ApolloBalboa
Was King of the Board for a Day
I just thought I'd jump in for second.
I just finished working with a woman from Iran, she was coming to my clinic for several months and recently left because she got better. She was a very nice lady, in her early 60's, always very polite and it brought a smile to my face when I'd see her on the schedule for the day. Over the course of many visits, she told me about growing up in Mashhad and how after she finished earning her degree there she had the opportunity to visit America for a scholarship or something of that sort. Mind you, this was back in the 1970's, the time of the energy crisis, Watergate, the Vietnam War, and not too long before the Iranian Revolution. She told me how amazing she felt when she visited here and how much she loved the experience, the freedom, etc. When she went back to Iran she began speaking out on behalf of women's rights, started dressing down instead of wearing the traditional religious garments, and went, as she put it, "a little bit crazy." She made several trips back to America over the course of the next ten years and finally immigrated here in 1991. She speaks perfect English in addition to Iranian and Farsi.
Anyways, getting to the point I was trying to make. One thing I found especially fascinating about her was how she spoke so avidly about the opportunities America provided her with and how she was amazed that people living here, immigrant or otherwise, could complain about how horrible it was and yet continue to stay. She told me how she stopped people from Iran and Afghanistan on the street and asked them why they were still keeping up with having their women covered all the time and the strict religious laws if America allowed them the freedom to not have to do that, to do as they pleased (to some degree) without fear of government repercussions. I can't say I admired her being so forthcoming, but I had to admit that she had a point. No one can force anyone to stay anywhere, and if you don't like the government of the land you're currently occupying, how you feel they're corrupt or not supportive of their people, whatever, then just leave. If you're content to be undermined, oppressed, ignored, then stay. If it's that horrible and you're from another country, go back there and complain. If you're from here, learn another language (or don't and look like a complete asshole living in Italy asking people to explain things in English), move away and never look back.
It's that simple.
I just finished working with a woman from Iran, she was coming to my clinic for several months and recently left because she got better. She was a very nice lady, in her early 60's, always very polite and it brought a smile to my face when I'd see her on the schedule for the day. Over the course of many visits, she told me about growing up in Mashhad and how after she finished earning her degree there she had the opportunity to visit America for a scholarship or something of that sort. Mind you, this was back in the 1970's, the time of the energy crisis, Watergate, the Vietnam War, and not too long before the Iranian Revolution. She told me how amazing she felt when she visited here and how much she loved the experience, the freedom, etc. When she went back to Iran she began speaking out on behalf of women's rights, started dressing down instead of wearing the traditional religious garments, and went, as she put it, "a little bit crazy." She made several trips back to America over the course of the next ten years and finally immigrated here in 1991. She speaks perfect English in addition to Iranian and Farsi.
Anyways, getting to the point I was trying to make. One thing I found especially fascinating about her was how she spoke so avidly about the opportunities America provided her with and how she was amazed that people living here, immigrant or otherwise, could complain about how horrible it was and yet continue to stay. She told me how she stopped people from Iran and Afghanistan on the street and asked them why they were still keeping up with having their women covered all the time and the strict religious laws if America allowed them the freedom to not have to do that, to do as they pleased (to some degree) without fear of government repercussions. I can't say I admired her being so forthcoming, but I had to admit that she had a point. No one can force anyone to stay anywhere, and if you don't like the government of the land you're currently occupying, how you feel they're corrupt or not supportive of their people, whatever, then just leave. If you're content to be undermined, oppressed, ignored, then stay. If it's that horrible and you're from another country, go back there and complain. If you're from here, learn another language (or don't and look like a complete asshole living in Italy asking people to explain things in English), move away and never look back.
It's that simple.