

That's just Christianity alone. There are hundreds and hundreds of other religions, a lot of which condemn homosexuality. Obviously, with time comes change and some religious points of view are changing to accept homosexuality, but religion is based on tradition and tradition (in a lot of religions) condemn homosexuality.

That is why I think that religion is the biggest homophobe in the world; not the military.
 
God, I hate using Wikipedia as a reference, but...



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_and_Christianity

That's just Christianity alone. There are hundreds and hundreds of other religions, a lot of which condemn homosexuality. Obviously, with time comes change and some religious points of view are changing to accept homosexuality, but religion is based on tradition and tradition (in a lot of religions) condemn homosexuality.

That is why I think that religion is the biggest homophobe in the world; not the military.

That's because religions are based on stories (that nobody can verify, but ok...) from a distant past. Since the world's 3 biggest religions have the same background, they share the same old stories, in this case mainly the tales of Onan and Sodom & Gomorrah (which includes more than just homosexuality http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gomorrah).

As I already said, according to religion gay people are always wrong/sinning/immoral somewhere along the line, but some sins weigh heavier than others.
 
That's because religions are based on stories (that nobody can verify, but ok...) from a distant past. Since the world's 3 biggest religions have the same background, they share the same old stories, in this case mainly the tales of Onan and Sodom & Gomorrah (which includes more than just homosexuality http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gomorrah).

As I already said, according to religion gay people are always wrong/sinning/immoral somewhere along the line, but some sins weigh heavier than others.

Here's a thought: pedophiles are attracted to children; they can't help it, right? But if they act on that, they are up a creek. Is this, sort of, along the lines of what you are saying? I mean, I already know the answer and don't want to open another can, but that is a similar analogy. eh...:tongue:;):cool::1orglaugh
 
Here's a thought: pedophiles are attracted to children; they can't help it, right? But if they act on that, they are up a creek. Is this, sort of, along the lines of what you are saying? I mean, I already know the answer and don't want to open another can, but that is a similar analogy. eh...:tongue:;):cool::1orglaugh


I'd love to discuss this out in the open, but the board rules prohibit this. If you really want to know my answer, send me a PM.
 
How does this idiot still have a positive rep?

oops... give me the definition of "idiot", please. do not like fags = idiot? since when? I never knew :dunno:
 
Well back on topic, I would do nothing except warn about the dangers of bareback sex. How can anyone feel a failure if your son is gay? This I do not understand.
 
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