Serious question re: cheating

[Justanothergirl]

Hi guys! I am working from home today - the Maury show was on the TV in the background. Lots and lots of cheaters on the show (as always!) Question for you (just want an informal poll to see what you guys think):

What do you guys think is cheating?

Trying to cheat (does trying to hook up consitute cheating)?
A kiss with another woman?
An online "affair?"
A handjob?
Oral sex?
Frequenting porn sites (LOL - I know, I know, loaded question...)
Have you cheated?
Would you if you could (and get completely away with it?)

I know there have likely been other threads on this subject, but wanted to ask from a woman's point of view - obviously I have my own opinions.

So tell Missy your deep, dark secrets!

 

[PirateKing]

Anal.

 

[Member442]

What do you guys think is cheating?

Trying to cheat (does trying to hook up consitute cheating)? depends on how hard your trying.
A kiss with another woman? No
An online "affair?" probably not unless it really made my sexlife suck because of it.
A handjob? no
Oral sex? a grey area for me..if its a totally stranger no if its someone we both know yes
Frequenting porn sites (LOL - I know, I know, loaded question...) Hell no
Have you cheated? Yes once
Would you if you could (and get completely away with it?) No I love who I'm with I'd rather have a 3some or more.

 

[alexpnz]

Hi guys! I am working from home today - the Maury show was on the TV in the background. Lots and lots of cheaters on the show (as always!) Question for you (just want an informal poll to see what you guys think):

What do you guys think is cheating?

Trying to cheat (does trying to hook up consitute cheating)?
A kiss with another woman?
An online "affair?"
A handjob?
Oral sex?
Frequenting porn sites (LOL - I know, I know, loaded question...)
Have you cheated?
Would you if you could (and get completely away with it?)

I know there have likely been other threads on this subject, but wanted to ask from a woman's point of view - obviously I have my own opinions.

So tell Missy your deep, dark secrets!

no
yes
no
yes
yes
no
yes
depends if I really love the broad I'm with

 

[Shifty]

Trying to cheat (does trying to hook up consitute cheating)? Yes.
A kiss with another woman? Yes.
An online "affair?" Yes.
A handjob? Yes.
Oral sex? Yes.
Frequenting porn sites (LOL - I know, I know, loaded question...) No.
Have you cheated? :dunno:
Would you if you could (and get completely away with it?) :dunno:

 

[L3ggy]

You forgot to add cheat codes :tongue:

 

[GregCentauro]

So tell Missy your deep, dark secrets!

I sawed off my right foot, cooked it in a stew and then ate it. Is that the thread topic? Oh! It isn't ... :shy:

Trying to cheat (does trying to hook up consitute cheating)? - No, the attempt is negligible.
A kiss with another woman? - I supposed there are tongues involved... Yes
An online "affair?" - You mean the ridiculous concept of "cybersex"? :1orglaugh No.
A handjob? - Yes
Oral sex? - Yes
Frequenting porn sites (LOL - I know, I know, loaded question...) - LOL I'm here for the funny pictures.
Have you cheated? - Only in card games
Would you if you could (and get completely away with it?) - No.

 

[LukeEl]

Here are my answers:

A kiss with another woman? Well if it is a full 3 periods of tonsil hockey yes. Kiss on the cheek or side of face no.
An online "affair?" People still have those? Yes it is cheating
A handjob? I'd rather do it myself because no one can bust you or say it's cheating when you masturbate.
Oral sex? Yes
Frequenting porn sites (LOL - I know, I know, loaded question...) Aside from my insane rants on FO's yes
Have you cheated? No, but I have been cheated on plenty. Hey it's there loss, and what comes around goes around.
Would you if you could (and get completely away with it?) Wouldn't know, women have a tendency to stay with me for a total of 2 months.

 

[Vlad The Impaler]

Hi guys! I am working from home today - the Maury show was on the TV in the background. Lots and lots of cheaters on the show (as always!) Question for you (just want an informal poll to see what you guys think):

What do you guys think is cheating?

Trying to cheat (does trying to hook up consitute cheating)?

(Yes)

A kiss with another woman?

(Yes)

An online "affair?"

(Yes, not to mention stupid)

A handjob?

(Yes)

Oral sex?

(Yes)

Frequenting porn sites (LOL - I know, I know, loaded question...)

(ehh, no, it's just fantasy and could be healthy if not abused)

Have you cheated?

(Yes, I'm an asshole)

Would you if you could (and get completely away with it?)

(I have many times, but have matured enough to finally say no, I would not)

I know there have likely been other threads on this subject, but wanted to ask from a woman's point of view - obviously I have my own opinions.

So tell Missy your deep, dark secrets!

 

[Legzman]

IMO cheating = intercourse so there fore suckin ain't fuckin! and a handjob is no worse than jacking off to porn. If the girl has a problem with masturbation and/or porn, she's no girl of mine anyway!

 

[darkwarrior3007]

Trying to cheat (does trying to hook up consitute cheating)? Yes
A kiss with another woman? Depends. If it's a kiss on the cheek, no. A kiss on the lips, yes.
An online "affair?" Yes
A handjob? Yes
Oral sex? Yes
Frequenting porn sites (LOL - I know, I know, loaded question...) No
Have you cheated? No
Would you if you could (and get completely away with it?) No

 

[Ace Bandage]

Cheating is anything that would make your significant other angry if she saw you doing it with someone else. So kissing, going to dinner, butt sex, and holding hands are all considered cheating.

 

[~~whimsy~~]

If you know you don't want to be tied down to one woman don't get in a relationship.

 

[lurkingdirk]

If you have to think about whether it is cheating or not, it's cheating.

 

[power-san]

Unless you're married it's not cheating.

 

[Jds23]

What do you guys think is cheating?

Breaking your loyalty to one woman.

Trying to cheat (does trying to hook up consitute cheating)?

Yes.

A kiss with another woman?

Yes.

An online "affair?"

Of course.

A handjob?

Yep.

Oral sex?

Oh yeah.

Frequenting porn sites (LOL - I know, I know, loaded question...)

In spirit. Especially if you sneak and do it, and she has told you not to.

Have you cheated?

No.

Would you if you could (and get completely away with it?)

Nah.

 

[Death-Proof-69]

my definition of cheating is being dishonest and going behind a significant others back to do something sexual that is not agreed upon and then hiding it...i've had open relationships before so my idea of cheating may be a little skewed but basically anything that a significant other does not agree to or say is ok and/or not honestly informing/discussing what's going on with your S.O.

 

[glock27]

If you would not want your significant other to be about to do what you are, then it is cheating.

 

[STDiva]

Trying to cheat (does trying to hook up consitute cheating)? Yup.
A kiss with another woman? Yup.
An online "affair?" Yup.
A handjob? Yup.
Oral sex? Yup.
Frequenting porn sites (LOL - I know, I know, loaded question...) No. But I'm sure some would consider it cheating.
Have you cheated? Yup.
Would you if you could (and get completely away with it?) No. If I was unhappy with who I was with, I would leave her.

 

[hiropro]

Yes
Yes
No
Yes
Yes
no
No
Yes