pretty much all the other things that you say I wouldn't consider to be bad for parents, I do. I constantly speak out against child abuse and abuse in general, often on this board. You might be right and I might be totally wrong about her... but we still haven't seen anything to support that she'd make a good parent, regaurdless of how much you might think she is a good person, or no matter how much worse some other people might be.
I'm not critisizing her as a person or based on her career, but I don't really feel that it's good for a childs stability to have a parent that has mulitple sexual partners, on that note.
I don't care what you think, it is my obligation to "impose my values" of holding people responsbile for thier commitments when it comes to raising children, because that's the most important thing in the world that anyone can do. It's a fulltime job full of self-sacrificies, and I can honestly say, as great as my intentions are, that I don't think I would be capable of being a good parent right now at this stage of my own life. All i'm asking is for other people to have the maturity to do the same.