In porn it is ok but in real life it makes the meen seem creepy. A 10 year gap is ok if the girl is older, i just feel 18 is too young for old men to fantasize about.
 
I don't get it. Beautiful is beautiful. Just because a man reaches a certain age doesn't mean a beautiful girl automatically becomes or should become unattractive in our eyes. I don't understand the delineation of "real world" vs. "porn world" either. Does it really matter where you see the girl, on freeones or the checkout counter? It is just fantasy.

With that said, older men should exhibit some self control and not hit on every barely legal chick they meet.
 
"Creepy" is a valid response (even though I disagree). "Pedophelic" is not a valid response. The difference is that Creepy is a feeling whereas pedophelic is just an inaccurate statement. BigMan is expressing a feeling, and as long as we remember that, I have no problem with it. Feelings are not based on rules, morals, nor laws. Feelings are based on hormonal conditions, personal memories, or instincts; in this case that instinct might be a parental instinct to protect ones child from strangers who would exploit the child. Often, feelings are based on nothing outside of themselves.

I prefer to base my stance on mathematics. That is just how I roll. Math tells me that an eighteen year old being viewed as a sexual creature is not a problem.

The age difference in a relationship appears to be a different issue, and we would do better to treat it as a separate issue. Although the 18yo debate can be framed in terms of rational arguments for and against, the age difference debate seems to be entirely a matter of subjective preference.

I remember when I was in highschool, a friend complained to me that his ex-girlfriend (who was probably 19 at the time) was dating a 30 year old guy. I pointed out that he would have hated the situation regardless of the age of the new guy. I did not have a problem with age differences then, and I do not now. My first wife was nearly 10 years older than me. That marriage failed for several reasons, and the age difference was not one of them. My second wife is 5 years younger than myself. It has not been an issue for us.
 
But wouldn't it be important the fact that she may want it as well?
In other words, let them live their lifes

Thier life is their life, i can't say i would aprove but i wouldn't stop it.

How many normal(i.e common, not beverly hills, money seeking ones) 18 year old girls would want to date a 40 year old. My guess is probably not that many.

"Creepy" is a valid response (even though I disagree). "Pedophelic" is not a valid response. The difference is that Creepy is a feeling whereas pedophelic is just an inaccurate statement. BigMan is expressing a feeling, and as long as we remember that, I have no problem with it. Feelings are not based on rules, morals, nor laws. Feelings are based on hormonal conditions, personal memories, or instincts; in this case that instinct might be a parental instinct to protect ones child from strangers who would exploit the child. Often, feelings are based on nothing outside of themselves.

I prefer to base my stance on mathematics. That is just how I roll. Math tells me that an eighteen year old being viewed as a sexual creature is not a problem.

The age difference in a relationship appears to be a different issue, and we would do better to treat it as a separate issue. Although the 18yo debate can be framed in terms of rational arguments for and against, the age difference debate seems to be entirely a matter of subjective preference.

I remember when I was in highschool, a friend complained to me that his ex-girlfriend (who was probably 19 at the time) was dating a 30 year old guy. I pointed out that he would have hated the situation regardless of the age of the new guy. I did not have a problem with age differences then, and I do not now. My first wife was nearly 10 years older than me. That marriage failed for several reasons, and the age difference was not one of them. My second wife is 5 years younger than myself. It has not been an issue for us.
Exactly. My view is just my opinion, you can disagree if you want, i just find it a little weird is all.
 
most chicks not very good at sex at 18. Not everyone is a sasha grey, who makes grown men weak in the knees at 18 (or atleast when she was 18).
 
I dont think you have children do you?

I dont... but i understand concerns....; however, I am not saying that my daugther would go around fucking every old fart she knows... I would be uncomfortable, but it depends on every person and their own individuality to make people like him or not.

Anyway, i could have a daugther, and look young girls with lust. If i had a pretty daugther I know many guys, no matter the age, would fuck her in their minds, and there is nothing i could do about it.
 
Top