Re: the Official Nikki Nova thread
hrmm...
while it's featured in every video i think i've ever seen, i guess i don't understand, when i stop and think about it, why it's so 'great' having girl take on two guys at once... who wants to share the woman you're with? and yes, i know that's another fetish, but if the basic premise of porn is imagnining you're with that person...
ah well, c est la vie.
as to anyone 'pushing you to do hardcore.' F' 'em... i confess it's made me sad at times to see stunning women in a handful of brief photo spreads, & suddenly they're looking... errr... hardworn putting out, and then they're gone. I suspect the industry and certain... players therein churn through innocent/ naive young women, and that's the part of the business that makes all in the sex industry have to wince inwardly when the topic of the industry comes up. You've said it before, & your friends & fans here will support without hesitation: you should (and will) only do things you are comfortable doing. Doing anything for other people is a recipe for disatisfaction, disillusionment, & disappointment.
And the idea you should 'be willing to' or 'be expected' to just because someone want it? Where's the duct tape... i feel my eyes bleeding, my head must be about to explode.
Ray Romano does a bit where he talks about the attractive woman a guy sees on the street, and the life she takes on once she's 'in his head' in his imagination... 'what, you're not into women... oh, don't worry, you are now...' That's why it's called an i m a g i n a t i o n. & I'm sure you're not surprised you've done some simply delightfully unmentionable things in mine & other friends and fans' fantasylands! 'course, then again, i do amazingly naughty things in my imagination, so i can safely say i know the difference.
I think that's the danger of fetish... focusing so totally on one particular nuance of sexuality as if that is or should be the only 'trigger' for the arousal response.
Latex? sure it's sexy, not the only clothing i want to see women in or out of
honey/ candy? ok, 'specially at Valentines (ha) but again, not the only thing to see
mud/ glue wtf?! not for me... but it doesn't make me question anyone's sanity
pedo shit?! get the duct tape again... i can't understand that, even in imaginationland.
probbly the parent in me, i admit.
rope/ cuffs/ etc... uhm, a little 'soft' playful neckties for the loving couple i can see, but these 'tie her up, abuse her, mar her, use power tools on her' bits? naw, no thanks.
'force' vignettes are arousing i find-- s'what some of the bits i've penned are about-- but as a FaNtAsY only... bringing it to the real world, especially as someone's 'fetish'... that would worry me.
ok, i'll admit to one i rather enjoy but know lots of people won't...
Women with firearms... stupid, i know, but intriguing. And my response i wouldn't label 'fetishist' since it's no different than women with fast cars or jet planes or
and I'll cop to liking bathtub/ hot tub/ pool spreads, but again, my focus is on the model, not the scene.
and before i completely wear y'all out, i liked the bits with women playing Guitar Hero... Hard to get across playing videogames, i suspect, but that's an ideal woman: pretty, into sex, AND into playing video games. i know when my sons are online the games where there's a girl/woman playing are always full of guys interested in learning more about her and showing off how good they are at the games... it's high school (& adult life for that matter) condensed down, which i find amusing.
Pax!
RA
l'm more than happy to do that..l'll send some pics to you via your email as l'm not sure how to post them here.
