Natural breasted women vs. surgically enhanced breasted women

[McRocket]

Actually, my disgust goes well beyond people who have cosmetic surgery. I'm against a culture that preys upon people's insecurities, that tells them over and over again that's there's something wrong with them that needs to be fixed rather than telling them they should be satisfied with themselves. I'm tired of a culture that tells me what the definition of beauty is, what the definition of success is, and what the definition of happiness is.

I concede I don't have to deal with many of the things that get other people worried (got the nice car, house, etc.), and am considered very handsome by the ladies (I'm not trying to boast, it's just relevant to this posting). However, I consider my attitude towards those things to be much more important than what I have or don't have. To certain extent we are all conformists, and so I wouldn't claim that I completely lack those tendancies. But I have another trait which is much stronger: the one that makes me question everything I see, the one that tells me to insist upon thinking for myself rather than blindly accept what others tell me. So when I hear somebody say she needs surgery to be attractive, my first reaction is not that she'd doing the right thing but rather that she must have some sort of self-image problem. I have no problem with someone who does little things to look better, (I myself like to take good care of myself, dress fairly nicely, etc), but... getting an operation? Just to get a few more glances when walking down the street? No thanks. Tell the surgeon to put away the knife; there's less drastic ways to boost a girl's confidence (and as many people will agree, nothing's more attractive than someone who exudes an air of confidence).

I think I'll give this topic a rest for now... really I could babble on for pages.

I am not trying to start a verbal fight with you. But after reading your reply my first thought is...what an insenstiive, self righteous, person you sound like.
You say you are very handsome. Not attractive. Not okay. Not even handsome; but VERY handsome. So you haven't a fucking clue what it is like not to be attractive. And here you type that others that wish to feel better about themselves 'disgust' you?
Why should you alter yourself just to get a few MORE glances walking down the street?, you type. Maybe, some of these women would like to get just one glance. Something you take so for granted, maybe they dream of. I am not talking about implants here. I'm talking about a woman that is losing her hair and gets a transplant. I am talking about a woman with terrible acne when she was younger and getting a peel. i am talking about a woman who has been fat her whole life and gets liposuction. What if she was the ugly duckling at school who just once wants to feel genuinely pretty?

And you say that you are tired of a culture that tells you what beuaty is? What a hipocrit. Then you turn around and say that women say your very handsome. You obviously care what they say.
Your like a wealthy man complaining why people try so desperately hard to make money.
Try being ugly for a while and get used to the way people react to you and then sit there and type that people who go to such links 'disgust' you.
You know what pal, your lack of sensitivity and arrogance somewhat disgusts me.

 

[parker]

I don't take offense easily, so there's no worries there. I tend to be very blunt, and that often gets taken the wrong way, although I cannot deny being very opinioned.

We all have flaws, my view is I don't harp on them. There's always going to be exceptions, extreme cases, and that's when I see your point... I gave the example of someone who's been in an accident earlier. I'm more interested in (what I assume) is the majority. I've heard the arguement that they're doing it for themselves, but I really have trouble believing that. When it comes to something like health and fitness, of course doing things like that make you look better, but were that my motivation I doubt I could do it.

There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, and I try not to cross it, my apologies if I did. What I think I should have added earlier is that is that I know people who have much more than I do, but still obsess over wanting more. That's the attitude that turns me off. When it comes to women, I'm more likely to emphasize the positives and downplay the negatives. I think we've all been asked the questions girls ask at one point or another, like, "Am I fat?, are my boobs big enough?, etc," and I just get tired of this stuff.

I had a friend who once remarked that, "90% of the population needs a nosejob," and I cringe when I hear things like that. I would assume I'm in that 90%, but I don't lose any sleep over it. And unless somebody has something horribly wrong with them, I can't understand why they would. I don't even know what the definition of "horribly wrong" would be, excluding some sort of disfigurement. Ahh, babbling again. Time to move on.

 

[SiliconeTits]

no prizes for guessing my fetish

well hah you'd be wrong actually!

i sartin to sway to natural...what with sophie edwards/howard amber evans inbedwithfaith and them girls at polish busty are doing for me l8ly..

so i geuss i dont mind either with a slight preference for natural at the mo

 

[McRocket]

I don't take offense easily, so there's no worries there. I tend to be very blunt, and that often gets taken the wrong way, although I cannot deny being very opinioned.

We all have flaws, my view is I don't harp on them. There's always going to be exceptions, extreme cases, and that's when I see your point... I gave the example of someone who's been in an accident earlier. I'm more interested in (what I assume) is the majority. I've heard the arguement that they're doing it for themselves, but I really have trouble believing that. When it comes to something like health and fitness, of course doing things like that make you look better, but were that my motivation I doubt I could do it.

There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, and I try not to cross it, my apologies if I did. What I think I should have added earlier is that is that I know people who have much more than I do, but still obsess over wanting more. That's the attitude that turns me off. When it comes to women, I'm more likely to emphasize the positives and downplay the negatives. I think we've all been asked the questions girls ask at one point or another, like, "Am I fat?, are my boobs big enough?, etc," and I just get tired of this stuff.

I had a friend who once remarked that, "90% of the population needs a nosejob," and I cringe when I hear things like that. I would assume I'm in that 90%, but I don't lose any sleep over it. And unless somebody has something horribly wrong with them, I can't understand why they would. I don't even know what the definition of "horribly wrong" would be, excluding some sort of disfigurement. Ahh, babbling again. Time to move on.

First, I regret giving you my first negative rep point. After i did it I realized it was juvenile. But once you give 'em, you can't take 'em back.
It's just when someone who has so much of something appears so insensitive to those that would long for that very thing, it just winds me up. And your use of the word disgust for these people. However, I do admit to being very literal. And I choose my words VERY carefully and I forget that often times others do not to the same extent that I do.
You make some good points. But please try and put yourself in someone else's shoes before you judge. (again, I am not talking about implants. Just similar things to what I listed before).
I have a niece who is grossly overweight and I bet she would do almost anything to get the looks you so take for granted (apparently). She has already given up on finding a boyfriend. ANd if she can get an operation to end that unhappiness for her I would literally buy it for her - if it wasen't TOO expensive.
If I am around, the first chance I am able to I will (if I recall to do it) give you a good rep point to reverse the bad one I gave you. Not because of your response (though it was impressively subdued) so much as I shouldn't have given you a bad one in the first place. Your original reply was, imo, somewhat insensitive, but not vicious. And this is basically a porn forum afterall.

 

[parker]

I'm usually careful with my choice of words, but in retrospect, "disgust" may be been taking things too far.

I have a niece who is grossly overweight and I bet she would do almost anything to get the looks you so take for granted (apparently). She has already given up on finding a boyfriend. ANd if she can get an operation to end that unhappiness for her I would literally buy it for her - if it wasen't TOO expensive.

It would be presumptuous on my part to speak of your niece specifically, but I would like to repeat something I've told many people who've asked for my advice on losing weight, and that is that diets don't work long term, only lifestyle changes do. I have to believe the same holds true for those that get liposuction.

If I am around, the first chance I am able to I will (if I recall to do it) give you a good rep point to reverse the bad one I gave you.

Not the least bit necessary. I'm interested in "point-counterpoint" style debating, not getting gold stars on my report card.

 

[VaultDweller]

Some fake tits look nice, some dont. Some real tits look nice, some dont. Its either or for me.

 

[Togath]

It depends, I have to admit I like a more endowed woman. I have been with both, and loved suck'n and lick'n on both. Yes there is a difference in feel, but asthetically wise? Well if there are two twins side by side, both totally hot, one is not augmented and flat chested, and the other has a well done set. I know which one I am getting drunk first.

 

[georges]

Personnally I like big breasted women.When tits are too saggy then a boob job is needed otherwise I love natural and siliconed big breasted women.

 

[MATTtheMAN]

Sorry for the lateness of my reply. I just discovered this thread. I really dont have a problem with anything parker said. I pretty much think along the same lines. While I am not a fan of how fake boobs look, (I do admit that some can look reasonably good), my biggest beef with implants are the mental/emotional aspect of what I think they stand for. I think cutting open your body and stuffing inanimate objects inside yourself is a very desperate thing to do and it turns me off to no end. When I hear a women say she 'did it for herself', I dont know if I should laugh or cry. She did it for everyone BUT herself because society has made her feel like less of a woman because of the size of her breasts. I like a woman that likes herself the way she was made. That is attractive to me. Now, I would hope it would go without saying that a woman who has had a breast removed due to cancer does not fit in this category, nor someone who is horribly deformed, whatever that means. Anyway, thats my two cents. I hate implants .

-Matt

p.s. This comes from a guy who aint that good lookin'. Well... my mother once said I was handsome, but I think she was supposed to say that ,lol.

 

[Digital]

Natural

 

[mantour]

Natural, but silicone is a great discover...

 

[Dudley88]

I prefer natural--they look better, they feel better. But there are a few fake-boobed porn stars out there for whom I'll make an exception. Namely Charlie (hers aren't TOO fakey looking and that pretty face and Green Eyes are impossible to pass up), Isis Nile and Jill Kelly (one of the nicest looking pussies in the business).

 

[ragincaucasian]

If I can touch them, that's all the "real" I need

 

[Skankfunk]

natural & Breast Implants :thumbsup:

 

[The Thing]

I like both, a nice rack is a nice rack no matter if they are fake or not. Besides I am not going to kick a women out of bed because her titties are fake.

 

[busenbust]

I like both and I adore Teddi Barrett's!!!

 

[MrZiggles]

Natural. I tend to like real over fake in most things. Real hair color, for example. I think a lot of women who changed themselves to look hot were already hot in a different way. So while I like a good-sized chest, it's certainly not mandatory when there are plenty of other body parts to explore.

 

[okieknight]

Which do you guys/gals prefer, if either, and why?


I assume this thread was done sometime in the past. But other then the raw numbers, I am curious as to why a person prefers one over the other; as much as anything else.

I like natural women. Fake breasts don't look right or feel right to me. I also love all women and feel the no woman needs to do things like breast enhancements to look better to a man, or at least me, LOL.

 

[thegame2119]

I don't really care if they're real or fake as long as they feel good in my hands. I was with this one girl whose fake tits were hard as steel. I swear it like trying to squeeze rocks.

 

[Baba66]

natural