It really depends ... especially when it's about "her" ...
Now that I'm married and having oral and vaginal intercourse, I'm more than happy with my wife's D/DDs (or F when she is heavier). When I cup or pump them, they are more than a handful and wrap around my member just enough that it's just fine. Hell, in the last dozen years of making love to her, they've softened so I enjoy them even more than when I met her as a late teen.
Now if I was dating again and practicing outercourse -- especially mammary -- I might change my tune again ...
tunsty said:
I always assumed that 'more than a handful is a waste'
Having said that, a good fullsome pair of 'D's' are just right.
V-Man said:
I respect your preference but explain why it's a waste please

I actually hate that phrase LOL
I'm with
V-Man on that one. I really tire of that phrase too. Maybe if you're only interested in a "rag doll" to bang, and not really hung up on a woman's curves too much, you might think D is the maximum you'd ever want. I guess that might be the case since a lot of people like
Crissy Moran and
Sandee Westgate here -- sweet hourglass women on a very petite frame, but they have C/D cup breasts (even if enhanced).
But as at least one other posted, it's really about the female body as a whole. If it's wider or bigger, wider or more hanging breasts look damn fine. I have a series preference for wider hourglass women -- always have since I saw my first FFW girlfriend in a high-cut teddy. Her hips and thighs, as well as her wide and hanging bust, in that teddy absolutely blew away the thinner model who wore it in the catelogue -- at least in my eyes.
From then on I was into hourglass FFW and realized it had nothing to do with "fat" or "big tits." At the same time, hourglass FFW tend to not only have wider breasts, but their optimal fat distribution tends to give them bigger, hanging ones too -- often still on a slender frame. I.e., their bust and hips clearly "bust/bum" out more than 25% of their waist/stomach. I don't want 36D-24-36 -- I want 42F-30-42!
Even Marilyn Monroe and Anna Nicole Smith were 38/40-26/28-38/40. And you don't have to be "taller" to get the proportion either. So it really depends.
Now if my sole purpose to engage in mammary intercourse, yes, larger breasts help. But in reality, when I was single, my "ultimate goal" wasn't to "fuck her tits." In fact, that's
really the heart of why I love the women I do! My "ultimate goal" was to get her off all while I to have a visual and physical delight in that. And that meant I went for a wider, hourglass woman because:
1. They were a visual treat from glance #1, regardless of bust or fat
2. I was so into providing her stimulation -- especially oral -- which typically meant I was running my hands up and down her sides just as much as cupping her bust (especially as she was sitting on my face)
3. Included in her total stimulation was a heafty amount of nipple and other areola stimulation that had little to do with the overall size of the mammary gland
4. I often didn't want the "thin babe" and/or the "biggest tits" babe in the room, I wanted a woman who really needed to be appreciated and probably didn't get off as much as she liked
Now in many cases, yes, as a result of her stimulation and, typically, orgasm, she pleased me. And yes, that typically if she had a DD, F or larger bust, the mammary intercourse was softer and more intense -- and it opened up more techniques beyond just the "reverse tit-fuck" but more like the "sitting tit-shelf" as well as "just drooping all over" from above, sitting while I'm lying down, etc... Especially if she was providing oral at the same time, the more hang and size, the more she could wrap them around my penis while sucking on it.
And I do have to admit that the bustier she was and the more she hung, the easier it was to stimulate her nipples (as well as cupping their hand-overflowing nature) while she was sitting on my face. And when doing "reverse tit-fuck," the more her breasts would hang down, the easier it was for me to reach her clitoris and possibly her entire vulva so I could provide oral (that's my favorite position).
But all that was always just a "bonus." Especially for lovers I would only have a few times, they were typically overwhelmed/overjoyed that I just didn't "give her a little lube and stick it in." I was into making sure she got off, and by then, it didn't really matter -- I was in heaven and any outercourse technique was going to satisfy. The very few longer-term lovers I had tended to be DD/F+, and that fit nicely into more mammary techniques, I'll admit.
4G63 said:
B, just a handful. Firmness is more of a consideration to me. I'm not greedy and I know there is more to a woman than boobs.
I'm not "greedy" either, but I'm picky. To me, the entire woman's curve is most important for my pleasure -- from first contact and impression to holding her afterwards and reminding her how beautiful she still was afterwards.
I can't lie and say a larger bust wasn't more intense than a smaller bust for those moments I was pumping my member into them. Especially for longer-term lovers where I used more and more techniques. A few of the earlier lovers I had with massive F+ cups caused me to go rather quickly, as with anyone's "first time" for anything -- they gave me a "tit-shelf" and I just lost it. I still wake up in the middle of involuntary wet-dreams thinking back to those times of my youth, I can't lie about that.
It's also rather relaxing to have a F+ lover who can just sit while you're lying down in bed and totally rub her breasts up and down your rod without you having to move at all. The softness just totally takes you to orgasm every time, all while you are relaxed and it's not much work for her (other than the lifting of her own breasts). My wife (currently DD) still does this for me now, but I have to pump a bit more and her breasts won't totally engulf my penis.
Although now that she's in her '30s, she can easily suck on her own nipples which means she can wrap her breasts around my penis while sucking it at the same time -- so that's very nice too. Age helps as much as size in some regards.
V-Man said:
Btw no one except me have voted for Giant J-cups!? :eek:
Have you guys ever seen Alicia 36JJ?
http://img90.imageshack.us/img90/5513/alicia1wl.jpg
Hey, I'll be the first to admit she'd be awesome to have. Not only to please her but I'd really get off on mammary intercourse with her. I'm honest enough to admit my selfishness in that regard, but at the same time, it's only a minor part of my intimacy. Far more has to do with aspects of my lover outside of just her breasts -- although breasts can be a "nice dressing" on hourglass curves as a whole.
I agree it's
not a "waste."
At the same time, it's
not a "requirement."
I
never wish my wife had bigger breasts --
never.
Every woman is perfectly designed by God Herself, and I love every women in her perfect uniqueness.
As long as they are up to my "picky standards" on hourglass and width.
And that standard has never netted me a woman who didn't have anything less than a C, with D/DD or larger being the overwhelming majority.
Just an unintentional, but common "bonus" to the figure I go for regardless.
Most men worry about what a woman does and doesn't have, and what she could "have" to "look better."
Every woman I go for has
everything I want -- I don't want anything different on her.
And that's why I love being a man, everytime I see a woman that has everything I love!
And that's about 2-3% of the population here in the US -- wider hourglass figures.