Yes you absolutely can. If people are tracking down her relationship statuses, scouring for pictures not posted publicly, looking for personal tidbits; you are affecting her ability to live life the way she wants to live it. If this stuff is hard to find, it's because she doesn't want you to find it. It's clear she wants to be retired and not be a public model. The more people there are digging around for this sort of thing, the more she will feel herself like she needs to hide and be very private. She's had issues with stalkers in the past. Scouring the internet for this type of personal content is how stalking starts.