Question for the married men with children

[sushiboy963]

Which part?

 

[cementhead]

My wife and I have two kids; pussy feels fantastic and our sex life is still great. The challenge is finding time to spend alone...

 

[Mrs Jolly]

Listen mate, sex is the least of your worries. Everything is going to change.

Foreplay used to mean a bottle of wine, some intimate touching and the promise of a long nights loving. Foreplay will come to mean watching Thomas The Tank Engine while the little bastard falls asleep followed by ten minutes trying to wake the wife up.

You know what though, it's all worth it.

 

[Jagger69]

Listen mate, sex is the least of your worries. Everything is going to change.

Foreplay used to mean a bottle of wine, some intimate touching and the promise of a long nights loving. Foreplay will come to mean watching Thomas The Tank Engine while the little bastard falls asleep followed by ten minutes trying to wake the wife up.

You know what though, it's all worth it.

Spot on!!! I'd rep you if they'd let me.

:thumbsup:

 

[Alyssa Rose]

NOPE, you push a watermellon out of a lemon and see what happens.


Yes, you just have to be gentlier the first couple of times because you can tear the stiches and she will more than likley still be sore.



WOW:eek: yes it is. Seeing your child being brough into this world is the most beautiful thing someone can see. I wantched my son being born this Feb and it was amazing. They really only do C-sections if there is a problem or it is HER wish.


This is my most ingornat thing I have heard in a while. I got news for you it's GOING TO CHANGE get used to it. You want to go out an cheat on your wife that's your business, it will still be pleasureable it just takes time for her to come around hell I waited 6 months till she wanted to have sex again.

Being a dad is great it's not about you and her anymore. It's all about your baby.
be a real man and deal with it

Amen!

Words spoken from a REAL man.


Now im not gonna get on you for asking the quetion because I get that your curious but coming from a womans point of view im going to tell you that if you ask your wife to have a c-section so that she will still be tight I promise you wont be getting sex for A LONG time and it will have nothing to do with her vagina. You need to be as supportive and caring as you can right now, dont worry about it right now just be happy your baby is healthy. If for some reason you feel that her vagina has changed drastically there is a procedure that you can get done where you choose how tight you want it and they basically mold the vagina to be like new. I always said after I have my two kids if I don't like the way mine is that I would get that so you could suggest that to her (mind you only if after she has your child you feel its neccasary.)
http://www.colenmd.com/vaginal_reconstruction.htm

 

[efeezy]

It's like Stewie Griffin said. "Oh I wrecked that thing coming out, forget about it...I even wrote Brooks was Here on the inside"

Oh and -rep for this entire mess.

 

[rabid_2250]

In the interests of not saying anything mean, you should buy a fleshlight, go to a cave somewhere in the middle of nowhere and take yourself out of the gene pool.
How did I manage at being inoffensive? I tried to tone it down as much as possible...
I will retract my entire statement on the condition that you're 14, if that's the case though, what are you doing on this forum?

 

[lurkingdirk]

dude, worry is part of this process.

you and your wife can continue to be yourselves. lots of people have children and their own personal lives disappear - that is a choice, not an inevitability. while some change is clearly necessary, you don't stop being yourself.

your sex life is no different. the vag is an amazing muscle - squeeze out a butterball, return to something that will get you off every time. do you think it is going to feel BAD after childbirth?

every man who has had kids has thought this, and many get over it, have kids, have a satisfying sex life, and continue enjoying life. be willing to be flexible, and the sex can get better.

 

[Skyraider22]

My wife is pregnant and due with our Baby Girl on october 4th....
Will her vagina go back to its normal size after childbirth??? Did your wives go back to normal?

Is sex with your wives still good after having kids?

I'm thinking of asking my wife to tell her doctor she'd like an elective C-section. Should I, or would this be inappropriate?

I just don't want our sex life to change! I want to stay faithful to her but I'm afraid sex won't be pleasurable anymore after the baby is born.

Help?

First off congrats on your first child.Second that is very inappropriate the sex is still good but you are being selfish your wife at this point in time should be the most beautiful thing in the world she is giving you a beautiful Baby Girl love her for that not the sex because it will be the same so just relax and I'm going to be honest with tou man to man you won't be having sex for a minute anyway you have to give her time to heal about 4-6 weeks and with the baby being born you are going to be too damn tired so stay faithful because cheating is not worth it.Just ask yourself this question how would you feel if someone cheated on your little girl when she became an adult:dunno:

 

[STDiva]

 

[feller469]

In a few years, I hope your wife doesn't start thinking about getting a new, younger cock when you forget to get some more viagra and your flaccidness isn't want she wants at the moment