What makes a man attractive?

[Harley Spencer]

I had no idea that this was such a sensitive subject with you, I thought we were cool, and I thought you were alot tougher than that, but since my post got deleted and you are now referring to me as "that person", then I guess not :1orglaugh ...Trust me, I have plenty to say to you in response, but I'm not going to get into any type of truthful convo. with you if you obviously can't handle it, so I'll bow out, and just wish you and your 60 year old rich boyfriend with the great personality much future success and happiness. :thumbsup:

You thought we were cool? Really? You think you can say something to me about that, saying the things you did, and expect me to be ok with it? Right.

 

[eric2136]

You thought we were cool? Really? You think you can say something to me about that, saying the things you did, and expect me to be ok with it? Right.

Anything that I know about you is just stuff that you said yourself in this forum, I thought you were sassy and liked to mix it up from time to time. Seriously had no idea that this subject would send you over the edge. You seemed to be stepping up so boldly in response to the OP. I just thought it important that everybody knows where you stand personally in the real world, outside of just debate rhetoric.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Anything that I know about you is just stuff that you said yourself in this forum...

She's been pretty open about her relationship, including why she's with the guy and how she feels about him. She's never said she's with him because he has money. That's all you.

 

[eric2136]

She's been pretty open about her relationship, including why she's with the guy and how she feels about him. She's never said she's with him because he has money. That's all you.

I don't have time to trade jabs with the white knight goober brigade, you want to ignore the obvious so you can preserve the prisitine image of your fap fantasy then that's all you...Oh yeah, and one other thing...Don't talk to me.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

I don't have time to trade jabs with the white knight goober brigade, you want to ignore the obvious so you can preserve the prisitine image of your fap fantasy then that's all you...Oh yeah, and one other thing...Don't talk to me.

I like Harley and all, but I'll readily defend anyone I see getting a raw deal. Fact is she's flat out said she loves the guy. She's also said elsewhere that she tends to keep her relationship somewhat private at times because she doesn't like people getting the wrong idea, the exact type of idea that you just did. In fact, she's complained about it in the past. So yeah, she's obviously sensitive about it.

Seems pretty obvious to me that you're just a misogynist. :dunno:

Oh yeah, and one other thing... fuck you. I talk to whoever I want. Don't want to hear from me? Put me on ignore.

'Sides, I thought you were going to bow out...?

 

[Philbert]

I don't have time to trade jabs with the white knight goober brigade, you want to ignore the obvious so you can preserve the prisitine image of your fap fantasy then that's all you...Oh yeah, and one other thing...Don't talk to me.

Wooo...Eric000, I know if we could just be in your presence for a moment we would see what a magnificent being you are, and we could just bow down, wait patiently for your wise racist pronouncements, and obey your commands. Am I allowed to address your awesome self?
Wait a minute...weren't you just leaving here, recently? Aw, shucks...could you PLEASE do that again, just a bit longer this time?

SOMEWHERE there are other delusional black studs (I will take you at your word, O Awesome One, that you are THAT kinda studly dude) just missing one more brilliant racist fool to complete their happy group. And that could be you!
How can we miss you if you won't stay gone?!?!?
Did I see you use racial epithets here a bit ago? I wonder if that will get you banned? Naw, prob'ly not.
I got some nice words to describe you on the tip of my tongue, but I'll just have to let you use your imagination.
Thinkin' of you, my boy.:dickhead:

 

[Philbert]

Thanks guys That means a lot to me.

Though I don't actually know what my IQ is. I would imagine it's higher than 38. If not, I've got some other problems to be worrying about lol.

Maybe you should read that post again...but yeah, not too much walking upright has an IQ lower than 40...but if there is, I'm sure it'll make it's way to this part of the forum.
:roald

J/K (or am I?)

 

[STDiva]

Manliness attracts women.
Just act like a Disney Prince mixed with James Bond.

That's pretty much it.

 

[Harley Spencer]

Anything that I know about you is just stuff that you said yourself in this forum, I thought you were sassy and liked to mix it up from time to time. Seriously had no idea that this subject would send you over the edge. You seemed to be stepping up so boldly in response to the OP. I just thought it important that everybody knows where you stand personally in the real world, outside of just debate rhetoric.

Anything that you claim to know about me is all nonsense, nothing more than twisting things around, making things up, and making judgments. You clearly don't know anything about me, and considering that I just left a lovely little post up here about my relationship and why I'm attracted to my boyfriend, obviously you're completely ignoring the facts that I'm feeding you on a shiny golden platter. So no, you don't know anything about me, all you know is the fantasy world you've created in your mind where women will jump into any man's arms, regardless of age, appearance, or personality, solely because he has money. Yep, that's all women care about. You figured us out! Good job! A+.

Yeah, I do get sassy on the board from time to time- about topics that don't concern my personal love life. Unless someone offends me, I'm perfectly happy to joke around and have lighthearted conversations, which I do all the time. When someone starts passing judgments on me, jumping to conclusions, insulting me, and trying to negatively pry into my personal life, it's common sense to know that things like that will cause some heat, which is exactly what you've done here.

I came into this thread to offer my opinion to someone who seemed like he might be feeling a little down about getting women. When it came to the point where people were trying to say that money is the biggest factor, that's when I "boldly" responded, so that I could discount that opinion and offer some comfort, that women do indeed, and this is apparently such a shocking fact for you to comprehend, look for things other than money in a guy.

By the way, so far as I recall, I've never once stated that my boyfriend is rich, not here or anywhere else prior to this thread. That would be a lie. There might've been a few instances in which I mentioned that I don't have to pay rent, but why on earth you would interpret that as my boyfriend being rich is beyond me. What if I still lived with my parents? Would you then assume that they're rich? That'd be ridiculous. So FYI, my boyfriend isn't rich. We have a 2 bedroom apartment in NY, we both work, we have a roommate, and we make enough money to simply live comfortably.

If all I cared about was money, I wouldn't be here. I would be back in PA managing the restaurant like I was before, bringing in steady income.

And actually no, no one deserves to know where I stand in the real world. If I want people to know who I am as a person and what I do, that's information that I offer because I want to, which I so graciously do. So if anyone does want to know where I stand, who I am, what I'm like, how I behave, and the personal choices I make in my life, they can come to me for that, because they sure as shit aren't getting the correct information from you.

OP, I apologize that this thread is now pretty much ruined. For some reason, despite the fact that I hate drama, it seems to follow me everywhere.

 

[eric2136]

I like you Harley, you're cool with me, always have been, if you don't feel the same way then that's on you, but either way, you can rant all you want, but I'm not going to sit here and pretend like we're having a real conversation when we aren't...I said I wished you and your male companion well so just leave it at that...pm me your address and I'll send you guys a gift basket of viagra and metamucil for Xmas...peace !

Anything that you claim to know about me is all nonsense, nothing more than twisting things around, making things up, and making judgments. You clearly don't know anything about me, and considering that I just left a lovely little post up here about my relationship and why I'm attracted to my boyfriend, obviously you're completely ignoring the facts that I'm feeding you on a shiny golden platter. So no, you don't know anything about me, all you know is the fantasy world you've created in your mind where women will jump into any man's arms, regardless of age, appearance, or personality, solely because he has money. Yep, that's all women care about. You figured us out! Good job! A+.

Yeah, I do get sassy on the board from time to time- about topics that don't concern my personal love life. Unless someone offends me, I'm perfectly happy to joke around and have lighthearted conversations, which I do all the time. When someone starts passing judgments on me, jumping to conclusions, insulting me, and trying to negatively pry into my personal life, it's common sense to know that things like that will cause some heat, which is exactly what you've done here.

I came into this thread to offer my opinion to someone who seemed like he might be feeling a little down about getting women. When it came to the point where people were trying to say that money is the biggest factor, that's when I "boldly" responded, so that I could discount that opinion and offer some comfort, that women do indeed, and this is apparently such a shocking fact for you to comprehend, look for things other than money in a guy.

By the way, so far as I recall, I've never once stated that my boyfriend is rich, not here or anywhere else prior to this thread. That would be a lie. There might've been a few instances in which I mentioned that I don't have to pay rent, but why on earth you would interpret that as my boyfriend being rich is beyond me. What if I still lived with my parents? Would you then assume that they're rich? That'd be ridiculous. So FYI, my boyfriend isn't rich. We have a 2 bedroom apartment in NY, we both work, we have a roommate, and we make enough money to simply live comfortably.

If all I cared about was money, I wouldn't be here. I would be back in PA managing the restaurant like I was before, bringing in steady income.

And actually no, no one deserves to know where I stand in the real world. If I want people to know who I am as a person and what I do, that's information that I offer because I want to, which I so graciously do. So if anyone does want to know where I stand, who I am, what I'm like, how I behave, and the personal choices I make in my life, they can come to me for that, because they sure as shit aren't getting the correct information from you.

OP, I apologize that this thread is now pretty much ruined. For some reason, despite the fact that I hate drama, it seems to follow me everywhere.

 

[Bonezstorm]

If women try to be honest about a guy's attractiveness it's always like "he has to be nice, funny and tread women right etc..... - and then we totally leave him in the friendzone!"

 

[bobjustbob]

I know we'll never hear this from any of the models but I'll bring up the obvious. There are a considerable number of women that want to take on the "challenge" of molding their men. "He'd be the perfect catch if I could get him to..." Have us guys never been a part of this? We get into a relationship and she starts picking out our clothes. Those quirky ways we express ourselves slowly starts turning into an Emily Post project enrollment. We should eat healthier and spend more of our time doing more constructive things. Us guys believe that we are being taken for who we are. We'll give into some of the stuff at the start but, these mate builders never know when to stop. If we start drawing a line then WE are the bad guys. Men don't do this shit. We size up what we have in a mate and decide if her qualities and flaws are something to continue with. Men don't try to change the person, just change the mate. Anyone with me on this?

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

If women try to be honest about a guy's attractiveness it's always like "he has to be nice, funny and tread women right etc..... - and then we totally leave him in the friendzone!"

“Sorry, bro, women are not machines you put kindness coins into until sex falls out.”
— Caitlin O’Donnell, Drake University.

 

[Philbert]

I know we'll never hear this from any of the models but I'll bring up the obvious. There are a considerable number of women that want to take on the "challenge" of molding their men. "He'd be the perfect catch if I could get him to..." Have us guys never been a part of this? We get into a relationship and she starts picking out our clothes. Those quirky ways we express ourselves slowly starts turning into an Emily Post project enrollment. We should eat healthier and spend more of our time doing more constructive things. Us guys believe that we are being taken for who we are. We'll give into some of the stuff at the start but, these mate builders never know when to stop. If we start drawing a line then WE are the bad guys. Men don't do this shit. We size up what we have in a mate and decide if her qualities and flaws are something to continue with. Men don't try to change the person, just change the mate. Anyone with me on this?

Timidly raises hand...

yes.
I tried other methods...which is why I have an ex with my daughter living 300 miles away.

Stupid is as stupid does. I admit it.

 

[Rey C.]

Hey everyone, I have asked myself this question many times. But I have not been able to find a real answer.
These stereotypical standard answers are things like money and power, but I don't think that money for example, really makes someone attractive.

So Ladies and Gentlemen, what do you think makes men interesting and attractive to women?
(I hope I get some serious answers)

Uh, men who don't think that all women are looking for the same things in men.

See, I don't think women are part of some sort of Borg-like collective/hive mentality, where they're all looking for some magical, singular trait in men. Some women are more attracted to money than others. Some are more attracted to looks than others. Some are more attracted to a sense of humor or wit. Some are attracted to intelligence. So on and so forth. IMO, What do women want? is as rhetorical a question as "What do men want?" Ask five women (or men) and get five different answers.

 

[Skyraider22]

What no poll:dunno:

 

[Rey C.]

What no poll:dunno:

Dude! You're back! :wave2:

Stick around. It's fun again. They stood Sam Fisher against a wall and shot him a few days ago. Come on. I'll show you where he's buried. We can spit on his grave together.

 

[LucyOHara]

Sense of humor does it for me.

I have a weakness for bald guys too. All the way bald, or shaved.

There are a considerable number of women that want to take on the "challenge" of molding their men. "He'd be the perfect catch if I could get him to..."

My brother is in a relationship like this... and it's really, really uncomfortable to watch. She even cuts and slicks his hair to the side like he hates interrupts him to spray breath freshener in his mouth while he is talking to other people.

I am guilty of having said to myself: "He'd be the perfect catch if I could get him to..." ...pay taxes. Dated a guy who had, somehow, never filed taxes in his life. I didn't say anything though.

 

[bigwarmload]

Sense of humor does it for me. I have a weakness for bald guys too. All the way bald, or shaved.

You just gave George Costanza the gift of hope.

 

[gunslingingbird]

Not being me.

Squally ain't a woman, though.

Obviously you've never seen him on Friday night.