Actually, the one person gets better taken care of, more often than not, by the immediate neighbors and friends, family, etc if they have them.
If my neighbor gets killed, we give food and comfort for them, the Church steps in, and Mom can get Welfare, etc if needed.
In Haiti, they got no money or food to share, so even though they wanna help each other they ain't got nothing.
The massive aid the West brings is very now, and isn't gonna change the life of the kids growing up there a bit.
But for now, they eat, and live to have more impoverished VooDoo believing babies who won't build any better buildings than Dad did...and we don't have to deal with that right now.
It's like a short attention span thing, but no way is it better to let people starve to death, die from minor infections, and various other right now horrors after a giant natural disaster when we can help somewhat right now.
Later we can ignore the ignorant and impoverished Haitians as they wait for another minor disaster to wipe them out.
Example...Chile just had a major quake, and lost how many? A few hundred died out of how many millions? They got it under control...