swinger club experiances

Hi all,

I want to go to a swingers club but I'm afraid all the guys will want me and won't share with my husband or no girl will join us? Any advice and whats it REALLY like in a swingers club!? Thanks!
 
Well, you just have to go, mingle and find out. Granted, I have never been to a swingers club. The only swinger party I ever went to was totally by accident. I just went to a regular party with a couple girlfriends. I get in there and there's people in the hottub, a couple having sex on nearby couch. We just figured, what the hell, got naked and mingled in the hottub. People will ask if doing anything is ok with you. As a woman, you will have all the choice in the world to what you want to do, so don't settle for less. If you aren't into certain people, its pretty easy to politely decline and indicate that you're not ready. One woman made her way on top of me, but it didn't take long for her to tell that I wasn't so interested in her.
 
i was invited to one through a friend of a friend of a friend who ran a small club from his house. although initially sceptical, i went along anyway but made it clear from the start i was only curious to see what it was all about. the hosts were very nice people and when introducing me, made everyone aware why i was there. at no time did i feel uncomfortable and i wasn't constantly being pestered by anyone. those who wanted to have sex did and those who didn't, didn't. most people were there primarily to have fun, whether that involved sex or not. i ended up having a really great time and it was an eye-opener for sure.
 

BCT

Pucker Up Butter Cup.
I've never been at an actual swinger club but I've been in an orgy, does that count? :)
 
Do you mean like a private swingers club?

My girlfriend and I started going to this swingers "club" in October. It's actually a couple's home (they run it) and in order to gain membership, my girl and I had to submit STD results, pass a background check and prove that we've been living together for at least for years.

When we showed up, we had to park in the parking lot of a nearby Outback Steakhouse and walk a little bit to the house. Once there, we were greeted warmly and met about five other couples who were all mingling and having a drink in the living room and kitchen area. Eventually two other couples showed up and everybody just socialized for about 45 minutes. There was one other couple that were "first timers" so it seemed like the four of us got the most attention as everybody came to introduce themselves and look us over.

I'm sure every club is set up differently, but there were two rooms on the second floor and then there was a furnished basement with an open shower and a pretty cool wetbar. Basically, you'd mingle and find a partner and then head either upstairs or downstairs. Absolutely no sex on the first floor. Even though everybody there submitted a clean test, condoms were encouraged, but optional.

I was talking to a couple when I noticed that a group of people all left for the basement at once. When I glanced over, I noticed that my girlfriend was in that group, but I couldn't see who she was with. I continued chatting for a few minutes, but eventually my curiosity got the best of me and I headed downstairs. Down there were two couples having sex on this big couch and my girl was giving some guy a blowjob on another couch. I wanted to keep watching, but I didn't want her to see me and think I was keeping an eye on her.

When I went back upstairs there was an older woman in her mid forties and she came over to me and asked if I'd like to go upstairs with her. To be honest, I didn't...I wanted to go back downstairs and there were a couple other girls I was eyeing, but I didn't want to be rude and went with her. She was attractive and had a pretty nice body. We ended up having fun in one of the upstairs bedrooms.

When we were finished I went back down to the basement and saw that the guy my girl was blowing was now sitting and having a drink by the bar. My girl was now on the larger couch getting fucked by another guy as another couple fucked right next to them. I sat on one of the stools, poured myself a drink and enjoyed the show.

I noticed that there were a few guys just sitting at the small bar or standing around just watching. They were all fully dressed and seemed to be enjoying themselves. I wasn't sure if these guys just got off from watching or what. One of the guys recognized that it was my girlfriend getting fucked and complimented me on her looks...which was a little surreal.

Everyone was very polite and well-behaved. There were a few people there who ran their own groups and we got a couple invites for those. My girl and I haven't decided if we'll pursue any of those, but the offer's there.

Again, I don't know how each group/club operates, but this one seemed pretty selective. There is a yearly "membership cost" ($500 per couple) and there's a party every two months ($150/couple). Also,the club owners have the right to cancel your membership at any time (Which I learned from one of the members is because some people, let's say, eventually let their appearance diminish.) I noticed that nobody at this particular party was overweight and the age ranged from mid-20s to maybe early-mid 50s. Most people seemed to be in their 30s.
 
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