Unlike a lot of the others in this thread, I like rough sex, and even enjoy stuff like gagging and hairpulling. I've found gagging to be really quite pleasurable in personal experience. No, it doesn't mean I hate women AT ALL, any more than a Domme necessarily hates men for sitting on a guy's face, smothering him, tugging on his hair and calling him names. Sometimes it's just enjoyable to feel dominant.
At times, I wonder why it's perfectly acceptable to see the playful mention of femdom even in mainstream media like sitcoms, but maledom would be completely tabooo. I know the answer of course, but it's a horrible double standard. As long as it's consenting, and no permanent harm is being done, then it ought to be fine. My girlfriend enjoys me dominating her (heck, she's the one who got me into it) -- I don't see why it should feel like such a taboo to tell anyone about it. :dunno:
Sometimes, I admit, some gagging videos do go too far for my liking (although you can usually tell who to avoid -- Max Hardcore, facialabuse, etc). If the girl looks more distressed than submissive, then I do worry.
I hate:
- Body fluids that aren't spit, sweat, semen or pussy juice.
- Stupid settings. If it's in such an exotic LA mansion that looks nothing like 99% of homes, it just ruins the immersion for me. I don't really enjoy watching outdoor sex either. How often do people get the opportunity to have outdoor sex like that in the way you'd see in a lot of porn movies? Now, in an alley near a club or a secluded spot like behind a tree, where the actor and actress are mostly clothed... that could work.
- Too many tattoos annoy the hell out of me, as do pussy and nipple piercings. Those areas are pretty enough without any extra decoration!
- 'Flick tongue' kissing (esp. common between in lesbian porn, but sometimes you see it in straight porn too) -- who the hell kisses like that?!
- Biggest annoyance of all... not enough proper kissing. I sometimes get turned on watching Hollywood actors going at it, even when they don't show much skin simply because they're a thousand times more convincing in displaying something like real passion. I've rarely seen pornstars kiss convincingly, and it's incredibly infrequent.
