So is not paying for their rubbers or helping out with their abortions really too much to ask?
Broader access to contraceptives and abortion isn't "helping" those who reproduce for profit. Obvioulsy they aren't interested in birth control or abortion. Those programs are available for those who don't want to reproduce irresponsibly, which based on everything you've said should be something you're completely in favor of.
yep, especially this.
imagine the founding fathers during the signing of the declaration saying "wait, we forgot to include an article to buy rubbers and diaphrams so poor people can fuck more and pay for and set up abortions if they dont use them"
its crazy.
We're 200 plus years away from the founding fathers. Societal dynamics have, quite naturally, evolved since their day - for better, worse, or a combination thereof. They were wise enough to know there was no hope of envisioning all the possible changes that lay ahead, which is the primary reason not all the powers granted the national government were specifically enumerated in the Constitution. Instead in some instances those powers were granted based on broad foundational precepts, the most notable examples being to "provide for the common defense" and "promote the general welfare".
So, are unwanted/irresponsible pregnancies (and their repercussions) a national (beyond local or state) problem that impacts the general (beyond local or state) populace?
If you believe they are then one might think you'd support the federal government's programs that attempt to address them.