Hehehe, I think is true and that is what it is mostly like
I think it is strange that men believe what they see in porn videos. If you read about it on the web you will read that what you see in a porn video is edited and that is not everything that happens in making the porn video. Things like anal sex would look a lot different if you saw everything that happened while the video was being made.
One of the things that makes porn special and one of the reasons why I admire the girls who do it so much is that a lot of what they do is painful and yucky and that makes it special. Men can enjoy seeing girls bodies in porn shown in ways that they specially lke but don't usually get to see. They can also get enjoy getting to see things like anal sex done to girls bodies that they don't normally see.
I have read girls who work porn telling how they have to prepare for anal sex and they have to start preparing almost a whole day before they are going to be filmed. Lots of girls get hurt and get infections from doing it in porn. I do not think it is bad that it hurts or that you can get sick from it but it is what makes porn special because men mostly don't get to enjoy seeing girls' bodies that way outside of porn.
I think that the things that make anal sex nice for men are some of the things that make it hard for girls, like it being so tight.
Even when a girl could enjoy having something put up her anus like a small egg type of vibrator but that is different from having a man fuck you hard with an erect cock.
I would to be able to let men have anal sex with me, I really admire the girls on porn when I see what men can do to them there. But I know I would only start with someone I really trusted and cared enough about to let him do things that were probably going to hurt a bit at first.
Also in porn you know that the men are experienced in doing it and also the girls often have taken pain killers and other ***** as well to make it easier. They have cleaned themselves out the night before and have not eaten since. They have the skin about the hole bleached the day before. They keep a plug in their ass for hours before hand to stretch it and all that kind of thing. Your girl friend does not have the time to do all of that.