Porn models, sex in scene and real life

[288gto]

I have heard and readed many times that porn models don't do stuff with their partners in life, like they do it in the scenes.
so I wonder, isn't the partner the one who should be really please, even more than the guys in the scenes? just wondering, don't get it wrong, please.

 

[MMMariah]

If you think most girls like anal sex you're crazy. Some do of course, but most don't. They do it because of the payday pure and simple. Most 3 ways aren't that great either. Awkward and too much going on at one time to really get into anything, plus guys get overwhelmed and either lose it too soon or "lose it" altogether. The partner should be happy his girl knows how to suck a dick which a lot of girls don't know how to do well. Porn girls are also cum-friendly, meaning they'll swallow it or let it go wherever a lot easier than non-porn girls.

 

[288gto]

nah I was saying if a porn girl can give such a pleasure to guys in scene, why not pleasuring their own partners in real life? i understand it's painful or guy might not keep his wang hard enough but why not gie it a try? isn't the life partner more important than scene guys? I'm asking my GF for anal sex, and thought of giving her an oil massage first.

 

[MMMariah]

I think you should take it in your ass first just to be fair. Then do it to her. I bet she would be fine with that arrangement. When you take a dick pounding in your ass then you can expect the same of her. Give it t try. Who knows You Might like it.

 

[288gto]

I think you should take it in your ass first just to be fair. Then do it to her. I bet she would be fine with that arrangement. When you take a dick pounding in your ass then you can expect the same of her. Give it t try. Who knows you might like it.

if I did that I would have a bf not a gf, but I have a gf, so that is. why do you act rude, we're just talking about the topic. I know it's painful, but that's why there is oil massage and anal foreplay. I've readed on blogs that porn models do put butt plugs to stretch the ass before doing anal so they can do it more easy. And there are the double and triple anal cases which are not usual in life. So why not pleasuring your bf in the same way they pleasure the guys there?

 

[Bribi1]

Porn is their work. They do what they are asked for to get paied. When they get home they probably don't want to feel like work.
My guess is that they simply prefer to do what they like in a tender maner, rather than do all the hardcore in a hard way.
That's just not the same. I heard Lily Labeau having a good saying about that but I don't remember. But bottomline is they don't want to feel like at work and just prefer some gentle sex with the person they care about.

When a pornstar does anal while sucking and then take a facial, it's not necessarily because she loves it.

 

[MMMariah]

lots of straight men like their butt fingered and fucked that doesn't make you gay. wanting a man to be doing it to you would make it gay. if it's your gf then who cares? But I think if you expect her to do it for YOU and YOUR pleasure, you just understand what it feels like and how uncomfortable it is. The only way to do that is to experience it yourself. You can talk about lubes and anal foreplay all you want, but until you've done it yourself it's only talk. step up and get your ass fucked by a big dildo. You Might love it, who knows?

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

There is a very simple difference between sex for work and sex for pleasure. The difference between what looks good and what feels good.

why do you act rude

I'd say she's telling it like it is, personally.

 

[Harley Spencer]

I agree with what both Stiffy and My Queen said. It's so true.

What happens in porn may sometimes feel nice for everyone involved, but it is not nearly as great as you think it is. Just about everything that you see in porn is for the viewer's pleasure, not that actor's.

Girls also require completely different things sexually in order to achieve full satisfaction, especially for orgasm, than what you see in porn.

People really need to know that. Yes, our partner is way more important than our work, but that doesn't mean that our partner should get to take advantage of us and do whatever they want, treating us as mere toys and objects, just because they're "more important." We're important too, and deserve to get what we want in our relationships just as much as you. Generally, we'll try to find partners who understand the difference between porn sex and personal sex.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Dear Topic Creator,

If you were dating a stuntwoman, would you think it your God-given right to break a chair over her head every time you got the urge?

Sincerely,
Mr. Happy HappyJoyJoy

P.S. ... Google pegging, as I think this will solve a lot of your problems.

 

[Will E Worm]

nah I was saying if a porn girl can give such a pleasure to guys in scene, why not pleasuring their own partners in real life?

Exactly. :clap:

 

[RASQ]

At the 1:01:55 mark is about Jessica Jaymes. Her conversation at the end is interesting.

 

[Bribi1]

Not "exactly" because as stated, they are not here to please the actor, they are here to please the audience

 

[288gto]

well I guess you womens here obviously just get into a relationship, but I guess you don't really care about your men eh?
If I had a porn model gf, I would say that she doesn't give a shit about me if she wont pleasure me at least like she does on her movies. Gentle? nah, If I am her nr.1 man than she should care more about me than her scene partners. If she goes rough on the scene and goes with me like not this, not that, I'd say she doesn't give a shit about me.
Mr. Happy we are talking about sex, not stunts, get into the topic.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

well I guess you womens here obviously just get into a relationship, but I guess you don't really care about your men eh?

As opposed to you expecting a woman, during her most intimate and personal moments (which are not the kind of stuff that happens on screen) to do something she doesn't enjoy, and may actually cause her pain which totally shows her how much you care, right?

If I had a porn model gf...

You will not.

...If I am her nr.1 man than she should care more about me than her scene partners.

What happens on screen between two people who may have just met, who might know nothing about each other, who may not even like each other personally, who are being paid, has nothing to do with caring about each other. It's business. Now you, however, demanding a woman do something she doesn't want to in her personal life does show a distinct lack of caring, compassion, and understanding.

Mr. Happy we are talking about sex, not stunts, get into the topic.

See, and that's the problem... you just don't understand.

You're trying to say someone should be forced to do their job at home. Their job just happens to involve sex. A stuntwoman's job happens to involve being hit with a chair. If you figure you should be able to do one, you should obviously think you should be able to do the other as well.

When you're having sex with your girlfriend is it choreographed? Are you being paid? Is there a camera man present? Is there a director telling you what to do? Is it your job to be there? Were signed contracts involved?

Because those things generally apply to sex in a porn film and to stunts in a vanilla movie... so they seem to have a lot of things in common, huh?

 

[Will E Worm]

As opposed to you expecting a woman, during her most intimate and personal moments (which are not the kind of stuff that happens on screen) to do something she doesn't enjoy, and may actually cause her pain which totally shows her how much you care, right?

But, she will do it for money. Which makes her a?

You will not.

You don't know that. :nono:

What happens on screen between two people who may have just met, who might know nothing about each other, who may not even like each other personally, who are being paid, has nothing to do with caring about each other. It's business. Now you, however, demanding a woman do something she doesn't want to in her personal life does show a distinct lack of caring, compassion, and understanding.

Does cash rule you?

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

If I am her nr.1 man than she should care more about me than her scene partners. If she goes rough on the scene and goes with me like not this, not that, I'd say she doesn't give a shit about me.

Women love emotional blackmail like that, especially when it comes to sex. "If you don't do X, Y or Z then you don't love me" is essentially guaranteed to get your way, always. If you're prepared to levy expectations that she does what she does on film, all "do what I want, woman" then why should she give a shit about you?

I've had sexual experiences where I was able to dictate what I wanted the woman to do. You know what? You best pleasures I've ever had have been where I've decided what I wanted was to please her and do everything in my power to give her what she wanted. Dictating "let's do this like you did in that scene" I can't imagine lives up to losing yourself in giving your partner what she wants and your passions bubbling over together. What you see in scenes is mechanics. It doesn't feel as good as it may look, and there's fuck-all connection. Two people in private doing what feels great for them both is mind-blowing.

Preparing myself for "you've never fucked a pornstar" in 5, 4, 3.....

 

[288gto]

As opposed to you expecting a woman, during her most intimate and personal moments (which are not the kind of stuff that happens on screen) to do something she doesn't enjoy, and may actually cause her pain which totally shows her how much you care, right?



You will not.



What happens on screen between two people who may have just met, who might know nothing about each other, who may not even like each other personally, who are being paid, has nothing to do with caring about each other. It's business. Now you, however, demanding a woman do something she doesn't want to in her personal life does show a distinct lack of caring, compassion, and understanding.



See, and that's the problem... you just don't understand.

You're trying to say someone should be forced to do their job at home. Their job just happens to involve sex. A stuntwoman's job happens to involve being hit with a chair. If you figure you should be able to do one, you should obviously think you should be able to do the other as well.

When you're having sex with your girlfriend is it choreographed? Are you being paid? Is there a camera man present? Is there a director telling you what to do? Is it your job to be there? Were signed contracts involved?

Because those things generally apply to sex in a porn film and to stunts in a vanilla movie... so they seem to have a lot of things in common, huh?

Mr.Happy, why every country always the finest best quality products keeps in their own country, while those less quality things are being exported? so goes to sex, I want quality sex with my GF. I would break her up if she says she wouldn't do with me anything she does on the scene because I will feel less important to her.
Dear Mr.Happy, please reply with facts and opinions, not insults.
kind regards.

 

[Harley Spencer]

Mr.Happy, why every country always the finest best quality products keeps in their own country, while those less quality things are being exported? so goes to sex, I want quality sex with my GF. I would break her up if she says she wouldn't do with me anything she does on the scene because I will feel less important to her.
Dear Mr.Happy, please reply with facts and opinions, not insults.
kind regards.

It's a little insulting that you think a girl has to do your sexual bidding just because she's done it with someone else. We are not our jobs, and we're not going to date someone who can't separate us from our work.

 

[288gto]

It's a little insulting that you think a girl has to do your sexual bidding just because she's done it with someone else. We are not our jobs, and we're not going to date someone who can't separate us from our work.

I'm not insulting you, just looking for opinions.
let me ask you something like this you have 2 sanwiches, one is good, the other is bad, so yould you give the good one away and keep the bad one for yourself? I understand it is your work, and ok not always, but do you even try sometime to go with your partner just like in the scene or close to it? well, would you do that sacrifice for the person you love? this is what i'm talking about.