I'll agree with you about not joining her site and saving your money. But as d_jologs has said, "Nina Mercedez is helping other girls with promoting their websites" .... Kiara Mia, Sophia Santi, Isis Taylor, Nyomi Banxxx, Devon Michaels, Kortney Kane, Alexis Ford, Alexis Amore, Nikki Delano, Raylene, Randi Wright and Gianna Lynn's sites among others....
So if you support these ladies, you would want to join Nina's site to get access to these ladies' work here and also get a live cam show occasionally as well.
This just mirrors "real life."
Guys ... when you say shit about specific women, other ladies notice. If it's constructive or valid criticism, that's one thing. But if it's trash, let alone hateful, they notice. Women are not that hard to "understand." And when you treat others like shit, even if just in your own mind and behind their back, but so other ladies see, it does impact how they treat you, even if you don't realize it.
Many keep their distance for a reason. It's not always so much what they do, but what you did to yourself. You can keep thinking Nina is some whore, and her husband some stud that doesn't deserve such a good lay, and that is somehow different than how you approach life. But it's not. Sure, you wouldn't want to do anything with your mother or sister like Nina, but some of your same attitudes do come out, and are noticed by others, and
You Might even step back and realize it transcends just the 'whores' and 'their men.'
This is why such attitudes are self-defeating. And they cause other OCSMs to reconsider their participation on the board. And yes, a lot of them have very thick skins, far thicker than any of us. Why? Because they are a provider trying to gain consumers, so they can eat, and adult industry consumers tend to be the absolute worst of any industry in attitudes and expectations.
That's why a lot of women retire. Not because porn is bad or somehow wrong. But because too many consumers treat it that way. Think! Many don't want their mothers, sisters or wives in porn because not because guys beat off or some arbitrary concept of 'respect,' or lack thereof. It's because of how they are treated, separate from the fantasy and masturbation aspects.
And that's before we look at the "outcast consumer" aspects, which are really about lack of consent and violence. That's people people really say is wrong about porn, and they are right, but not because of the erotica itself, but the violence and overriding consent just using porn as an excuse. Otherwise we'd see a lot more couples, monogamous and polygamous, sharing their experiences on-film.
Which is something I'm sure many of us would love to enjoy more of. But you guys, you keep going on and pissing on the industry, and then bitching you're not getting the porn you want. Either that or just get it over with and cut yourselves off from all pornography. Why? Because you're obviously
too immature to deal with it. Heck, most of you guys "lecture" others on how "porn is wrong," when the fact is ...
You're just wrong for porn, not us.