It's not his authentic expression that bothers me. It's the criticism that he delivers in the face of receiving authentic expression that is different from his own. It's not punching down. It's punching straight. He basically attacks you if you disagree with him. It's this behavior that warranted my comment. Sorry for not including the backstory in my original post.It’s one thing to have different preferences like what’s being discussed in this thread (whether a titjob happens lying down or on the knees, for example). Sexual variety is natural, and people’s tastes are going to vary. That’s totally fine for me.
But your choice of words (borderline, autistic) says far more about you than it does about the person you're criticizing. Reducing someone's behavior to "borderline" or "autistic" as an insult betrays ableism and ignorance of neurodivergence. Autism and borderline personality disorder are not punchlines for your discomfort, they're valid aspects of human experience. Weaponizing these terms exposes how fragile your own identity is when confronted with behavior that doesn't conform to your expectations... wtf.
Instead of punching down, take a step back and ask yourself why someone else’s authentic expression bothers you so much. Your reaction is loud, defensive, and ironically, the very "screeching" you're so eager to project onto others.
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