My girlfriend loves it, and she definately converted me. At first, I wasn't sure about it. I'm a total pascifist. I was kind of awkward with it. I was afraid of hurting her badly. But the more I tried it, the hotter I saw her get about it when I cut loose, the sounds she'd make, the way she'd move. Even the sound of a nice, swift pop on the bum is sexy. I've used belts and canes. It's all just good fun, and we trust eachother, and that's really important.
It's a huge turnon to hear a woman beg for your cock after you've teased her, and spanked her and made her so hot she's all but ****** tears of frustration. So I kind of put my pascifism on hold in the bedroom, at least when we get kinky. I think alot of women want to be manhandled in the bedroom more often than you'd think. Spanking is a whole lot of fun, if you're both really into it.
Even me, I like to get a nice crisp slap on the chest out of nowhere when I'm getting head, or being ridden. It's an amazing rush.