I have nothing against fat women and If I was fat I would hold my hands up and accept the plumper tag but im not and thats the point.If I had rolls of fat on me I wouldnt take my cloths in the first place of for a living and I do respect those women for doing it ,it takes alot of guts.I know most men dont see me like that surely you can see things from the models view even a little bit if not its cool.
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stop classing me as fat or bbw
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[B][URL="https://www.freeones.com/denise-davies said:
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
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Oh, FFS, people... all she did was request that people avoid the term because it's not one she's comfortable with.
She can't exactly enforce a ban on the label being applied to her, so ultimately, it's up to individuals how they want to talk about her. They can decide to do the decent thing and refer to her in the manner she prefers, or act like inconsiderate assholes just because they couldn't give a shit. It's really that simple.
For the reasons Friday already stated, most people on the net are probably going to continue to use the term anyway. That doesn't mean posting on this board will have had no effect whatsoever. Freeones is a very popular site. Chances are that if one of her fans searches for her name and finds her comments here, they may at least think twice.
I'm sure most people probably wish they had a thicker skin when it comes to labels and criticism, but I really don't think she was after that was the sort of 'advice' she was after when she made this thread. She just doesn't like the tag.
Also, telling someone that adult entertainment industry that they can't have much self-respect is completely out of order -- especially on Freeones.
She can't exactly enforce a ban on the label being applied to her, so ultimately, it's up to individuals how they want to talk about her. They can decide to do the decent thing and refer to her in the manner she prefers, or act like inconsiderate assholes just because they couldn't give a shit. It's really that simple.
For the reasons Friday already stated, most people on the net are probably going to continue to use the term anyway. That doesn't mean posting on this board will have had no effect whatsoever. Freeones is a very popular site. Chances are that if one of her fans searches for her name and finds her comments here, they may at least think twice.
I'm sure most people probably wish they had a thicker skin when it comes to labels and criticism, but I really don't think she was after that was the sort of 'advice' she was after when she made this thread. She just doesn't like the tag.
Also, telling someone that adult entertainment industry that they can't have much self-respect is completely out of order -- especially on Freeones.
Peoples minds are just brainwashed by the media and have expectations much too high to be realistic. I hate it when people call a girl fat just because you can't see her ribcage bulging through her chest. You are not bbw and neither is Katja or Gianna, but since people see all the anorexic people on the entertainment shows and movies, they think you are.
Don't worry about what people classify you as. As long as you respect yourself, and see yourself as beautiful, that is all that counts.
Don't worry about what people classify you as. As long as you respect yourself, and see yourself as beautiful, that is all that counts.
aww thank you dream sparrow and cartman I realy appreciate those comments they were very sweet
It's just a matter of advertising.
Look at the proportional search tags in the cloud at the bottom when you do an advanced search. People search for porn in wide terms.
You have the kind of body (especially breasts) that appeal to men who enjoy BBW. And that ranges from Gianna Michaels to much heavier ladies and everything between. So if anyone is looking for pictures of women like you, they don't search for "petite teens", because frankly you are not, and I don't think you can disagree with me. And you have a different, more natural kind of body than what you get in general if you search "busty woman" (just try it yourself, most are silicones).
So BBW, speaking in wide terms (unable to avoid pun), is the closest you can get. Does that mean people think you are obese or fat? No. But it's the most accurate word in porn terminology.
That's my explanation as to why you would be referred to as a BBW: because it's the most rational. You may not think this is right, but that's reality. In internet porn, you're a teen one day and mature the other.
If this bothers you I think you should reconsider posing on the web or try to avoid visiting places where they refer to you as BBW.
I won't refer to you as a BBW anymore, because like DreamSparrow said it is about courtesy and if you don't like it, I don't see any need to call you by terms. Being nice if I can is as natural as your big juicy tits to me, even though I'm not 100% they are, but I assume so
But anyway, that's just me and the bigger part of the Freeones board who reads this, don't expect any significant change from the others.
Hope that was of any help, albeit a bit drawn-out. My personal opinion is that I think you should embrace your BBW image, more men than you may think actually like that a lot and it's usually a sister-word to busty or voluptous.
Look at the proportional search tags in the cloud at the bottom when you do an advanced search. People search for porn in wide terms.
You have the kind of body (especially breasts) that appeal to men who enjoy BBW. And that ranges from Gianna Michaels to much heavier ladies and everything between. So if anyone is looking for pictures of women like you, they don't search for "petite teens", because frankly you are not, and I don't think you can disagree with me. And you have a different, more natural kind of body than what you get in general if you search "busty woman" (just try it yourself, most are silicones).
So BBW, speaking in wide terms (unable to avoid pun), is the closest you can get. Does that mean people think you are obese or fat? No. But it's the most accurate word in porn terminology.
That's my explanation as to why you would be referred to as a BBW: because it's the most rational. You may not think this is right, but that's reality. In internet porn, you're a teen one day and mature the other.
If this bothers you I think you should reconsider posing on the web or try to avoid visiting places where they refer to you as BBW.
I won't refer to you as a BBW anymore, because like DreamSparrow said it is about courtesy and if you don't like it, I don't see any need to call you by terms. Being nice if I can is as natural as your big juicy tits to me, even though I'm not 100% they are, but I assume so
But anyway, that's just me and the bigger part of the Freeones board who reads this, don't expect any significant change from the others.Hope that was of any help, albeit a bit drawn-out. My personal opinion is that I think you should embrace your BBW image, more men than you may think actually like that a lot and it's usually a sister-word to busty or voluptous.
...and along with that porn has become quite stupid in the way it classifies people anymore. Anybody with a brain knows to ignore it and just judge the women for themselves after they have looked at them.
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[B][URL="https://www.freeones.com/denise-davies said:
You got a good point there
Shouldn't worry too much about the opinion of others, women who are skinny and have gone under the knife seem to be considered normal these days. We classify women as fat that have shapely bodies, when it's not accurate. I too get confused when I see women who are curvy being called fat when they aren't really carrying any extra weight around, just what is healthy for their body type.
Can't please everyone. :dunno:
You do know that some of your members are there because they also classify you as a BBW, and love you for it. You are very sexy and beautiful and those little things shouldn't affect you, important thing is that people love what they see, signs up on your site to see more and you should just work harder to keep those people happy. Just my 2cents.
thanks crashnburn I have taken on board what everyone has said and I have gotten over it lol
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Actually, I chose to ignore that post because I thought it was stupid. When Anna Nicole Smith got large towards her later years, I agree she wasn't called BBW. She had the displeasure of being called FAT, no sugar coating at all.
And then of course, she went and compared herself to Marilyn Monroe.
your just an asshole spleen and I started ignoring your posts a while back slag me of all you want i dont realy care.
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Actually, I chose to ignore that post because I thought it was stupid. When Anna Nicole Smith got large towards her later years, I agree she wasn't called BBW. She had the displeasure of being called FAT, no sugar coating at all.
And then of course, she went and compared herself to Marilyn Monroe.
That's kind of true. Plus, you have to remember that the term BBW is never, ever, ever used with mainstream celebrities (actresses, singers, etc). So, of course she was never called a BBW. I do remember her being called fat though.
Anna eventualy became fat she wasnt at the start of her carrier
Neither are you for that matter, in fact your predicting the end of your own in 5 years. I enjoyed that post where you said youve taken it all on board, no you havent, youve just had your ass kissed and been told enough of what you wanted to hear to end whatever emotional spiral that prompted you to post in the first place about your grievance.
Youve totally disregarded any post that contradicts the point you are trying to make about resenting being labelled for what you say you arent.
Denial is an ugly thing.
Spleen
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You do care, otherwise you wouldn'tbe calling me an asshole.
You're just pissed off because I didn't brown-nose you like the others.
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