One night stands: do you consider it 'slutty' if a girl has a ONS OR she has a guy strictly for sex?

[Alyssa Rose]

Okay guys, So as most of you already know, Im now single.
Well I really don't have any interest in jumpin into anything again anytime soon. However, I love sex. So my question is, would you consider it 'slutty' if a girl has a one night stand? OR if she has a guy that is strictly for sex? I mean I don't yet, but I'll tell you im so ready to get laid lol

 

[EuroAssLover]

Re: One night stands?

Go for it, girl! I guess you could call that being 'slutty', but in my case I just love slutty girls

 

[Mayhem]

Re: One night stands?

Well, if you haven't seen it yet ....

http://board.freeones.com/showthread.php?t=394021

This is 2010, not 1910. Do what your conscience allows, don't worry about what anyone thinks (especially the gomers on this board), and do what you need for your happiness. I, for one, am on your side.

 

[PirateKing]

Re: One night stands?

Pffft! Like I'm gonna protest that......

Have at it. You deserve it. Not that you need our approval anyways. Whoever your one night stand is, let him know he's a Lucky Bastard.:hatsoff:

 

[gunslingingbird]

Re: One night stands?

Having friends with benefits is something that lots of people have. It's kind of like a really open, really loose relationship without the relationship, if that makes sense. I think that going around having one-night stands with a shitload of guys is slutty, but having a friend-with-benefits isn't necessarily.

If you happen to be in California, somewhere around the Bay Area, let me know. I'd love to apply for the position.

 

[Alyssa Rose]

Re: One night stands?

Having friends with benefits is something that lots of people have. It's kind of like a really open, really loose relationship without the relationship, if that makes sense. I think that going around having one-night stands with a shitload of guys is slutty, but having a friend-with-benefits isn't necessarily.

If you happen to be in California, somewhere around the Bay Area, let me know. I'd love to apply for the position.

Sorry GSB I wish I was back in California, but Im in Kentucky lol
& I wasn't plannin on lots of one night stands lol but more along the lines of A one night stand that could possible turn into friends with benefits if its good ya know?

 

[EuroAssLover]

Re: One night stands?

I wasn't plannin on lots of one night stands lol but more along the lines of A one night stand that could possible turn into friends with benefits if its good ya know?

I think it is a very good plan. Good luck with it!

Too bad I'm thousands of miles away from Kentucky.

 

[sporty_carr]

Re: One night stands?

Yes, you would be. But don't worry, so am I.

Look at that, we already have something in common.

So.....what time should I pick you up?

 

[Smallville417]

Re: One night stands?

Nothing wrong with being slutty. You have your needs, nothing wrong with that, go for it.

 

[gunslingingbird]

Re: One night stands?

Sorry GSB I wish I was back in California, but Im in Kentucky lol

Dammit. At least you can't fault me for not trying! :1orglaugh

& I wasn't plannin on lots of one night stands lol but more along the lines of A one night stand that could possible turn into friends with benefits if its good ya know?

I see. Carry on, then! :thumbsup:

 

[Death-Proof-69]

Re: One night stands?

i wouldn't worry about it, theres no reason a woman shouldn't be allowed to enjoy an active and free sex life without being labeled as a slut...slutty is more a way of acting than anything else in my eyes, its more than just having lots of sex (though that is an undeniably important ingredient) its the way one goes about having said sexual relations and how one pursues sex...proliferate promiscuity and being flagrantly open and sexual in public is slutty, having lots of sex in itself is not, if that makes sense...

 

[StanScratch]

Re: One night stands?

I've had a few one night stands and a lot more friends with benefits. Seems the FOB situations ended up working a lot better - gave us a bit of time to explore each other, and neither of us ended up taking anything too serious (save one almost "tragic" case).
Slutty? Nah. I think that our society has evolved enough to realize that, in the end, we really are nothing but animals with basic needs, and that sexual release is one of those needs.

 

[STDiva]

Re: One night stands?

Sluts sleep with any guy who buys them a drink. If you're choosy who you sleep with, and actually have standards, I don't think you'd be considered slutty. You're just using that girl power.

 

[tartanterrier]

Re: One night stands?

Do whatever suits you Take care though :wave2:

 

[jinxypie]

Re: One night stands?

...theres no reason a woman shouldn't be allowed to enjoy an active and free sex life without being labeled as a slut...slutty is more a way of acting than anything else in my eyes, its more than just having lots of sex (though that is an undeniably important ingredient) its the way one goes about having said sexual relations and how one pursues sex...proliferate promiscuity and being flagrantly open and sexual in public is slutty, having lots of sex in itself is not, if that makes sense...

Well said.



Go for it, girl! Do what makes YOU happy!

 

[hiropro]

Re: One night stands?

Go for it.Good for you.

 

[LaLiLuLeLohan]

Re: One night stands?

Okay guys, So as most of you already know, Im now single.
Well I really don't have any interest in jumpin into anything again anytime soon. However, I love sex. So my question is, would you consider it 'slutty' if a girl has a one night stand? OR if she has a guy that is strictly for sex? I mean I don't yet, but I'll tell you im so ready to get laid lol

Yes, it's slutty.

 

[Kil4Thril]

Re: One night stands?

Nah. Enjoy yourself. You're young. If you feel guilty about anything, just don't do it again. You never know until you try.:hatsoff:

 

[LukeEl]

Re: One night stands?

As long as you feel comfortable doing it, I think there is something in the Freeones Town Charter that states that either a man or woman who has recently gone through break up, seperation, or divorce shall know thy pleasures of thy flesh with whoever thee chooseth and not be labeled as one of bad virtue...however if one year has passeth then one must spend time in town stocks for the amount of people thy have bedded.

 

[Sicario]

Re: One night stands?

Good for you, enjoy your trek on finding Mr. friend(s) with benefits. :hatsoff: