meeting pornstars?

[spegeln]

Sab, sorry if my posting here pissed you off! That wasn't my intention at all and I really don't like to hound people for no reason. I understand that you have a busy work schedule. We all do! It's been months and I have not received a reply from you since you asked me to update my email address (the most recent message in your post). I don't deny the messages you've sent me earlier on, but since those messages I've sent you a bunch more messages (through email and PMs and not in the forum here) just for you to confirm that you indeed received my email update after your pc crashed a number of times. All I wanted to know simply was that you received my email updates.

It was awfully nice of you to invite me to come and meet you and stay with you at your place. I never denied your invite. As a matter of fact, I appreciate that a lot. I really do and I'm sure I've expressed my gratitude to you for being so magnanimous (I would send you a card or something, but I have no idea where to send it to)! I very much look forward to meeting you, but I just didn't have any indication as to when or if that will ever happen. That's all.

For anyone on the forum reading my postings, I apologize if my message came across as a generalization for what people might think of "girls-in-the-biz". Please, there's no need to spread ignorance.

I just want to tell the world that the generosity u showed me Sabrina, I think you know what I mean Is just one of the coolest thing ever happen to me. I pinch myself twice a day to see if It´s real. You are just the coolest, kindest and If offer still stands I will sell my ass on broken boulevard just to make it happen... And no, this is not about sex, just a kindhearted gesture...Love ya girl!!

 

[SabrinaDeep]

Sab, sorry if my posting here pissed you off! That wasn't my intention at all and I really don't like to hound people for no reason. I understand that you have a busy work schedule. We all do! It's been months and I have not received a reply from you since you asked me to update my email address (the most recent message in your post). I don't deny the messages you've sent me earlier on, but since those messages I've sent you a bunch more messages (through email and PMs and not in the forum here) just for you to confirm that you indeed received my email update after your pc crashed a number of times. All I wanted to know simply was that you received my email updates.

It was awfully nice of you to invite me to come and meet you and stay with you at your place. I never denied your invite. As a matter of fact, I appreciate that a lot. I really do and I'm sure I've expressed my gratitude to you for being so magnanimous (I would send you a card or something, but I have no idea where to send it to)! I very much look forward to meeting you, but I just didn't have any indication as to when or if that will ever happen. That's all.

For anyone on the forum reading my postings, I apologize if my message came across as a generalization for what people might think of "girls-in-the-biz". Please, there's no need to spread ignorance.

It's ok. I sent you the email months ago, as promised, but i have no ways to acknowledge if you got it or not; emails go into spam sometimes, some other times we delete them together with the spam by mistake. The fact is that you are the one who has something to "cash" and it should be you who make sure that your prize lands on your dick. I answer hundreds of messages and emails a day, among a million of other things and if you didn't feel like emailing me after a while to tell me that you didn't receive my email, why shall i do that? I sent you the email and for what i'm concerned you got it, therefore all i had to do it was to wait for your action. If you didn't get it, it would have been common sense to contact me again pointing that out. I hope it makes sense.

 

[luis1972]

Be kind, please...

 

[SabrinaDeep]

Be kind, please...

Some ppl confuse kindness with stupidity.

 

[squallumz]

Some ppl confuse kindness with stupidity.

some people confuse vinegar with soysauce when they are really tired.



worst. rice. ever.

 

[Aaliyah Love]

Honestly, your happiness about my answer couldn't touch me less. Your classic girl-in-the-biz question, though, defined our differences perfectly. I always took pride in being different. And still do.

Yes, how dare I ask someone who works in the same talent pool as I if she's asking the random guys on forums whom she offers sex to for std tests. It's because I'm a "classic porn girl" and not because I'm worried about my health and those who directly work with you. Come on Sabrina, you're smarter than that.

 

[Mariahxxx]

I don't go to conventions or do meet & greets like most porn girls do. I value my privacy and having a bunch of leering guys who watch you fuck and then show up to stand in line to get a pic with you is creepy to me. I'm not being bitchy I'm being honest. Most of them are very nice when you run into them and respectful but in a certain setting they can be downright pushy with unrealistic expectations. I could NEVER fuck some random person for the sake of fucking them or for content for my website. I didn't even work with male talent who I knew liked me or was looking forward to fucking me. I find it unprofessional and as double standard as it may sound I was there to do a scene which was work, and not have some guy I hardly know whispering he loves me in my ear (yes that was not uncommon with porn guys! ask any veteran porn girl and she'll tell you if she's honest!) I have been far too lucky in regards to STDs and to just go fucking random people is risky and reckless to say the least. Condoms break and don't protect you from herpes. But then again most porn girls have herpes so that's no big deal. Condoms don't protect you from Genital warts either or chlamydia of the throat is something that is far more common than I ever knew and makes you very susceptible to HIV and STDs.

I am not a typical porn chick. I'm not a swinger and I don't escort like 99% of them do and I don't live porn as my lifestyle. I don't attend porn functions and have only a few porn friends. It was a career for me, and nothing more. I had fun and made some money and met some nice people but as far as that being my lifestyle? fuck no. too much drama, too many drugs and too many people without an ounce of self respect or dignity.

if you are offended by reading this then obviously you fall into the category of the people I am mentioning. I hold no ill will towards anyone who chooses that as their way of life. I just don't want any part of it.

 

[SabrinaDeep]

Yes, how dare I ask someone who works in the same talent pool as I if she's asking the random guys on forums whom she offers sex to for std tests. It's because I'm a "classic porn girl" and not because I'm worried about my health and those who directly work with you. Come on Sabrina, you're smarter than that.

How my work would affect your health is beyond my comprehension. Your post was clearly subtle and insinuating and it wasn't just related to health issues, but also to my reliability with my fans. You have all the rights to post what you like of course, but then you should accept people's answers. If you didn't want a public answer, you could have expressed your "concerns" via a pm.

As i said, i get tested every two weeks since i entered in porn, no matter if i shoot or not; i test for all epatitis and herpes, to the contrary of SoCal girls and boys; on my productions the same tests are asked and my partners must be tested not older than one week, plus we all get tested again on site with a rapid HIV test, of which i seem to be the only supporter in the industry; i don't trust producers word on test and i always require to see the tests of my partners personally and digitally and because of this i have dropped several jobs in LA, some with some major productions who pretended and pretend to handle safety on set on my behalf. It would be nice if producers and performers in SoCal took safety on set as seriously as i do.

Well, now you know. And for the record, no harsh feelings at all: as i said, i answer questions...i just do it my own way. In fact, i really hope that Dan will pair us together soon, if you will want to oblige, because i find you really attractive and i have the feeling that you are a challenging being (and your post just confirmed this to me), which i like it a lot.

http://www.lukeisback.com/2011/09/sabina-deep-ahfs-attack-is-against-porn-not-safety/
http://www.xbiz.com/news/153220

 

[Aaliyah Love]

How my work would affect your health is beyond my comprehension. Your post was clearly subtle and insinuating and it wasn't just related to health issues, but also to my reliability with my fans. You have all the rights to post what you like of course, but then you should accept people's answers. If you didn't want a public answer, you could have expressed your "concerns" via a pm.

As i said, i get tested every two weeks since i entered in porn, no matter if i shoot or not; i test for all epatitis and herpes, to the contrary of SoCal girls and boys; on my productions the same tests are asked and my partners must be tested not older than one week, plus we all get tested again on site with a rapid HIV test, of which i seem to be the only supporter in the industry; i don't trust producers word on test and i always require to see the tests of my partners personally and digitally and because of this i have dropped several jobs in LA, some with some major productions who pretended and pretend to handle safety on set on my behalf. It would be nice if producers and performers in SoCal took safety on set as seriously as i do.

Well, now you know. And for the record, no harsh feelings at all: as i said, i answer questions...i just do it my own way. In fact, i really hope that Dan will pair us together soon, if you will want to oblige, because i find you really attractive and i have the feeling that you are a challenging being (and your post just confirmed this to me), which i like it a lot.

http://www.lukeisback.com/2011/09/sabina-deep-ahfs-attack-is-against-porn-not-safety/
http://www.xbiz.com/news/153220

Fair nuff.. but for the record, I don't care if you ever follow thru on your promises to fans. That is none of my business and doesn't effect me in any way. I was more concerned with you fucking people outside of porn (forum guys) then coming back to porn and fucking us all. aka my only concern here is that everyone in porn is being safe on camera and off, for the sake of everyone's health involved. Esp with the recent syphilis and now hep scare. I'm a hypochondriac who does everything I can to be safe and I just hope everyone else is too.

 

[Mariahxxx]

there is no such thing as safe porn shoots. a week old test means zero. ZERO. what happens in that week is all that matters. girls escort between tests. many do so without condoms for extra money. they show up on set the next day and everyone involved is exposed to anything she was exposed to the night before. I was shooting for West Coast years ago and we were in a limo driving up sunset and saw a young hooker. mr marcus had the limo driver pull over and he got her in the car. he went down on her...OFF camera!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have never worked with him since. so if he shot the next day or any day between that day and his next test imagine what was possibly passed around. that shit goes on all the time. dont even get me started on cross over talent shooting straight scenes. they dont even test in gay porn.

the most susceptible place to get an STD is through the eye, and where are 90% of all cum shots aimed?

 

[Mariahxxx]

One other bit of advice.. if you have a girlfriend don't let her know you are going to the club. About 5 years ago I had a girlfriend that was Latina and she caught me getting a lap dance and stormed into the club and found me in the couch room. I thought she was going to hit me but she assaulted the girl giving me the dance. That turned out to be a big problem for her and extra work and a lot of talking for me to get her out of the trouble she was in.

Those latina chicks have hot blood and bad tempers.

get the fuck outta here! are you serious?????????

 

[SabrinaDeep]

there is no such thing as safe porn shoots. a week old test means zero. ZERO. what happens in that week is all that matters. girls escort between tests. many do so without condoms for extra money. they show up on set the next day and everyone involved is exposed to anything she was exposed to the night before. I was shooting for West Coast years ago and we were in a limo driving up sunset and saw a young hooker. mr marcus had the limo driver pull over and he got her in the car. he went down on her...OFF camera!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have never worked with him since. so if he shot the next day or any day between that day and his next test imagine what was possibly passed around. that shit goes on all the time. dont even get me started on cross over talent shooting straight scenes. they dont even test in gay porn.

the most susceptible place to get an STD is through the eye, and where are 90% of all cum shots aimed?

Of course there is not 100% safe sex unless you don't have sex and even then, well...there are other ways to get ill. The biggest problem is common sense and responsibility when lacked and unfortunately many people fail on that level; all i can do is to be responsible for my part and to stress the next to do the same on their part. Of course the risk is always there. However, i keep believing that rapid tests on site right before a shooting would be a good deterrent for people like mr. marcus and some girls who do exactly the same. Far from being the final solution, but somehow a deterrent.
I'll be going to eat the best paella in town, later this evening, and i'll think of you

 

[Mariahxxx]

enjoy it

 

[spegeln]

Then i am 100 % safe...You could almost call me a monk or plain ugly, lol!

 

[UnderBro]

I never met a pornstar in person before. If you want to meet one just go to an adult convention.

 

[Mariahxxx]

if you are a porn fan I would suggest not meeting one. more often than not its a tremendous disappointment.

 

[CrimsonBolt]

most porn girls have herpes

really? :eek: do you have herpes?

 

[Mariahxxx]

nope I dont but more than 70% of the industry does.

 

[Mariahxxx]

“Let me tell you a secret, in this business everybody has herpes, myself included. Every professional in the porn-world has herpes, male or female. It’s the smallest thing you can get, it’s really nothing serious.” - Rocco Siffredi

not quiet everyone, but most. According to AIM in 2008 they were nearly positive that AT LEAST 70% had herpes but there is no requirement for testing for herpes.

 

[bw18081]

if you are a porn fan I would suggest not meeting one. more often than not its a tremendous disappointment.

I imagine as would be the case meeting anyone (regardless of profession) simply for the fact that person is famous, especially if one is a fan of their work as the meeting likely won't live up to the hype one feels about said work.