pornstar has a kid

[Rey C.]

Child abuse is NOT the kids watching her/his mother videos moron! Child abuse means: a baby who is unborn and his/her pregnant mother is get fucked by some men in front of millions of people. And this shame will take part on his/her whole life process. GOT IT?

Well, that's not very nice: calling me a moron. You've hurt my feelings very badly. Now I have a complex about my lack of intelligence. Ya know, maybe I can't help not being as smart as you. Maybe I have a birth defect. Maybe my parents were mentally defective or this is just the way that God made me. Have you thought of that?! So it does seem that you are the sort of person who harshly judges others if they don't see things exactly as you do.

Even though you are obviously a very, very smart boy, I'm not sure that (even) you have the intelligence and vision to know that a child born to a mother who does porn feels "abused." How are you able to say this with such conviction, smart sir? I mean, unless the child finds out later in life, it seems like he or she would have no knowledge of what his or her mother did or didn't do while he or she was in the womb. You is much smarter than me, so perhaps you can riddle me that. And as I said before, if not for people like you trying to hang a guilt trip on them for this (or any other make believe reason), while they may not be overjoyed with their mother's career choice earlier in life, it may not be any worse than finding out that his or her mother spent a weekend at the Hyatt Regency in Dallas, engaging in all manner of sexual perversities with yours truly. Somewhere out there, these kids exist. But ya know, unless I tracked them down and showed them pictures (which do still exist), and then went on some sort of weird, holier-than thou rant (just to rub it in and make them feel bad or creepy about it), how the hell would that be "child abuse"??? Smart sir, please come up with an answer to that question. Unless some moralistic, know-it-all yahoo hammers it in your head that you're supposed to feel bad about something, why would you?

I am not saying that every kid who finds out that their parent was a pornstar or swinger is going love the idea. But what I am saying is that not every kid is going to roll up and die or need therapy because of (just) that. I believe that how the child deals with it (assuming he ever finds out) has more to do with the type of environment that the child grows up in - like, are there open, non-stigmatized discussions about sex, nudity and human relationships? And as I said previously, I firmly believe that the child will be more damaged by having unhealthy interactions with judgmental people such as yourself.

Damn, I sure do wish I was as smart as you though. At the tender age of 26, you just know everything, huh? Wow. Heavy is the head that wears that crown! If I'd been as smart as you by that age, I might have formed a mortgage company, gotten an MBA and bought a bunch of real estate by then. But not that many of us have it all together like you do. So try to go a little light on us... your poor, unfortunate intellectual inferiors, eh? Have mercy, smart sir.

 

[Rey C.]

I can't imagine being a father and my kid comes home crying saying kids were tormenting him about seeing or hearing about his mother with 3 cocks in her mouth. Who would I be angry with? I should be mad at me and my choice of who would be my child's mother. Can't be overly mad at the other kids for reporting the news. The internet is forever and my child's mother's ass will always be exposed.

Well, I guess you have to decide on whether you want your kid to be a good, go-along-to-get-along member of the herd... or a leader of the pack.

Many years before I was born, my dad sold moonshine liquor. My dad never talked about that, but from what the old-timers tell me, he was really good at it and made "fat stacks". When I got to high school, this one kid thought it would be funny to try to embarrass me by calling me "bootlegger's kid" in front of some cheerleaders. Yeah, I was embarrassed. No kid likes being singled out or being picked on. But my dad didn't raise me to be the kid who got picked on or who allowed himself to be the butt of jokes. So I waited til the next day, caught this guy after school and picked a fight with him (because my mother was a teacher, I almost never got into fights... cause I wasn't supposed to - but my dad taught me to be handy with the mitts, just in case). I said something like, "Yeah my dad sold liquor. But your dad is a drunk and he bought it from my dad... cause your dad was too dumb to sell it. Does he still beat your mom when he's drunk?") He flashed mad, swung at me and I nailed him in the face. Then I wrapped him up, pinned his arms against a locker and choked him in a headlock until the poor bastard pissed his pants... then I let him drop. Right there in front of the cheerleaders and the other guys on the basketball team.

Word got around. I mean, a guy getting choked out and pissing himself was something that made the news of the day. But I have never thought of myself as a violent person - being thought of as a thug isn't who I would ever want to be. It's just that with some people, in certain situations, the threat of violence is the one and only thing that they can understand. And doing things like that doesn't just teach them that you are not someone to be toyed with, it also teaches that same lesson to everybody else. That was one of the very few fights that I got into while in high school. I'm sure that my size was one reason, but also, why would anybody go out of their way to start a fight with the guy who did something like that to another kid??? And generally, I was a pretty nice guy who got along with just about everybody, so why get into it with me... since I'm probably not fucking with you for no reason? I was as much a big nerd as a jock who played sports or partied sometimes. But I have never given a flying fuck what people said about me behind my back or whether or not I was liked by the other sheep... because I wasn't a sheep. But if you raise your kid to be a sheep, yeah, marrying anybody who falls anywhere outside of social norms is probably a very bad idea. But if you raise him to be his own man, from an early age, instead of being a nondescript member of the herd/a lemming, the opinions of others won't really matter to him.

If I had a kid and he came home crying and sniveling that some other kid was picking on him, I'd give him about 15 minutes to figure out how he was going to handle that the very next day. We would have a good, unemotional father/son discussion and hash it out. There would be lots of effective options, not all of which would include beating the other kid's ass or choking him out until he pisses himself (although that does clearly work!). He could try talking it out to get the other kid straightened out, taking charge of the conversation as he did. But being a laying low, low on the radar, foot shuffling butt of jokes, or just another sheep in the herd, would not be one of his options. And if that's just who he was as a person, I'd probably have to take him for a DNA test... cause there's no way in Hell he could be my kid or the grandson of my father. Assuming I'd grown attached to him, I don't guess I'd give him up for adoption. But we'd certainly have to contact an attorney and get the "Jr." or "II" removed from his name. I'd be OK with having a gay son or daughter... but not one who was a pussy!

If anything (IMO), I think it's child abuse to raise your kid to be a sheep or just another useless member of the herd... a follower. That's precisely what leads people into drugs and bad life choices. All they can do is go along to get along and they are unable to think for themselves. That's a big part of what's wrong in this country right now: too many fucking sheep!

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

I'm all for teaching my kid how to deal with bullies but I'd rather not be any part of the scenario that created the material for bullying. I know what it's like to be a fat kid who finally retaliates. Glad I eventually lost the weight.

 

[bobjustbob]

It's not till puberty that the subject will come up from other kids. Any decent mom strives and sacrifices to protect their children from any kind of harm. Mom fixes all boo boos. She is the first one out the door to resolve her kid's situations. Any woman that wants to have a child makes that decision accepting that roll along plus providing everything humanly possible to make them the best human being they can be. Moms do make mistakes concerning their children. You find them out later on in life after you are mature enough to understand what it takes to be a mom. You think back to all of the shit you pulled on her. How stupid and irresponsible and hurt you made her feel. Yea, I guess she wasn't all that bad.

Having a mom tied to the adult industry wouldn't be a dynamic that I would want for anyone. But hey, it's not my situation. I have faith in people to lead their own lives and deal with their own situations.

 

[Rey C.]

I'm all for teaching my kid how to deal with bullies but I'd rather not be any part of the scenario that created the material for bullying. I know what it's like to be a fat kid who finally retaliates. Glad I eventually lost the weight.

I didn't mean to sound all preachy, like I had all the answers or understood every other kid's situation at that age. Advice from someone who was bigger than most of the seniors by 9th grade probably is sort of haughty and meaningless. So maybe some of the options available to me in dealing with a bully/smart-ass wouldn't work for a lot of kids.

Yeah, you could maybe lose weight and you wouldn't get picked on for being fat - but then they'd just find some other reason to pick on you. But what do you do if they're picking on your for something that isn't easy or is impossible to change??? If you were Black, you couldn't make yourself White to fit in. If you were Jewish, I hope you wouldn't start eating pork to fit in. If you were a girl with big boobs, what then? What if you were autistic? That's never going to change. What if you were a kid with a physical handicap or deformity? Reading something that an OCSM, who is in this thread, wrote about how she got picked on for a physical problem really got to me. See, anything that makes you the slightest bit different from other kids/the herd is material for bullying. If you don't figure out how to handle it early on, it will haunt you all through life. These are the same people who live to pick on anyone who may be weaker, smaller or in a position that they can't fight back (like waitresses and maids).

BTW, anybody in here have aquariums or ever been around cattle? Watch the fish or livestock sometimes. In the fish tank or in the field, as soon as one of them starts getting picked on or bullied, that one will forever be singled out by the group and get picked on. But as soon as the pickee breaks bad on the picker, all the rest will leave him alone too. It's a funny thing to observe, but the "herd mentality" exists in animals, just like in people.

The jackass OP, who is judging people for what they do for a living (pornstars, in this case), is just like the kid who thought that he was going to make fun of me when I was a teen. No different at all. Preaching his moral bullshit and trying to make anyone, who doesn't ft into his narrow view of what is socially acceptable, out to be some sort of misfit or child abuser. The only reason these "pornstar kids" would have a hard time is because insecure, repressed shithooks like him would be giving them a hard time.

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

I didn't mean to sound all preachy, like I had all the answers or understood every other kid's situation at that age. Advice from someone who was bigger than most of the seniors by 9th grade probably is sort of haughty and meaningless. So maybe some of the options available to me in dealing with a bully/smart-ass wouldn't work for a lot of kids.

Yeah, you could maybe lose weight and you wouldn't get picked on for being fat - but then they'd just find some other reason to pick on you. But what do you do if they're picking on your for something that isn't easy or is impossible to change??? If you were Black, you couldn't make yourself White to fit in. If you were Jewish, I hope you wouldn't start eating pork to fit in. If you were a girl with big boobs, what then? What if you were autistic? That's never going to change. What if you were a kid with a physical handicap or deformity? Reading something that an OCSM, who is in this thread, wrote about how she got picked on for a physical problem really got to me. See, anything that makes you the slightest bit different from other kids/the herd is material for bullying. If you don't figure out how to handle it early on, it will haunt you all through life. These are the same people who live to pick on anyone who may be weaker, smaller or in a position that they can't fight back (like waitresses and maids).

BTW, anybody in here have aquariums or ever been around cattle? Watch the fish or livestock sometimes. In the fish tank or in the field, as soon as one of them starts getting picked on or bullied, that one will forever be singled out by the group and get picked on. But as soon as the pickee breaks bad on the picker, all the rest will leave him alone too. It's a funny thing to observe, but the "herd mentality" exists in animals, just like in people.

The jackass OP, who is judging people for what they do for a living (pornstars, in this case), is just like the kid who thought that he was going to make fun of me when I was a teen. No different at all. Preaching his moral bullshit and trying to make anyone, who doesn't ft into his narrow view of what is socially acceptable, out to be some sort of misfit or child abuser. The only reason these "pornstar kids" would have a hard time is because insecure, repressed shithooks like him would be giving them a hard time.

I still don't see how an ethnicity/race/religion or affliction is the same thing as having a mom who chooses to be used as a toilet. Kids will make fun of anything but what can he say when people call his mother a whore especially when there's documented evidence of that. I'd hope my choices in life wouldn't have such negative consequences for him.

I'm not running with the crowd by pushing away from this. Who would want a mother like this? Probably get crabs sharing an elevator with her.

 

[gladyator89]

What if the woman has a miscarriage, is it still considered child abuse for the brief time that a baby was developing? And even if it did happen, there's no way you could prove it was a result of people seeing a woman getting banged in view of millions of people.

And why exactly is it bringing such shame upon the kid if you happen to participate in porn while you're pregnant? Why is that the only source of shame for a child? What about people who have convicted felons for parents? What about people who had dictators for relatives? What about people who were born as the result of rape? Should they be able to feel shame even though none of their parents got naked on camera? Your definition of "child abuse" is fast and loose and has no concrete definition, other than you saying that it constitutes having a parent in pornography.

Did I say only source of shame? To multiply the bad examples, is not a solution or not an answer of my questions. Yes they are bad parents either but we don't discuss this. You are missing the point.

By the way,the only person who can give me the answer of my questions is a pornstar mother or father.

 

[gladyator89]

Well, that's not very nice: calling me a moron. You've hurt my feelings very badly. Now I have a complex about my lack of intelligence. Ya know, maybe I can't help not being as smart as you. Maybe I have a birth defect. Maybe my parents were mentally defective or this is just the way that God made me. Have you thought of that?! So it does seem that you are the sort of person who harshly judges others if they don't see things exactly as you do.

Even though you are obviously a very, very smart boy, I'm not sure that (even) you have the intelligence and vision to know that a child born to a mother who does porn feels "abused." How are you able to say this with such conviction, smart sir? I mean, unless the child finds out later in life, it seems like he or she would have no knowledge of what his or her mother did or didn't do while he or she was in the womb. You is much smarter than me, so perhaps you can riddle me that. And as I said before, if not for people like you trying to hang a guilt trip on them for this (or any other make believe reason), while they may not be overjoyed with their mother's career choice earlier in life, it may not be any worse than finding out that his or her mother spent a weekend at the Hyatt Regency in Dallas, engaging in all manner of sexual perversities with yours truly. Somewhere out there, these kids exist. But ya know, unless I tracked them down and showed them pictures (which do still exist), and then went on some sort of weird, holier-than thou rant (just to rub it in and make them feel bad or creepy about it), how the hell would that be "child abuse"??? Smart sir, please come up with an answer to that question. Unless some moralistic, know-it-all yahoo hammers it in your head that you're supposed to feel bad about something, why would you?

I am not saying that every kid who finds out that their parent was a pornstar or swinger is going love the idea. But what I am saying is that not every kid is going to roll up and die or need therapy because of (just) that. I believe that how the child deals with it (assuming he ever finds out) has more to do with the type of environment that the child grows up in - like, are there open, non-stigmatized discussions about sex, nudity and human relationships? And as I said previously, I firmly believe that the child will be more damaged by having unhealthy interactions with judgmental people such as yourself.

Damn, I sure do wish I was as smart as you though. At the tender age of 26, you just know everything, huh? Wow. Heavy is the head that wears that crown! If I'd been as smart as you by that age, I might have formed a mortgage company, gotten an MBA and bought a bunch of real estate by then. But not that many of us have it all together like you do. So try to go a little light on us... your poor, unfortunate intellectual inferiors, eh? Have mercy, smart sir.

First the age is not directly related with intelligence if you are adult. I did not claim that I know everything. If I knew the answers, I wouldn't have asked? So we both are adult, but our intelligence levels can be different. I see you as a moron guy cause you don't understand my words, you invented them according to your words, you see me as a smart guy. Well... thank you.

 

[gladyator89]

I still don't see how an ethnicity/race/religion or affliction is the same thing as having a mom who chooses to be used as a toilet. Kids will make fun of anything but what can he say when people call his mother a whore especially when there's documented evidence of that. I'd hope my choices in life wouldn't have such negative consequences for him.

I'm not running with the crowd by pushing away from this. Who would want a mother like this? Probably get crabs sharing an elevator with her.

Yes! Thank you for understanding me. :sunny: For everyone=> Do you wish that she become your mother? (She has 3 children) :surprise:

 

[John_8581]

alanah rae has a kid. https://www.facebook.com/PrettyFaceAlanahRae who else pornstar has kid?
what is your opinion about pornstar has kids? is it normal?

Am I understanding this right?

Yes, it's normal. Although their private lives are not generally disclosed out to the public.

Gladyator89 -- have you ever heard of the word/term .... MILF??? -- Mothers I'd Like to Fuck.

Many ladies have kids. Nothing wrong with that.

 

[gladyator89]

Nobody wants to see or wants to be seen while his/her mother to be pissed on.

Nobody wants to see or wants to be seen while some men fuck his/her mother.

Nobody wants to see or wants to be seen while some people jerk off to his/her mother.

AREN'T THESE REASONABLE WISHES FOR ANYONE?

Why do you find strange? :dunno:

 

[gladyator89]

Am I understanding this right?

Yes, it's normal. Although their private lives are not generally disclosed out to the public.

Gladyator89 -- have you ever heard of the word/term .... MILF??? -- Mothers I'd Like to Fuck.

Many ladies have kids. Nothing wrong with that.

Yes, I know it. But this is different as I explain at my previous posts.

 

[Rey C.]

I still don't see how an ethnicity/race/religion or affliction is the same thing as having a mom who chooses to be used as a toilet. Kids will make fun of anything but what can he say when people call his mother a whore especially when there's documented evidence of that. I'd hope my choices in life wouldn't have such negative consequences for him.

What does it matter what the reason is that a bully is picking on another kid? But I guess he could say or do the same thing that I did when that boy called me "bootlegger's kid". :dunno: How he'd handle it pretty much comes down to what he's made of, I suppose. Talking it out is one possibility... and a good throat punch might be another. I do not know. There's likely a different answer or solution for every person. But blending in with the herd is not one that I'm wired to understand. Sorry.

I'm not running with the crowd by pushing away from this. Who would want a mother like this? Probably get crabs sharing an elevator with her.

Can't say that I even know who that woman is. And I didn't know a person could get craps from golden showers. I hope I didn't get craps when that boy started "watering the lawn" while I was choking him! :eek:

All I'm saying, Dino, is that once you start saying it's OK to give somebody shit, as long as the reason is something that you don't like or approve of either, then it becomes a very slippery slope. That's all.

First the age is not directly related with intelligence if you are adult. I did not claim that I know everything. If I knew the answers, I wouldn't have asked? So we both are adult, but our intelligence levels can be different. I see you as a moron guy cause you don't understand my words, you invented them according to your words, you see me as a smart guy. Well... thank you.

Yes, I'm quite certain that our intelligence levels are miles apart there, Einstein. And if you really think that I see you as a smart guy, then clearly, our intelligence levels aren't even in the same zip code. But I understand your words just fine, zipperhead. There's no doubt about that. The last fart I squeezed out had a higher I.Q. than you do.

It's my words to you that aren't getting through. What I'm saying to you is, you don't strike me as the son of God, so who are you to be judging anybody for anything? See if you can find an answer to that in your big, giant brain.

 

[eponymous]

Hey, you don't suppose this is how she got pregnant, do you?

Sorry, but that's how dumb I think this thread is.

Every contributing OCSM/Pornstar in this thread is ten times smarter than the person who started it, making them ten times more suitable to be a parent.

 

[Aaliyah Love]

thank you Rey C Tried to give you rep but it says I've given you too much lately

 

[Aaliyah Love]

Yes! Terrible start to start a life when your mother get fucked and you are inside her! This is CHILD ABUSE. Everyone watch your mother and jerk off. Even prostitute mom is better because at least not everyone knows that she is your mother. Nobody wants that someone or one of your friends jerk off while he watch your mother's porn. This children can't stand to watch their mother's videos. Did you lose your minds? All the time you give bad examples. But you should give good examples. Raising child is needed this.
I repeat again. I DO NOT JUDGE PORNSTARS! Stop saying pornstars are human too!icardfacepalm: I know! I try to say something different here!

Btw, Aaliyah you are gorgeous. I wish you could be a movie star, not a pornstar.

fuck off

 

[Aaliyah Love]

Who is it that your lumping into a category in this thread?

is it really that hard to figure out? the people who were talking about the things that I mentioned.. I think I was pretty clear. If this doesn't pertain to you, then why worry about it? I'm not going to list all of the people because I believe you're all smart enough to figure it out and distinguish whom I was referring to

 

[Deepcover]

You can POST A NEW THREAD! This is NOT our SUBJECT! :bang:

OK smartass. You need to take a chill pill or get laid.

 

[twat36975248664224]

People, People you are forgetting the most important thing.. What would Jesus do? Considering Mary Magdalene

 

[bigwarmload]

is it really that hard to figure out? the people who were talking about the things that I mentioned.. I think I was pretty clear. If this doesn't pertain to you, then why worry about it? I'm not going to list all of the people because I believe you're all smart enough to figure it out and distinguish whom I was referring to.

Another oversensitive, irritable response for a basic inquiry. Sigh.