i would think 2-3 weeks would help. alot more than 4 days at least... it cant hurt to try...
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Pretty low sensitivity through masturbation/not able to come via sex.
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i would think 2-3 weeks would help. alot more than 4 days at least... it cant hurt to try...
shifty, what does "rep" stand for?
@briannalove: Thanks. So are you just living with it or trying something against it?
@briannalove: Thanks. So are you just living with it or trying something against it?
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Sounds to me you have death grip syndrome,Instead of using your hand, try getting a Fleshlight anyone is GREAT it well help you to regain sensitivity. I had the same problem got the fleshlight and it's the shit
seriously? could you give any details about your problem?
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You aren't going to find a lot of guys willing to talk about their experiences with such a thing because, quite frankly, it's embarrassing. That being said, I know what it is like to be in your position. I started masturbating at fourteen and didn't lose my virginity until I was twenty seven. So, when I finally had sex, I was just unable to cum. Thankfully, the woman I was with was very understanding. I hoped it was just anxiety, what with my lack of experience and all. It wasn't.
Our sex life was very active but I couldn't cum for months. She was getting frustrated believing that it was her fault. I was getting frustrated, thinking that I was broken. But, through all of it, we were very much in love and so she was patient and kind. A friend told me many of the things you've already heard - too much masturbation, gripping too hard, etc. What I ended up doing was cutting masturbating down to a bare minimum (which was easy considering that I was getting all the sex I wanted at that time). Along with that, when I did masturbate I loosened my grip to simulate my girlfriend's vagina to the best of my ability.
Now, doing those things helped a lot, but it still took a couple of months of "getting used to" her pussy before nature took its course and I was able to cum in her. It is just a matter of retraining your body to accept a different kind of stimuli than what you've been used to. Even then, I still couldn't cum without a minimum of twenty to thirty minutes of fucking. And, there is the one silver lining in having a condition like ours - we can last. You are actually lucky in that regard as imagine how much a woman is going to enjoy you when you can give her a good long sensuous fuck without fear of finishing too soon.
I guess I'm just saying that you need to relax. You have to make it a non-issue to remove any anxiety that might impede your progress while at the same time take steps to retrain your body. You can do it, but it is going to take time, and if you've found a worthwhile partner then she's going to give you the patience and understanding needed to help you do this.
Best of luck sir.
Our sex life was very active but I couldn't cum for months. She was getting frustrated believing that it was her fault. I was getting frustrated, thinking that I was broken. But, through all of it, we were very much in love and so she was patient and kind. A friend told me many of the things you've already heard - too much masturbation, gripping too hard, etc. What I ended up doing was cutting masturbating down to a bare minimum (which was easy considering that I was getting all the sex I wanted at that time). Along with that, when I did masturbate I loosened my grip to simulate my girlfriend's vagina to the best of my ability.
Now, doing those things helped a lot, but it still took a couple of months of "getting used to" her pussy before nature took its course and I was able to cum in her. It is just a matter of retraining your body to accept a different kind of stimuli than what you've been used to. Even then, I still couldn't cum without a minimum of twenty to thirty minutes of fucking. And, there is the one silver lining in having a condition like ours - we can last. You are actually lucky in that regard as imagine how much a woman is going to enjoy you when you can give her a good long sensuous fuck without fear of finishing too soon.
I guess I'm just saying that you need to relax. You have to make it a non-issue to remove any anxiety that might impede your progress while at the same time take steps to retrain your body. You can do it, but it is going to take time, and if you've found a worthwhile partner then she's going to give you the patience and understanding needed to help you do this.
Best of luck sir.
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The reason porn stars have to jerk themselves off most the time is because they've already cum 3 or 4 times. Editing is a marvelous tool. In fact, the money shot you usually see is the very first one that the guy does. Then they go back and add the footage before the cumshot from all the sex he had after the first bust. Make sense?
thanks justprime!
dropjaw, that's not the point.
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dropjaw, that's not the point.
bump for payday
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i like porn too much to try and quit masterbating lol. but im sure ill get fed up and give it a real shot one day.
banjo i also have the same issue, my situation is almost exactly the same as yours except im a couple years older.
Started looking at porn quite early, and the gap between that and my first girl girl was quite long. I was so excited that i thought i would have one of those american pie moments and blow straight away but it went totally the other way...30min later we we still at it and i was starting to get tired and no closer to blowing, i think the girl was getting a bit nervous as well cause she must have been used to guys blowing much earlier.
As some users have already mentioned, i think its due to a combination of the following things: Too tight grip and too high speed when j'king it (no girl can move that fast or hard), cuming more than once every two days, shitty generic condoms (i need to try one of those "xtra sensitive" ones).
Personally i havent tried to eliminate all factors yet, as i dont get action often enough to try this, but yeah banjo its hella frustating we are too young to have to worry about these kind of issues, and i worry that it might become a psychological issue.
Started looking at porn quite early, and the gap between that and my first girl girl was quite long. I was so excited that i thought i would have one of those american pie moments and blow straight away but it went totally the other way...30min later we we still at it and i was starting to get tired and no closer to blowing, i think the girl was getting a bit nervous as well cause she must have been used to guys blowing much earlier.
As some users have already mentioned, i think its due to a combination of the following things: Too tight grip and too high speed when j'king it (no girl can move that fast or hard), cuming more than once every two days, shitty generic condoms (i need to try one of those "xtra sensitive" ones).
Personally i havent tried to eliminate all factors yet, as i dont get action often enough to try this, but yeah banjo its hella frustating we are too young to have to worry about these kind of issues, and i worry that it might become a psychological issue.
thanks for your posts guys.
i just had a 6 day break, and i do think it helped a lot. however, the days afterwards sensitivity is pretty much screwed up again..
i just had a 6 day break, and i do think it helped a lot. however, the days afterwards sensitivity is pretty much screwed up again..
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Tried with one of the extra thin condoms...made very little difference compared to a normal one if any. Dont count too much on that.
Thing that seems to help the most is not jacking it as much :o, kinda hard to do when you arent getting laid regularly :dunno:
Also, i think i made the girl cum this time (after which she replied "are you close yet ?!")...which may sound cool to you guys but i ended up comming myself quite a few min later, it was kinda embarrassing and the more you think about it the more difficult it becomes to do it.
Thing that seems to help the most is not jacking it as much :o, kinda hard to do when you arent getting laid regularly :dunno:
Also, i think i made the girl cum this time (after which she replied "are you close yet ?!")...which may sound cool to you guys but i ended up comming myself quite a few min later, it was kinda embarrassing and the more you think about it the more difficult it becomes to do it.
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