I don't think that a cougar is synonamis with a milf. I have always understood a cougar as an older woman with money that tries to hook up with a younger guy. This has nothing to do with her maternal status. I have always thought of a milf as an older gal with kids. I would think of a teenager with kids as a drug addict. Just kidding.
Just to expand on what Squallumz said, "Cougars" are women that are 40+ that prey on younger men or women. While "Bobcats" are women in their 30's that prey on younger men or women. At least that is what Wikipedia says:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cougar_(slang)#Slang_terms
Has anybody seen that cell phone commercial where it refers to an older lady as a "cougar"?
Sure, technically they may be Mothers. But the term MILF is usually meant to describe your friends' mothers, who would probably be in their 40's and 50's because your friends would be around your age. If your mother is in her teens, I'm sure toddlers aren't worried about sex with your friends parents.
Why is that so hard to believe? I look every bit as young as she does. LMAO ...I mean lots of teens are mothers. lol kidding aside though....
Really the definition of MILF has changed though. I had always thought it meant a (mature) Mother I'd Like to F**k, it was originally to speak of like "your buddy's mom" older woman but attractive. :dunno: Now they say it only means Mother I'd Like to F**k, even if she's 16. I see no purpose for the latter reference. Sorry I'm rambling again.
Slang is so complicated. Instead of saying I like Milfs or Cougars, from now on if anybody asked what I'm into I'm just going to say that I prefer older women, particularly older women between the ages of 40 and 60 years... And girls with glasses but that is another fetish for another time.Typing at the same time. lol
Now see the difference in "slang" to different areas of the map. To me a "cougar" is a trolling older woman looking for younger guys in clubs and stuff. A derogatory term used by young girls about older women when they think they have set out after their "men". Much like described in some of the posts above.
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Slang is so complicated. Instead of saying I like Milfs or Cougars, from now on if anybody asked what I'm into I'm just going to say that I prefer older women, particularly older women between the ages of 40 and 60 years... And girls with glasses but that is another fetish for another time.
Same here.I guess I'm just stuck with the original meaning in my head.
So what have I learned? It's not just Mrs. Robinson anymore! (for those old enough to understand that reference)
and to a 5 years old a 18 year old woman is a MILF, but 5 years old don't care about that anyway...But it may be an age thing, I'm sure to an 18 year old boy considers a 35 year old woman is a *.