Hmm...I tripped across this little post by Sandee....
I know you guys probably think I'm some “crazy bitch” because of my history and all… but I'd like to just explain some things.
First… the whole CC BILL to PAYCOM thing:
Not a lot of you know this, but I was married for 4 years - together for 9. I left the guy (for good reasons) and of course he went after my web site revenue in our divorce. His attorney, in the beginning stages filed a court order that made all my funds from CC Bill 100% frozen along with our banks accounts. From that point on I was fucked. Our attorneys has to converse about how the bills were paid, it was a nightmare.
I could've fought for years and spent tons of money fighting, but I walked away. I didn't want to end up like Jay and Jenna! I went through so much hell with this divorce, unfortunately the CC Bill account wasn't in my name and, he had control over what was done with that money / members indefinitely. Sandeewestgate.com was a sub account under my x's name, personally. I was forced into this last minute, because of the I-BILL nightmare years ago. At the time, I had no clue what I was getting into by doing this.
In any event; my attorney advised me to start a whole new domain or all the money would keep going to our joint accounts and I would keep getting fucked. I was blown away that this was happening, but the court ruled I didn't have to do that and that I could switch my billers. So this is how PayCom came about. I went with PayCom, because my attorney advised me to -- not because I wanted to fuck everyone over.
I was advised by the courts that anything after the date of separation, he couldn't touch. Changing to PayCom was the only way I could get my own money coming in again. Furthermore, even if I would have stayed with CC Bill, the main account was still in his name and all the galleries would have been no good to you guys. There was not one thing I could do to salvage Sandee-Cash.
So that’s where I'm left: I've been struggling to get my sub account back from my ex husband. He has said he will sign it over and hasn't yet. In the meanwhile.. I have to pay this guy 7k a month for 3.3 years as a buyout on my website. (sandeewestgate.com) It’s been really-really hard on me -- financially and mentally.
I just want you guys to know, I never ever intentionally tried to “screw” anyone. My web site does very well financially… and I know I'm a marketable model. I hate that I put some of you through all of this, and I know it’s not your problem so-to speak. But, I just wanted to let you know I had a greedy ex husband behind that decision, and I had to make some sort of money to get food and pay my rent. I ended up moving to Arizona to get away from that situation. It was awful and still is.
Anyways, I don't expect you to forgive the history of what has happened. But, at least know I posted this because I care and I'm not here to just rip people off. If I were, I wouldn't even try explaining.
Thanks, Sandee
www.sandeewestgate.com
I will say one thing for the woman...Tough for all the B.S. her ex put her through.... Honest in delaing with the people she does buisness with....and a drive to overcome and persevere...You go Sandee...and sorry to hear you ex was such an ass...I think he will regret losing what he had one day...
