Perhaps I'm barking up the wrong tree posting this on Freeones but I was wondering if anyone else has ever tried to quit masturbating? Emphasis on the word tried.
It's not that I think there's anything wrong, per se, with masturbation. I don't believe I'm going to hell for doing the knuckle shuffle (...at least I hope not!). Rather that I've reached the point where it's become a bad habit. After I've finished the deed, I end up feeling cheap and nasty because I know I'm using masturbation as a substitute for a sexlife. The last time I had sex was over three years ago and it seems that everyone is getting some but me. So to help my self-esteem, I try to abstain from jerking off for as long as possible. It kinda works for awhile, only I have to give in sooner or later when I'm sexually frustrated and need to fap. I've also tried limiting myself to say, once or twice a week, but that never goes to plan. So as you can see, it's nothing but a vicious cycle. I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't.
Can anyone relate?
It's not that I think there's anything wrong, per se, with masturbation. I don't believe I'm going to hell for doing the knuckle shuffle (...at least I hope not!). Rather that I've reached the point where it's become a bad habit. After I've finished the deed, I end up feeling cheap and nasty because I know I'm using masturbation as a substitute for a sexlife. The last time I had sex was over three years ago and it seems that everyone is getting some but me. So to help my self-esteem, I try to abstain from jerking off for as long as possible. It kinda works for awhile, only I have to give in sooner or later when I'm sexually frustrated and need to fap. I've also tried limiting myself to say, once or twice a week, but that never goes to plan. So as you can see, it's nothing but a vicious cycle. I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't.
Can anyone relate?
