Sex Toys

[TheThe]

:dunno:Should I buy my g/f a toy for christmas and if so what? What do you think she will make of it. Have any of you other guys bought toys for your g/f's and how did they recieve it???

 

[Torre82]

Bad idea. Buy her a sex toy for new years. Less pressure on the both of you. (Plus if you get drunk on New Years like everyone else, she'll be more likely to immediately try it out.. in front of you.. with the camcorder on.. and suggest rapid share as a viable upload host so you can show us how it went!)

Btw, a magic bullet type vibrator is never disapointing.

 

[squallumz]

somewhat recently i got a vibrator for my girl, but she we kinda discussed it. we were gonna get our 1st movie together and i asked her if she wanted a toy and she said yeah (though still kinda shy about it). she got shy and stayed in the car and i went in and picked one out myself, she liked it. i went with a normal white vibrator 7.5'' that came with a cock shaped rubbed jelly sleeve over it.

if you're no completely sure how she'll take it, go for the normal small mini-vibe type things. its not all out there, low key and not too threatening.

something like this http://www.sextoys.co.uk/modules/images/alt-images/N4431-Remote_Control_Mini_Vibe-1.jpg

if you are thinking about getting her a toy, im sure you have a decent sex life, so as long as youre already fucking, do it. it could be the start of something great.

if you havent had sex yet, id wait til you did. you dont want to scare her.

just go for something very basic. stay away from the dongs and huge cock shaped shit. introduce it slow and if she likes it you can go from there.

 

[Caitlain]

If she's used toys before (even basic ones), get her a Rabbit.

 

[Imagine]

It's probably not first-date-present material, but if you're in a long-term stable relationship, go for it. If nothing else, it shows her that you're okay with her having and using them. Contrary to popular belief, it doesn't make you less of a man.

 

[Caitlain]

Contrary to popular belief, it doesn't make you less of a man.

As I see it, it is quite the opposite. It shows me you're comfortable enough with your own sexual self to want to include different stuff into sex play. Sexual self confidence is way sexy.

 

[Imagine]

Good to know I have at least one thing going for me then.

 

[Torre82]

:dunno:Should I buy my g/f a toy for christmas and if so what? What do you think she will make of it. Have any of you other guys bought toys for your g/f's and how did they recieve it???

In the past five years... I've been present for the purchase of probably five total dildo purchases. Of course, not one yearly visit, but two visits and several choices each time. There was a double headed for those nights where she wanted either the smooth or veiny side... a G-spot reacher that she used solely to stimulate her inner yum spot.. an anal trainer that she actually just used as an everyday dildo. (My cock is quite fat, so to speak.. so she wanted the opposite to balance it out.) She also had two normal ones.. ya know, plastic.. vibrator on the inside and smooth outside. Dont remember much about them as she never really used 'em much.

Soo.. with that said, I dont think it's a good idea really buying her one as every girl is different. I've known girls to have extremely varied tastes as far as sex.. dildo choice.. size.. length.. blah blah, it's just not really the man's choice unless she offers it to you. A gift is a gift and you should always make an informed decision on what to actually buy and give. So if you're asking on a public board what to buy.. then you dont know enough about her, yet. That's just my common sense speaking. I dont ask you guys what car I should buy, or what to eat today.. because it's a personal choice.

 

[senob44]

^I think Torre has a very good point. Buying a girl a sex toy, in my mind is something to go shopping for with her. Like he said, she may have different preferences. You'd hate to buy her the "wrong" one and then she'll never use it. I would get her something else for Christmas and then offer to take her out shopping separately for a sex toy.

And keep yourself in the equation by all means. After all, you may be assisting her with the sex toy. They are great during sex to reach all the areas that you can't at the moment since you're rooted inside her.

 

[ChefChiTown]

I got my ex a vibrator once...and she ended up liking it more than she liked my real penis. I don't know if it was because I wasn't as big as the vibrator or because my weiner isn't purple or has 3 speeds, but either way, that fucking thing got way more pussy than I did.

 

[Caitlain]

I got my ex a vibrator once...and she ended up liking it more than she liked my real penis. I don't know if it was because I wasn't as big as the vibrator or because my weiner isn't purple or has 3 speeds,

You know, with the right work, we CAN make that happen.

 

[squallumz]

As I see it, it is quite the opposite. It shows me you're comfortable enough with your own sexual self to want to include different stuff into sex play. Sexual self confidence is way sexy.

oh for sure, i couldnt agree more. i actually find myself getting turned on when i use the one i got her on her. its pretty hot.

 

[LouiseLloyd]

I would recommend the LoveHoney Sqweel, it's a perfect sex toy to buy as a gift for a partner, it's a sex toy that comprises of 10 rotating realitic feeling tongues that mimick the sensation of oral sex.





Alternatively, why not make your own sex toy from your own penis with the Clone-A-Willy Moulding Kit, it allows you to take an exact replica of your willy and turn it into a vibrator!


These sex toy's will make ideal gifts for your girlfriend this Christmas, regardless of your relationship and openess towards sex, as they less imposing and embarrassing than realistic cocks, dildos and rabbit vibrators or something like a fuck machine.


Hope this helps you out and hope you and your girlfriend enjoy a Kinky Christmas!

 

[Ace Bandage]

^^ You bumped a three year old thread for that.

Buy your girlfriend shoes and a gift card to Victoria's Secret. If you know what she likes, buy her some panties, a couple bras, or lingerie (fuck her, pick what you like) from VS as well.

Christmas shopping finished in two trips. Remember, it's not the thought that counts, it's how to do the bare minimum and still succeed. :thumbsup: