My girlfriend and I have labeled ours as an open relationship pretty much since we started dating. But it's only open in as far as status, and not actual practice, if you know what I mean - neither of us has actually sought out and taken other partners during this relationship. She's had experience with this before, but my own sexual history is rather bland.
Anyway, we're both starting to get "that itch" and would like to find others who would be interested in sharing our sexual openness. Thing is, neither of us know anyone who might be interested. Aside from her co-workers (many of whom are very hot and I wouldn't mind taking a few of them and fucking their brains out, but she has a strict policy of not having sex with co-workers due to workplace drama), neither of us really hang out with anyone or attend social gatherings. And with all the sexual harassment lawsuits, asking around at my job would be too risky.
I've been to some of those Adult Friendfinder-style sites and found them to be more or less a waste of time (attended my first gangbang through that site but it was a terrible first-time experience) so I'd like to steer clear of those sausage fests if I can. But that leaves the same problem again: where do we actually look? What do we say to people? How do I bring up the topic without looking like a pervert?
Anyway, we're both starting to get "that itch" and would like to find others who would be interested in sharing our sexual openness. Thing is, neither of us know anyone who might be interested. Aside from her co-workers (many of whom are very hot and I wouldn't mind taking a few of them and fucking their brains out, but she has a strict policy of not having sex with co-workers due to workplace drama), neither of us really hang out with anyone or attend social gatherings. And with all the sexual harassment lawsuits, asking around at my job would be too risky.
I've been to some of those Adult Friendfinder-style sites and found them to be more or less a waste of time (attended my first gangbang through that site but it was a terrible first-time experience) so I'd like to steer clear of those sausage fests if I can. But that leaves the same problem again: where do we actually look? What do we say to people? How do I bring up the topic without looking like a pervert?
