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Re: Very Violet / Violet Erotica / Viorotica

If people are trying to cruel or jerks that's one thing, but I often think too many OCSMs or others want people to have immunity from any but the most sugar coated of criticisms. Sometimes things just need to be plainly stated. :2 cents: :dunno:

We are all supposed to be adults here.
 
Re: Very Violet / Violet Erotica / Viorotica

It's still rude though? What's your point? Two people who are obviously non-native English speakers used both "ugly" and "uglier" about something that is special to Violet. If you can't say something nice, don't say anything. There's no need to be mean to someone just because you personally don't like it. Didn't anyone's mothers teach them to be kind and not say things to hurt people's feelings?

My mother teach me to tell what I think! and this is what I think! Maybe I've not used the right word..I'm a fan of Violet, I love her face, her tattos and her body. The only meaning of what I said some days ago was that I don't like Violet with that piercing. Is this rude? I don't know, I think it's just my point of view! We don't have to be rude, this is ok. But I think that we could explain what we like and what we don't like freely..!
I hope this could explain in a better way what I wrote days ago! :D
 

hormones

Banned
Re: Very Violet / Violet Erotica / Viorotica

I don't think any person has a right to talk negatively about another human being's personal choices or things they enjoy. Violet likes piercings and chose to pierce her nose. It is not your place and not my place and no one's place to talk badly about her and her choices NO MATTER WHAT you think.

Some things are better kept to yourself in order to be KIND.
 
Re: Very Violet / Violet Erotica / Viorotica

we have opposite way of thinking but it's ok..I prefer to be honest, you prefer to be kind. I respect you and I won't post "negative" comment anymore! :)
 

larss

I'm watching some specialist videos
Re: Very Violet / Violet Erotica / Viorotica

we have opposite way of thinking but it's ok..I prefer to be honest, you prefer to be kind. I respect you and I won't post "negative" comment anymore! :)

It's just the way that it is said. Had you said "I prefer her without the piercing", nothing would really have come of it. After all, it is a preference. What you said, whether you meant it or not, was that it makes her look uglier. This phrasing is not quite right in 2 ways. Firstly, it is an opinion, not a fact. Secondly the word uglier suggests that she is ugly in the first place.

Preferences are personal, but there are ways of expressing that preference which do not come across as derogatory or rude. Just remember that the models themselves do come here and read what is written about them, and think about how you would feel to have those things written about yourself.

Personally, I think she has an awesome pair of tits.
http://webgirlhost.com/gallery/237/6?nats=********.3.7.8.0.938.0.0.0
 
Re: Very Violet / Violet Erotica / Viorotica

you're right mate! but in italian uglier it's just a comparative..we use to say this without any offence. "She is nice but with e.g. piercings she's uglier". I just have to improve my English!! :)
 
Re: Very Violet / Violet Erotica / Viorotica

If people are trying to cruel or jerks that's one thing, but I often think too many OCSMs or others want people to have immunity from any but the most sugar coated of criticisms. Sometimes things just need to be plainly stated. :2 cents: :dunno:

We are all supposed to be adults here.

Being adults would imply having an consulting conversation, from one adult to another. Yes you can make a critque, but doing so in a insulting manner seem more toward childishness than adult critisium. If were truly all adults here, then lets start acting like it...ALL of us. Being honest is one thing, but being brutaly honest without manners is just shows laspe of judgement and brings your character into question..not to mention your maturity.
 
Re: Very Violet / Violet Erotica / Viorotica

you're right mate! but in italian uglier it's just a comparative..we use to say this without any offence. "She is nice but with e.g. piercings she's uglier". I just have to improve my English!! :)

Well if english isnt your 1st language, just be more careful on how you use it, just to avoid any missinterpetations and such...I would do the same if I was in Italy and italian wasnt my first language...I would chosse my words more carefully lest not getting the right message across, or worse unintentionally insult those I'm talking to...its just common sense to do so.
 
Re: Very Violet / Violet Erotica / Viorotica

This is the internet and people are always gonna be rude. Maybe sometimes they don't mean to be and maybe sometimes they do. If someone gets offended by what someone else said who are absolute strangers, then that's their problem. Get over it. It's not a big deal and you shouldn't let it affect your life. If you agree with someone, fine, and if you don't... fine. Who cares? Why should we? That's just silly. Wouldn't a forum be absolutely BORING if everybody agreed on what everybody said? Hell yeah it would. That's just not how a forum works. There is supposed to be a difference in opinion so others can talk about it and agree or disagree. Someone said that if it was up to the OCSM, then every comment would be sugar coated. They would have every comment be complementary and positive. Is that what people really want? Or do you want honest opinions? I'd rather have honest opinions. It makes it more interesting. If the model, webmaster, or anybody else can not handle honest opinions... or can't handle what they consider rude opinions, then that's their problem. Besides, if someone says something that is just outright nasty and offensive, the mods should step in and remove it anyway. Violet is just a little sensitive when it comes to her tats and piercings. She is well aware that some people are not gonna like them so I don't understand why she gets so defensive when someone actually says that they don't. She has said herself that she didn't get them for us, she got them for herself... so why should she care what we think anyway?

To quote the great Dr. Suess... haha

“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.”
 
Re: Very Violet / Violet Erotica / Viorotica

This is the internet and people are always gonna be rude.

I've read your entire post, though I'm quoting only a part of it.

I do not know you but your considerations are not 'on spot'.

Disagreement and 'being rude' are two completely different concept. What I'm now doing with you is disagreeing.

But if some one replies to your post.

QUOTE:
You fucking idiot, you don't know what you are talking about. It's all BS.
UNQUOTE

Then it's rude.

Though I don't know you, this board won't permit me to be rude to you. And believe me it matters.

Any post considered to be rude to any member or the model will be deleted. And infraction may be awarded as per the rules of the board.

This discussion on 'rude' or not is going to be closed here and now, as it is basically off-topic. It can also be considered as an attempt to hijack the thread.

So, all members, be polite, whether you know the other or not, whether he matters to you or not and be on the topic of the thread.

crack-a-lackin, this is not only for you. Your particular line was convenient for me to say what I wanted to say. Thanks
 
Very Violet / Violet Erotica / Viorotica

Disagreement and 'being rude' are two completely different concept.
Well, that depends on who's reading it. Some people are easily offended and some are not. What that guy said did not offend me but it sure offended others and I know it offended Violet. I understand what you're saying and maybe you missed the part where I said... "Besides, if someone says something that is just outright nasty and offensive, the mods should step in and remove it anyway." That's where you come in. Nobody was calling anybody a "fucking idiot" and belittling them or I would've totally agreed. Sorry to reply but I had to make that clear. I'm not trying to get off topic but I think this is something that Violet does quite often on twitter. If somebody says something either accidentally or on purpose that she considers rude, she flies off the handle. Just yesterday this guy was purposely being an asshole and she just got so offended by it. I really wish she would just learn to ignore those people because it doesn't matter.

Is anyone else bothered by the fact that she is making videos for another site to sell (that cost quite a pretty penny), when she has members that pay every month?

Sure, she is free to do what she wants, but doesn't the logic kinda get under your skin? Pay me money for my site, now pay me more money for videos. Maybe she should just increase the member rate if she needs money that badly. Or I could be off, and it's perfectly okay to sell anything anywhere.

Opinions?
I saw this earlier but I forgot to comment. I totally understand where you're coming from but I'm okay with her selling videos on OHC. She actually works on that site as a cam girl so it's cool to sell videos on there. I'm sure that site gets a percentage of what she sells. I do have an issue with her selling videos on that ChipIn site or just flat out begging for donations. I will never understand or agree with that.

Someone made the point that selling videos is the same as a weekend job or that there's a difference between that and her site. Well, not exactly because she's pretty much doing the same thing other than they're just a little harder type videos. I'm assuming that these are masturbation videos. I look at it as something extra for her fans on OHC but not every cam girl actually has a website to update those videos. It's not like she's painting houses or mowing lawns on the weekend to make more money from her 9-5... used as an example of course since 9-5 is not a phrase used by an internet model or cam girl. ;) I do agree that camming and working on her site are different but that's not what we're talking about here.

I'm not a member of her site at the moment, but I would have no problem paying an increase for her site if she updated with those harder videos. I would feel kinda cheated or ripped off if I was a member and she was selling better videos on the side instead of updating them on her site. I'm not positive, but I think she sells those videos for $50 - $75, or more... so what's another $10 on her website member fee? She might even make more money in the long run. There is no way I would pay that much for a single 10 minute masturbation video but I would gladly pay $29.95 on her site if she updated with those type of videos at least once a month. That is fair and it only makes sense. I guess she can do what she wants. If guys are actually willing to buy those videos for those crazy prices, then who can blame her.
 
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