"True Love Is Hard to Find" an excellent Toots and the Maytals song.
Does this true love have to be a human?
I fell in love with an Alien, toum touroum touroum tmmm
Fell in love with an Alien, toum touroum touroum tmmm.
Oh, also... could this be a reference to bestiality?
could these be the skids that lead to my most serious perversion?
:ban: not him, me.
One would have to be pretty arrogant or ignorant to seriously state that they know that they have found their one and only true love.
would i be arrogant or ignorant then?
No.Romantic aren't I?
No.
Just incredibly cynical.
Love and human relationships can't be quantified with numbers and statistics.
Precisely because we are dealing with human beings, not robots.
I'm reasonably confident that any woman who has managed to stay with someone like me - with my baggage, issues and personality - birth my children, raise them properly and run a household for as long as my wife has.... is "just right" for me.
In other words - I am at peace and I am content with my lot as it is today.... just as I was 35 odd years ago.
I don't need to "know and meet every other woman on the planet" to come to that conclusion.
cheers,
But to be honest, you cannot know she is your true love. You can believe it. But you cannot know it. You would have had to have known every eligible woman in the world to be able to accurately state that.
why does it stop with eligible women? what if my one true love is married like me?
First. This post is NOT directed at anyone in particular.
But with all due respect, no one can ever be sure they found their 'one true love'.
There are probably what? 100 or 200 million people in the world that any individual could date/marry. And each person meets and gets to know maybe what? A few hundred people well enough to know whether they would wish to spend their lives with them in their lifetime.
That means that most people will only get to know 1/1,000,000th of all the eligible persons in the world for them. One would have to be pretty arrogant or ignorant to seriously state that they know that they have found their one and only true love.
Their is no doubt about it. The odds are incredibly strongly in favour that their are persons out there that you would be FAR better matches with.
I am not typing that you people are not in love. I am just typing that to have not met 99.9999% of the eligible potential partners in the world and claim that the one you are with is 'the only one for me' is , IMO, naive in the extremis.
But if that naivety helps you sleep at night. Naive away.
My point is, if you haven't found your true love. Don't worry, odds are almost no one else ever has or will either.
Romantic aren't I?
There are probably what? 100 or 200 million people in the world that any individual could date/marry. And each person meets and gets to know maybe what? A few hundred people well enough to know whether they would wish to spend their lives with them in their lifetime.
And my answer is that there is no way you could know that she is. You can just believe it.
But to be honest, you cannot know she is your true love. You can believe it. But you cannot know it. You would have had to have known every eligible woman in the world to be able to accurately state that.
No, Wrong, I'm sorry you are 100% wrong.
true love doesn't exists.
thought i had already. apparently i was wrong.yes it does. one day you will find it.
One thing I can say more than anything else is... that when you have it, you *know*. And you realize that all the times you thought you loved before... you did not. And if something happens, and takes that love away from you... then everything afterwards seems meaningless and empty, and you never, ever love again. Not like that one.
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