Virgin

[ajitpd]

O ye, virgins out there! Fear not. You are not alone. I am one of you.​

Now that that's out of my system, here goes the question.

When a man describes a woman as a good lay or a bad lay, what does it mean? I mean mechanical stuff seems to depend on man, then how can a woman be a good or bad lay?

 

[1ManRevolution]

Why don't you find out for yourself...

 

[ajitpd]

Why don't you find out for yourself...

Good point. Very good point indeed. You see, for some practical reasons, I wanna stay away from guessing games for a short while.

 

[DOA82]

What does a woman actually have to do beyond lie there?

A good lay and bad lay is merely a way of representing his own sexual inadequacy in way that puts the woman to blame.

Therefore a bad lay would translate as "I came in my pants and she drove of laughing" - but to his male friends, "she was a bitch and you can do better"

 

[biomech]

 

[Vlad The Impaler]

Honestly, it would be like explaining an airplane to Columbus. No frame of reference.

 

[Shifty]

When a man describes a woman as a good lay or a bad lay, what does it mean? I mean mechanical stuff seems to depend on man, then how can a woman be a good or bad lay?

I guess it depends on the man's experience. If he's been with a few women, he'll expect a partner to respond to him: vocalize, move around, take control at times, etc.

If he's a noob then she just needs to be in the same room.

 

[Death-Proof-69]

good lay=enthusiasm, connection, chemistry etc (call it whatever you want) basically the chick enjoying and being 'into' it and having fun, not just laying there dead fishing it...physically, having a nice pussy that fits one's dick well, is adequately wet, visually appealing and clean/hygienic...the last two go for the girl as well for me, if i don't find her sexy and/or she has no sense of good hygiene then it's not happening...also open-mindedness and being comfortable and confidant with herself is a big plus to me...my two cents :2 cents:

 

[1ManRevolution]

Good point. Very good point indeed. You see, for some practical reasons, I wanna stay away from guessing games for a short while.

Well it does not matter cause you will be a 2 pump chump your first time anyways.

 

[Justanothergirl]

good lay=enthusiasm, connection, chemistry etc (call it whatever you want) basically the chick enjoying and being 'into' it and having fun, not just laying there dead fishing it...physically, having a nice pussy that fits one's dick well, is adequately wet, visually appealing and clean/hygienic...the last two go for the girl as well for me, if i don't find her sexy and/or she has no sense of good hygiene then it's not happening...also open-mindedness and being comfortable and confidant with herself is a big plus to me...my two cents :2 cents:

Great advice! You are right on. And the same goes for a guy (except vice versa on the dick fitting the vajayjay).

 

[jod0565]

It really does not matter your first time.

 

[The Grasshopper]

Sometimes its great, other times it's not. Even with the same partner you've had sex with 100s of times using the same super techniques which 90% of the time make her bite her lower lip, whatever. No matter how hard you try you aren't guaranteed to be super-stud just as she's not going to be sex-maiden at all times. People are complex.

Same as if you never break her off. Who knows, one of those times you'll hit it.

Watch more porn. Learn.

 

[YMIHERE]

A good lay is when you don’t get any STD and the woman leaves shortly after the deed so you don’t have to talk to her.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

A good lay is when you don’t get any STD and the woman leaves shortly after the deed so you don’t have to talk to her.

This, only instead of the guy leaving, he's off to make you a bacon sammich and THEN he leaves so theres no cuddling or crap.

 

[Steve-FreeOnes]

What does a woman actually have to do beyond lie there?

Said like a true necrophiliac

 

[maildude]

A good lay is when you have sex with a girl. A bad lay is what you get in prison.:nannerf1:

 

[Johan]

There are no good lays or bad lays.
You fuck this and fin out she's a bad lay. another guy will fuck her and think she's a good lay.
You fuck this girl a few weeks later, you'll find she's a good lay.

 

[LukeEl]

I tend to have middle of the road lays.

 

[Death-Proof-69]

This, only instead of the guy leaving, he's off to make you a bacon sammich and THEN he leaves so theres no cuddling or crap.

ooh...that's harsh, do you at least share your sammich or let him make himself one?

 

[Ace Bandage]

This, only instead of the guy leaving, he's off to make you a bacon sammich and THEN he leaves so theres no cuddling or crap.

A woman should be the one going to make her man a sandwich after sex. After this light snack, the man will drift off to sleep. The woman is then free to clean the house or do laundry. If she has finished her chores, she may read Cosmo so as to better understand how to please her man.