In porn it is ok but in real life it makes the meen seem creepy. A 10 year gap is ok if the girl is older, i just feel 18 is too young for old men to fantasize about.
All i'm saying is, if it was my daughter i wouldn't like her dating 40 year old men.
But wouldn't it be important the fact that she may want it as well?
In other words, let them live their lifes
Exactly. My view is just my opinion, you can disagree if you want, i just find it a little weird is all."Creepy" is a valid response (even though I disagree). "Pedophelic" is not a valid response. The difference is that Creepy is a feeling whereas pedophelic is just an inaccurate statement. BigMan is expressing a feeling, and as long as we remember that, I have no problem with it. Feelings are not based on rules, morals, nor laws. Feelings are based on hormonal conditions, personal memories, or instincts; in this case that instinct might be a parental instinct to protect ones child from strangers who would exploit the child. Often, feelings are based on nothing outside of themselves.
I prefer to base my stance on mathematics. That is just how I roll. Math tells me that an eighteen year old being viewed as a sexual creature is not a problem.
The age difference in a relationship appears to be a different issue, and we would do better to treat it as a separate issue. Although the 18yo debate can be framed in terms of rational arguments for and against, the age difference debate seems to be entirely a matter of subjective preference.
I remember when I was in highschool, a friend complained to me that his ex-girlfriend (who was probably 19 at the time) was dating a 30 year old guy. I pointed out that he would have hated the situation regardless of the age of the new guy. I did not have a problem with age differences then, and I do not now. My first wife was nearly 10 years older than me. That marriage failed for several reasons, and the age difference was not one of them. My second wife is 5 years younger than myself. It has not been an issue for us.
most chicks not very good at sex at 18.
Do you speak in broken English now?
Oh geeze. My bad man, it seems like i was thinking about something else and typing something else.
Don't take anything i say to seriously mate.
Just a general rule of thumb to anyone.
But wouldn't it be important the fact that she may want it as well?
In other words, let them live their lifes
Shall it be better if you say too seriously?
I dont think you have children do you?
Lets get back to the chicks!
Lets get back to the chicks!