My girlfriend wants to do porn

[Werewolf]

I wouldn't want to date a girl whose Job it is to fuck other people - I'd go insane in a matter of days I think.

 

[member006]

I am not that open to sex stuff in my personal life as some are. Not even threesomes, thats my choice. If my bf or husband agreed for me to do porn or share me with another man in any way, in my eyes that simply says he thinks nothing of me.

I want to be cared about, sharing to me is not caring. My personal activities in bed are just that, the one I care about most, my partner melding with me heart, soul and body. Doesn't matter if its soft sensual love making or down and dirty fucking. Its me with the one I most care about, sharing that moment when we become one. Porn is great, the entertainers a giving group of "unique" people that can do that with a clear conscious. Without them, we would be void of the liberty of living our fantasies in color. I for one am not cut from that cloth.

What I'm getting at in this ramble is I am really one of the "norm" because I feel if you can even for a moment consider giving your blessing, you may want to rethink what place she has in your life. Is this the woman you love, want a life with? Do you want the mother of your children to have been on the big screen with dozens of men?

While it is your choice, just remember before you slam my response, you're the one that asked. IMHO of course.

LL

P.S. Just to be clear, I would never share my man with another woman either. Whats mine is mine and I can do him fine.

 

[FreshFish]

You're painting all women with one brush. If women appear "loose" to you these days maybe it's because we're all naturally sexual creatures and now that women finally are enjoying the rights to be whatever they want to be, it turns out, hey, women enjoy sex just as much as men - and there's nothing wrong with that. "Stud" and "slut" are the same thing. One is male, one is female? Give me a break. Someone who likes sex is someone who likes sex, regardless of gender, it's the same thing.


Sure. If he's an average typical guy or a jealous guy, maybe he should get out of it. But if he's liberated enough to know that he's gonna get to be with the woman he loves, who's gonna be a sexy desirable pornstar and have all kinds of amazing 3sums with him and an open relationship... then maybe this is a good thing after all. Why is it okay (for some men) to stick your cock in other pussy and still love your girl, but if a girl wants to be promiscuous, a lot of men think she shouldn't be touched? I think there's nothing more delicious in a girlfriend or wife than a sexually liberated goddess. She doesn't want to screw around - she just loves sex and could do it as her job and make a lot of money. If he won't be her man outside the industry and support her, there are plenty of lucky men - including me - that would love to have the chance!


Yeah, there you go. Support her in everything she chooses to do - as long as you can control what she does. Sounds great. I guess some people get off on controlling people and making rules for people. My girl and I, we don't make rules for each other. We do what we want. There's no resentment that way. Just honesty. It might not work out, but it won't be because of lying and cheating.


I don't think marrying Jesse Jane just for her looks would be a good idea. There are a lot of good looking women - you guys should have a bit more in common, you might hate each other's guts. She does seem really nice though. But she wouldn't appreciate your "women are too loose these days" comments I'm sure. As for his future pornstar posting pix of herself... I would love to see it. I'm fortunate enough to do a volunteer job whereby I get 2-3 girls a week sending me nude pictures of themselves, asking if I think they have what it takes to be a pornstar. One of them - in May - she was a cage dancer in a PA night club - even met me and did me in Pittsburgh a few nights after she sent me the pix, so I could see if she "had it". She had it. So so so hot.

Fox

Yes Dr. Phil!

 

[xxaru]

If your girl is really good looking, then there's money to be made just by her doing photoshoots and getting a website set up for her. I've seen girls make $100,000 a year of a website alone, without being a pornstar in the industry.

 

[Ghaleon]

If your girl is really good looking, then there's money to be made just by her doing photoshoots and getting a website set up for her. I've seen girls make $100,000 a year of a website alone, without being a pornstar in the industry.

I said the exact samething in my post....

 

[BNF]

The pictures and videos will be around forever.

When you have a family.
When you go to the grocery store.
When she goes to the salon, shopping without you.
When she meets your parents.
When your kids' friends figure out how to get around parental controls on their computers.
When your coworkers (both sets), surf at home.

Sure, why not make a decision now, that will occupy 5 years at the most, but be around forever.

(Gimme a break about the money. If you really want to make money, there are plenty of better ways.)

 

[Montrealman]

I have to agree with the Pustule Dick recommendation.

 

[ÆGEAN]

if she wants to, fair enough, fair play to her... for me... i wouldnt like it at all... funny how i contradict myself but i think it would be similar to being a hooker really... I would want her to be mine...and ONLY mine, no one else's

 

[FreshFish]

The pictures and videos will be around forever.

When you have a family.
When you go to the grocery store.
When she goes to the salon, shopping without you.
When she meets your parents.
When your kids' friends figure out how to get around parental controls on their computers.
When your coworkers (both sets), surf at home.

Sure, why not make a decision now, that will occupy 5 years at the most, but be around forever.

(Gimme a break about the money. If you really want to make money, there are plenty of better ways.)

If she has a face like crissy moran, or veronica zemanova, shell never be forgoten, i still check out alot of chasy lain, racqual darrian, dyana lauren, and what if they dont want kids, and when she meets his parents, like they most likely dont know how to work a pc, for that matter download porn, they probably look up knickers:1orglaugh things parents dont know wont hurt them!

 

[smallville206]

I appreciate all the responses from everyone.

 

[thorsif]

:hit: Does she need a Co-Star :rofl: :1orglaugh

 

[Jagger69]

Out of the predicted outcomes you present, I'd say "doomed to failure" is the more likely.

 

[Gordar]

:hit: Does she need a Co-Star :rofl: :1orglaugh

Be careful, she might be a BBW! :1orglaugh

 

[Gallo69]

Be careful, she might be a BBW! :1orglaugh

Im so lost in my ebonics these days, what does BBW mean?

 

[FreshFish]

Big Boobed Woman-hell yeah
Beautiful Bodied Whitegirl-cool
Bonable Boobied Wankers-:glugglug:

 

[titsrock]

My advice is find out if your girlfriend is hot enough for porn first. Seek an opinion that matters...preferrably a model agency. You Might as well get an assessment of her prospects before you both make decisions.

Let's say she's hot enough to get a few shoots in. I would say that if you both are really meant for each other...separate for a year, let her do her thing and then come back together in a year and move on. As I understand things, most pornstar chicks barely make a year in the business. Most likely she'd have enough of it after 3 months.

I don't think it's realistic or healthy for you both to try to maintain a relationship in porn if you won't each be exclusive with each other on camera. So, unless you're willing to get in front yourself and film with her..break up.

 

[memo]

"smallville206"...........the main qustion is can u hold see ur gf having sex with strange guy every day or week????? and thinking about ur life with her .wat kind of life u will have with her if she going thourgh porn bussnise....

BNF said's good words he said's "there is many ways to make monye" if she want to do porn only for monye............
my opinion in this case if my gf want to do porn ...and she insist...smiply i will leave her even if i love her beacoz wat kind of family i will have with her ??????? ...........

 

[calpoon]

well we got every guy and girl on here that wants to bang next door nikki, so I presume that there are a fair amount of people that subscribe to her site even though she shows less than girls gone wild. hell, less than HBO. what I'm saying is that there are options for a girl to make some money and not neccesarily have to jump right into a DP with ron jeremy and lex steele.

and you are all acting like the people you dated never fucked anyone else before you guys. nice to know you christopher cunilingus, but I have a feeling that the pole has allready been mounted long before your ship landed on the beach.

we sure have a lot of saints with idieas about monogamy on here for a porn board.

it's ok for you people that have wives and girlfreind and husbands and boyfreinds to be sexually attracted and get sexual arousal from other people, so long as it's only in the Tv and magazines, and those people themselves are loose whore prostitutes though ( once again what does that say about you?) and they aren't allowed to have relationships in thier private lives?

 

[Sir Silent Bob]

My question for everyone is should I be concerned about this or encourage her. She is a very sexual person and watching porn with me makes her want to try new things. She likes the thought of everything from girl on girl to gangbangs.
We joke about it all the time, but she says she would never go into it without my blessing. She also says she could take care of me with the money she makes.
While I am a bit of a jealous person, the thought is kind of a turn on imagining my girl as a porn star, especially when she also said she would have no problems bringing girls home for me so she's not the only one having fun. Is this doomed to failure or could it be an interesting adventure?

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Now I don't mean to get off on a rant here, but...

This is a unique and tough situation to consider. Me, personally, I could never allow my girlfriend to do porn. I would never ask or allow her to do that, because I for one would consider other men sticking their cocks in my girlfriend and me KNOWING ABOUT IT AN ALLOWING IT TO GO ON extremely disrespectful to me, and any kids and family that I might have with her in the future. When little Johnny is born and sees mom taking it up the ass from some random guy on the internet for cash, how do you think it will affect him? How will it affect his relations with other children he meets? How will it affect his ability to get a girlfriend of his own? He some girls would probably be a little reluctant, thinking that they might be pressured into going on the site with the guys MOM! In making such a revolutionary decision as this one, you would have to remember that once she gets in the biz, her pics and vids will be shared and jacked off to by anyone and everyone. Also, what if she gets some sort of STD and then you get it from her? Condoms do not always work. And what if she goes on one of those sites where they are a little less than nice to the women that are being fucked? I.E. Would you be able to cope with her going on blacksonblondes.com and get slapped, choked, abused, and about 30 inches of black cock stuffed down her throat and in every hole? Sure she may support you with lots of money, but will all that money and a loose girlfriend make you a happy man when it is all said and done with? I honestly think you need to consider the scenarios that I, as well as all other posters, have put forth to you. There's a hell of a lot more to it then "Hehehe hey man, my girl friend is a porn star! hehehe!" Honestly, if a friend of mine came to me and told me he was fucking a porn star, I wouldn't think that much of him because after all, she'd have more interest in sucking my cock for a few $$$ than going home and having a nice passionate relationship with him. Quit trying to look cool and bad ass and actually think about it. After all, if you had thoroughly thought this through yourself and came up with a logical and intelligent decision on your own, you would not be posting questions like this in a public forum, for everyone like to to nitpick and ridicule. When you have considered these thoughts, as well as the almost infinite other situations and variations of what myself and others have said, come back and let us know.
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[jackomano]

If you give her the ok make sure your the only guy she performs with like Crissy Moran did with her boyfriend. Cause you don't want a bunch of random guys screwing your girlfriend. If she's going to get fucked on camarea make sure its by you.