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Question: Why does my ex read my email?

om3ga

It's good to be the king...
(cough, cough) "Bunny Boiler" (cough, cough)....
 
It seems to me that the girl doesn't want you but doesn't want anyone else to have you. By reading your e-mails she is getting in your head and making you think that there is a chance of gettign back together whilst she is moving on with her life safe in the knowledge that she can come back to you haven't moved on.

I would suggest asking her to stop accessing your e-mail account and ask her why she has done it and if that doesn't stop her then changing your password should be done.
 
It seems to me that the girl doesn't want you but doesn't want anyone else to have you. By reading your e-mails she is getting in your head and making you think that there is a chance of gettign back together whilst she is moving on with her life safe in the knowledge that she can come back to you haven't moved on.

I would suggest asking her to stop accessing your e-mail account and ask her why she has done it and if that doesn't stop her then changing your password should be done.

She doesn't know that I know that she checks it, she thinks she's being sneaky. I really believe that.
 
Why is it that she keeps reading my email.

All men that have any common sense know that women are nuts. Their behavior is not based on logic so don't try to figure it out. Do what is best for you and if she wants you back deal with her if you want to. Ideally, just find someone else and forget about her.:yinyang:
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
She doesn't know that I know that she checks it, she thinks she's being sneaky. I really believe that.

If you don't want to personally confront her about it, then send an e-mail to one of your friends that says something like "I think (insert ex's name here) has been going through my e-mail, but I can't tell."

She'll see it and back off.
 
So her checking it (without knowing that I know that she is checking my email) definitely does not indicate that she still cares about me?
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
So her checking it (without knowing that I know that she is checking my email) definitely does not indicate that she still cares about me?

It indicates that it's only been a few weeks since she broke up with. Everybody has doubts for a while. It doesn't mean anything positive, I can tell you that much.
 
So her checking it (without knowing that I know that she is checking my email) definitely does not indicate that she still cares about me?

It means that she's not indifferent to you. "Not indifferent" does not equal "care". You can hate, fear, or pity someone and still not be indifferent to them. In other words, just because she's paying attention to you doesn't mean that she has warm fuzzy feelings towards you.

Truth be told, this "definitely" indicates absolutely nothing, which is why I would say you should simply change your password and put an end to this malarky. If she's really still interested, losing her only connection to you will most likely drive her to make a more substantial form of contact. And if she's not... you can stop torturing yourself over the thought that she is.
 

youwanttoshagme

Closed Account
My God! It's turned into some kind of Womans Hug group from the back of one of those trashy tat magazines. "Dear Aunt Bella..........." Are we all going to sit in a circle next and comfort each other and then stop for tea and biscuits before going into our crying session ala support group in Fight Club??

For god sake, she split up with you, get over it. Either change the password and be done with it or download the filthiest porn you can into you in box to freak her out. Kindinsandbox and 2girls1cup will do it for sure! Which ever one you do, get a back bone before people start putting rugs around the urinals and a tea cosy over the tea pot to make sure no-one is offended.

Krawzer, if your going to be a wuss about it, and want to do all that "but she looked at me the way she used to look at me before snuggle time" shite, log onto the WI website instead. We have porn here! Tons of filthy hardcore porn! Got assholes to rimshots. Download a couple of gig, and move onto the next girl. It'll make you grow balls and make you happier.






End rant.
 
She's nosy. She wants to see what you are up to. As soon as you noticed this you should have changed your PW. Move on and don't worry about whether or not she still cares. I recently broke up with someone and I don't handle it well. I hope you are better at it than I am.
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
Send an e-mail to somebody that claims you secretly took naked pictures of her when she wasn't aware of it and you would like to send them around to different people so they can see them. Then...just wait and see if she ever brings it up. BAM!!! She's caught in the act.
 
Because she knows your email password :dunno:

I suppose if you changed it or got a new address this wouldnt even be a problem.
 
I had one of my friends (who is a girl) send me an email about a supposed sex romp we had. My ex read that email 4 times in rapid succession and then called my phone a few times (I didn't answer) but she didn't leave a voicemail. Why would she care that I hooked up with someone else if she's the one that broke it off, why call me?
 
YES!!! That is awesome! I can just picture her fuming at her computer while reading that email!

As someone mentioned before, she doesn't want to be with you, but she doesn't want you with anyone else either. Just a control freak. Now if you want to end the shenanigans, change your password and DON'T call her. If you want to keep playing games with her, try another email or ask her why she called you. ;)
 
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