I'm just guessing here but I think she's comparing the dykes she's dated to gay men who display feminine attributes and reached the conclusion based on her experience that some gay men are more like a woman than a dyke. I still find it strange she says she could have sex with a feminine gay man :dunno:
To be quite honest, I've always told her that she isn't very gay at all. Though she has never slept with a man, she likes sex the way a man would give it to her. She loves strap-ons and toys, but more than that she likes the 'extra credit' she gets from women during and after. One thing that happened that I think shook her up a little was a conversation she had with me, and a gay male co-worker if hers one night.
She was talking up her ex (who was also present) with us about how good she was using a strap-on. Her gay co-worker laughed at this notion, and told them both that they know nothing of a good fucking when it comes to a cock. They went back and forth, until he said something that kinda shut them both up.
'You have no idea, and will never know, the joy that is to pleasure the tool that pleasures you... so you don't know how much more than penetration it truly it should be for both until experience the power of real dick!'
I wish you could've heard the quick change of subject after that. Days later, she told me her ex damn near tried to rape her that night, and she didn't appreciate that. They eventually broke up, but we never really brought that shit back up. Based on this, you may be right in your assessment, Boothy, but she insists that she COULD, not that she WOULD. I don't know about that though.
I am however curious to know, in your estimation, is there a distinct difference between having a relationship with a dyke and lesbian? I'm also assuming you have a lesbian relationship, correct?