Trying to "quit" masturbation?

[johnny316]

Perhaps I'm barking up the wrong tree posting this on Freeones but I was wondering if anyone else has ever tried to quit masturbating? Emphasis on the word tried.

It's not that I think there's anything wrong, per se, with masturbation. I don't believe I'm going to hell for doing the knuckle shuffle (...at least I hope not!). Rather that I've reached the point where it's become a bad habit. After I've finished the deed, I end up feeling cheap and nasty because I know I'm using masturbation as a substitute for a sexlife. The last time I had sex was over three years ago and it seems that everyone is getting some but me. So to help my self-esteem, I try to abstain from jerking off for as long as possible. It kinda works for awhile, only I have to give in sooner or later when I'm sexually frustrated and need to fap. I've also tried limiting myself to say, once or twice a week, but that never goes to plan. So as you can see, it's nothing but a vicious cycle. I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't.

Can anyone relate?

not the wrong tree to bark up at all, go to your gp and therapist about it and likely just give u pills to lower your libido or some nasty shit that messes your head worse then relief via digital download sluts.

i went over 2 years without having sex due to getting serious with saving money and putting all focus on my professional life without any distractions, its no big deal and dont let it phase u. my porn/masturbation has been at all time high since 09, just in the last few months have been able to cut down significantly.. the key for me has been a return to moderate-intense cardio exercise, at least 3-5 days a week for 1.5-2 hours- combinations of walking/jogging/sprints down and shooting around the basketball at local reserves.

until u get a full time living together girlfriend forget the idea of quitting altogether.. feeling like a dirty perv after getting off to scenes like lexi belles 1st anal or tori blacks 1st dp is a given, just like a hangover after a drunken night or a comedown after a partying for a day or 2 tweaked on whatever- its the price to be paid for the high!

in all of cases paying for the fun can be easy, its all about planning the aftermath/recovery period. after a porn session, easy/instant cleanup+quick shower to refresh and then having stuff ready to occupying yourself for the next few hours thats relaxing and entertaining (tv and movies inerested in watching) is in combination with a healthy meal/snack.

what works for 1 person not gonna be for everyone but thats my advice.

 

[CandyAnn]

omfg, why would u quit?

 

[Fully loaded]

For yourself Fully loaded, there is nothing wrong with a healthy masturbatory life and making it your favourite hobby as something to do when you're by yourself. Just ask yourself some questions :

1) Do you ever turn down invitations to real-life social activities because you want to stay in masturbating?
2) Do you ever go to a gathering or event but find yourself going home early to masturbate?
3) Does it affect your work, i.e. do you go to work tired because you didn't sleep enough because you stayed up masturbating?
4) Do you find yourself constantly on your computer for no other reason than to find material to masturbate to?
5) Do you find yourself spending money you can't afford to on porn?

^ None of the above.

Although, I've had a couple of danger-wanks at work before... during the graveyard shift at Burger King.

J/K... (about the Burger King part). I think it's cause my boss is a chick. I doubt I would've done if it was a dude in the next office.

Sometimes (actually, a lot of the time) I wish I was asexual. It's one of those things, if someone tells you not to worry about finding someone, it just makes you focus on it even more. The longer it goes the worse it gets. So, as a consequence, my sexuality becomes a burden. I wonder if hypnotherapy could kill my libido and make me asexual? For whatever reason, I'm not going to meet anyone so what's the alternative?

See? A lack of sex can drive you crazay!