Tell me what your response is....

Guys and Gals,

I will make this short and sweet and the story goes like this....I have a co-worker that I desperately want to have all-out sex with....She's attached as well as I but we are great friends and I think that she is very attractive and gets me all hot and botherd everytime I am near her. She knows this and is very cool about how much I desire her but our friendship is very important and I want to keep that intact.

She thinks that would ruin the friendship and I would pursue her even more if we give in to each other in a sexual way. I really value her as a friend and I'd give my left arm to get her in my wildest desires but she is holding back for many good reasons that too long to list here but I am going to show her this post and she is interested in what you all have to say......Let'er rip and I will await all the postives and negatives.:D
 

Vanilla Bear

Bears For Life
You go and pay a hooker to have sex with you and send your co-worker to me! :D

So youll have sex...your co-worker will have great sex (and me, too I hope) and it wont ruin your friendship!
 
If you have shown her this thread and she is interested in our responses, she is interested in you, or at least getting some kind of kick out of it and maybe a flash of excitement in the subject matter.

Whether the outcome is good or bad for other people involved and your friendship, it seems like it is going to happen and you two are going to be fucking very soon.

Probably while reading this.
 
I don't like the idea of being romantically involved with a coworker. Not that there's anything wrong with it, I just think that it would make things awkward at work.
 
Never ever sleep with a friend unless you want to go to the next level. Because once you cross that line you can never go back.
 
Do it now!!!!!

You both have something for each. Why staying as friends? Stay as friends till eternity not to ruin your friendship and see the girl having a relationship with anouther guy. She only comes to you when she's problems.

So, do it now and enjoy the moment. :)

If you gonna do that in one of yours' house at night, don't forget to prepare a sweet breakfast for bed. ;) Ladies love breakfasts prepared by men, breakfast for bed is even better.
 

Facetious

Moderated
How old are you ?

If you're in your late twenties and have dated a whole bunch, You Might want to settle down if that's of interest to the both of you.

I'm of the opinion that if there's any sexual attraction between you two, go ahead and pursue it, but it won't pay dividends at work. Is this job a career type of employ, or just a cheapo temp type of job ? Again I don't know your age, the extent of your dating history, or if it's lust or love.

If you like your job and you wish to pursue this relationship one further, I'd recommend that one of you seek employ elsewhere.
You won't impress your colleagues and more importantly, you will not impress your superiors. Your work performance is likely to slack.
 
You mentioned that you are attached. I say if you love your girlfriend, then don't risk cheating on her. If it's just a casual relationship, I say go for it with this other girl. That's probably what you want to do anyway.
 
How old are you ?

If you're in your late twenties and have dated a whole bunch, You Might want to settle down if that's of interest to the both of you.

I'm of the opinion that if there's any sexual attraction between you two, go ahead and pursue it, but it won't pay dividends at work. Is this job a career type of employ, or just a cheapo temp type of job ? Again I don't know your age, the extent of your dating history, or if it's lust or love.

If you like your job and you wish to pursue this relationship one further, I'd recommend that one of you seek employ elsewhere.
You won't impress your colleagues and more importantly, you will not impress your superiors. Your work performance is likely to slack.

In answer to your question we both work in a non-pro job area ( no real boss so to speak considering that my relatives own the business. I'm in my late 30's and she is in her late 20's. We both have been in long-term relationships with our significant others. And yes we both love our jobs but are not in a way where would lose them.
 
People who start these kinda of threads care less about the responses and more about looking for validation of what they will inevitably do.

Shag your co worker, ruin two relationships that must not mean a shit to either of you if you are so eager to have sex with other people. Show her the thread, though i cant imagine what help that would be, maybe we should just list our names and we can rename the thread for you to

"List of people that want us to fuck!"
 
People who start these kinda of threads care less about the responses and more about looking for validation of what they will inevitably do.

Shag your co worker, ruin two relationships that must not mean a shit to either of you if you are so eager to have sex with other people. Show her the thread, though i cant imagine what help that would be, maybe we should just list our names and we can rename the thread for you to

"List of people that want us to fuck!"

Dude, you may not like it, but that is an honest answer! could not have said it better myself.
 
In answer to your question we both work in a non-pro job area ( no real boss so to speak considering that my relatives own the business. I'm in my late 30's and she is in her late 20's. We both have been in long-term relationships with our significant others. And yes we both love our jobs but are not in a way where would lose them.

I have to warn you of some potentials here.Lets say you two have sex and you want to have it again and she doesn't.And lets say you try to convince her and she resists and feels pressured.I mention this especially since you say your family owns the buisness.If that situation I mentioned comes to pass you are leaving them open to a sexual harrasment case and large payment.Trust me I have seen boss's get sued by co-workers they had consensual sex with and it then went sour.And even if you are not technically her boss your family owning the company puts you in a position of power over her at work.
 
Dude, if you really love and respect your girlfriend, then you're just going to have to regulate yourself to wanking off to visions of your co-worker every night while sleeping next to your girlfriend. Now if your are simply trying to justify what you are [most likely] going to do, then simply break up with your GF and don't be such a douche bag about it. Really simple.
 
If you guys are friends then you should know each other well enough to know whether you want this to grow into something more or not. If you do, then do the right thing and break up with your respective partners before. If neither of you are willing to ditch your current relationship for it then it's not worth the drama it is more than likely to cause. In other words, grow the fuck up.
 
This is all real life and I am still reading all your responses and everything positve and negative are just want I wanted to see.....keep'em coming I appreciate them all. :D
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
just fuck her!
 
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